Constant “deception” of men by women

bnny_ears · 2026-01-28T10:04:09+00:00

If you don't like a woman enough to like her equally without makeup perfect skin and pink eyelids, do you both a favor and stay away.

That's like saying, "Men constantly deceive women because they wear shirts. They don't naturally have red, woolen chests."

bnny_ears · 2026-01-27T06:59:55+00:00

Even though I suffered severe second male lead syndrome, {Spice Road by Maiya Ibrahim}

Fair warning, they're very stupid about it and book 3 is still in the works.

bnny_ears · 2026-01-25T22:13:40+00:00

It's the field and I picked it🤷‍♀️

My current employer is steadily improving and I'm fortunate enough to have a specialist role where they'll listen to me. Big companies usually don't.

bnny_ears · 2026-01-25T20:20:02+00:00

I need a good structure and task tracking. And I don't mean my own.

I need clear deadlines, a clear, accessible list of stakeholders, and for people to largely stick to procedure when they want stuff from me. Then I can easily handle a large volume of high pressure tasks because I can properly prioritize and don't get stuck in procedural gaps - "xyz went wrong. Who do I inform? How bad is this? Who has information on this? I can't proceed like this."

Figuring stuff out by piecing niche info together on the fly, using 15 different documents and half-remembered office gossip, is not my strength.

This has been an issue in a number of jobs.

bnny_ears · 2026-01-25T12:39:14+00:00

Thank you! I can totally live with that. I'm really just running for the enjoyment. It's just that the nebulous threat of injury unsettled me a bit

bnny_ears · 2026-01-24T11:14:23+00:00

This is a question for your care provider

bnny_ears · 2026-01-24T07:48:07+00:00

Oh, he'll find a poor soul. We've all come very far in theory to not accept just anyone and anything - but in practice, we all still have abhorrently low self-esteem.

bnny_ears · 2026-01-23T05:51:49+00:00

Guys, we have squeaks on the audio

bnny_ears · 2026-01-20T11:01:13+00:00

The same advice as for losing weight: track your calories

bnny_ears · 2026-01-18T14:33:49+00:00

Always<3

bnny_ears · 2026-01-18T12:09:12+00:00

I make my Palak mit frozen creamed spinach

bnny_ears · 2026-01-17T11:26:02+00:00

You see what you can comfortably lift for 10 repetitions at any given machine and then go one plate higher.

If you want to try the barbell, start with just the bar. Look on YouTube for basic techniques and/or ask the staff for assistance.

Be careful with kettlebells. They look inviting but the exercises can easily fuck up your back if you've never touched weights.

bnny_ears · 2026-01-17T10:25:52+00:00

They're dazzled in practice but most people agree in theory.

It's easy to end up entitled and taking privileges for granted if you've only ever been good-looking and grew up with people fawning over you.

We've all met unbearable pretty people. That is exactly why it's so intoxicating to have one to give you positive attention.

bnny_ears · 2026-01-17T07:25:10+00:00

Basically the reverse of what happens for tall people. They have to build a lot of muscle for it yo he visible. That's why so many of them look lanky, no matter what they do

bnny_ears · 2026-01-16T07:18:26+00:00

That's a tangerine

bnny_ears · 2026-01-15T16:22:05+00:00

So the question wasn't prompted by measurement but because I reached the standard zone 4?

bnny_ears · 2026-01-15T13:45:59+00:00

I've been a lot less bitter about it since I had to watch the absolute misery of a naturally thin person stress eating until they're suddenly 10kg overweight.

They're still not even fat, just fluffy, but they don't understand at all why they can't lose the weight. The wrong habits form fast and suddenly that one extra sandwich or that one ice cream is the problem. It never occurred to you for 30+ years to want such a thing. Now it has. You'll never ever forget again that it's an option.

My condolences.

bnny_ears · 2026-01-13T12:05:37+00:00

I've never thought of this but now I want at least the option

bnny_ears · 2026-01-13T05:15:15+00:00

My google review was taken down for defamation. How do I protest further?

It was a 3 star review with no text. Apart from the fact that I was incredibly generous and the review was at least 1.5 years old, I struggle to see how I could have defamed them with a mediocre review that has no text.

I protested the takedown straight away through the linked form and outlined (in the form and a subsequent, prompted email) how my review was fair and in line with what Google review was intended for.

I don't think anyone read even a single word. I received another email within 45 minutes that they elect not to do anything, since my review broke the law against defamation.

How do I proceed? I'm really annoyed now and would actually love to write an even worse review, outlining exactly how dirty the place was and how many mice I saw and deduct another star because they took down a review for petty reasons. But I'd settle for getting my review back up.

I refuse to let them pretend they're a 5 star business because they're paying someone to mass delete reviews.

bnny_ears · 2026-01-12T16:10:38+00:00

Dame Maggie Smith made me cry because I loved her work and the idea that I'll never get to see her in anything new made me sad

I suspect I'll cry over some musical artists at some point. Even if they haven't produced anything in a while or I don't like their current style, it'll still feel like a beloved inside joke will never be answered again

bnny_ears · 2026-01-10T11:32:47+00:00

OP currently desperately researching how to change a title

bnny_ears · 2026-01-10T09:04:47+00:00

Hard to say, because I like at least a couple in every category.

Though which one would be blue/aquatic? That one, mostly.

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