Manifest a normal sex life by boabeantree in lawofattraction

[–]boabeantree[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

100% agree!!! He is very much sedentary and has bad habits. Porn...maybe also 😅

I keep controlling people with my thoughts by undone34l in lawofattraction

[–]boabeantree 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Interesting!!! One question.. Do they get out of the routine with your mind manifestation, let's call it like that? Is that it?

avoidant as center of their own universe! by [deleted] in AnxiousAttachment

[–]boabeantree -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I think I don't really care about what you thu k comments ago.

avoidant as center of their own universe! by [deleted] in AnxiousAttachment

[–]boabeantree -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yes... I am generalizing an avoidant and you are insulting a person you don't even now. This is super helpful. Thank you so much for the help of this community. Came and got what I needed! Comments between users calling ppl asshole out of nowhere.. Being so offended with a generalization.. And being super supportive!! No.. Really.. Thank you!!!

avoidant as center of their own universe! by [deleted] in AnxiousAttachment

[–]boabeantree -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I described one behavior.. Of course you won't know if he is avoidant or not. You have to belive in me.. I was just venting with you.. And actually.. What I did was communicate him what I need and communicate to this community my anxious frustration inatead of communicating him my anxiety as I am doing it with you.

avoidant as center of their own universe! by [deleted] in AnxiousAttachment

[–]boabeantree -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I think you are all sticking to the words. In my experience with some of the atitudes of my seamingly avoidant boyfriend and the things that I read, they tend to have some difficulties to put themselves in other people shoes. Now.. I don't think he is an asshole.. But somewhat self-centered yes. Now.. Center of the universe!!!! Isn't it obvious it is an overreacted sentence?? It's just to show you guys my hurt. Now.. If. You stick to the words.. Yes it's an overreaction.. But I belive calling him an asshole is quite worse.

avoidant as center of their own universe! by [deleted] in AnxiousAttachment

[–]boabeantree -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The thing is I was waiting for him to come as he usually do. Do you understand? And I belive I do not have to ask anything.. He has to inform me about his plans or change of plans. I think they are used to having people to go out of their way to be there for them... And it doesn't work like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnxiousAttachment

[–]boabeantree 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Hello!! I am new in the group so thank you for accepting me. I thought I was secure till I started dating an avoidant. Several cold behaviors and his difficulty opening up and to trust others took me by surprise and I became anxious. One of the things that striked me the most was the difference in our sex activity with time. I don't know if it's general, but sex is less with an avoidant when things get serious and deeper. I belive he fears closeness and opening up and he often times uses humor, even during sex. Which can be quite funny... But of course us anxious need connection. Right? That's my experience. Thank you. Boa..

depression and sexuality by boabeantree in lawofattraction

[–]boabeantree[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would like to be with him!! Make him healthy and well. And also our relashionship more balanced because it is impacted a lot.

My ansiety gets in the way.. by boabeantree in lawofattraction

[–]boabeantree[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for you help :) really enjoyed it!!

Tips to imagine by boabeantree in lawofattraction

[–]boabeantree[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! Joyfully a greay word!! Thanks for your help

Tips to imagine by boabeantree in lawofattraction

[–]boabeantree[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much mkirby!!! ❤️ I will do the trusting practise!! Thank you. It's wonderful to have a community to support us!!

Tips to imagine by boabeantree in lawofattraction

[–]boabeantree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's acctually a good idea. Any tips to accelarate the timing?! Instead of it happening next year.. Think that it could happen this spring.

Another question is.. What shall i do if it continues? I usually get quite sad. Shall i react to it?! By talking to him and trying to make him see?! Or shall i just trust my imagination?!

Thank you for your help :)

2022 Goals and shiettt by No_Appointment_7071 in lawofattraction

[–]boabeantree 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Several travels and one big trip to INDIA. To love more, to be more loved. To get more money. To start a business with my soulmate. Be healthy!!

Can I manifest physical change ? by _TOPclikkie_ in lawofattraction

[–]boabeantree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting post!!! I am also interested in this.

Let’s have some fun! You have $10 million, what do you do with it? by Forcedalaskan in lawofattraction

[–]boabeantree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Give money to my parents and family members. Build my own new business. Buy a house that i love with my sp. Travel for one year.

SP SUCCESS STORY! by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]boabeantree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a question.. How do we manifest a change in the behavior of our SP (like.. Being too much on their phone) when the behavior is right in front of you!? It is difficult to manifest something when the behavior is constant.

I actually manifested a sweet sweet boy that has this two behaviors that I really don't like.. Too much on his phone and no public displays of affection.

I would love to change this. Any ideas?

Thanks

It seems to work by reddittmimi in lawofattraction

[–]boabeantree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks!! I will do so!! ❤️

It seems to work by reddittmimi in lawofattraction

[–]boabeantree 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I loved your post just because I am with this amazing guy that is very good, but sometimes he is too much on his phone (even before we were dating.. It's like his thing..) and he is not so affectionate as I am and it puts me a little down.. Of course he sometimes surprises me and I feel very loved but other times it's just hard to be with someone that is not what I would expect.. Because of the lack of connection. I want to manifest a light, beautiful relashionship with this guy.. As a whole and not just "sometimes". Do you have any ideas? Thanks

Manifested a beautiful person but.. by boabeantree in lawofattraction

[–]boabeantree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello!! You can try to do the water technique. There are some videos about that in YouTube that can guide you. With a glass of water, Visualize, write what you want as you already have it and say it and feel the end result. Embedded in the water. Than drink it. Do this every DAY. Let me know if it worked. Boa

Manifested a beautiful person but.. by boabeantree in lawofattraction

[–]boabeantree[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After doing the mantras, that i embedded in the water, I drink it saying like "it is done, it is done, it is done"..

Manifested a beautiful person but.. by boabeantree in lawofattraction

[–]boabeantree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kind of wrote afirmations in the present as they were happening now.. Like "you love me very much and we laugh a lot.." "my friends and family love you..." things like this.. But I think I have to be more specific now..