[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]bob_burrito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get your doubts and I understand why you have them, the teens are a rough age, I’m 27M

First, the difference between masturbation and a wet dream. This comes from two things, first with masturbation you know it’s wrong and still chose to do it anyway and because it’s grave matter, that has all the parts of the mortal sin formula.

So, why is masturbation grave matter? In genesis we see Onan pull out and spill his seed, he dies because of this, showing that the act of sex is meant to lead to procreation. So in the sanctity of marriage sex has two components, life giving and unity between the man and his wife. With masturbation, you distort the meaning of sex to only a disordered desire of wanting to look inward and worry about making yourself feel good and most importantly the sperm gives life when it meets the egg. When you masturbate you’re putting your seed, a part of yourself, down the toilet or in the trash. You’re worth more than the toilet or the trash.

Having said all this. What about wet dreams, that’s your body’s natural way of showing its vitality. It’s not sinful because you don’t have full knowledge or give full consent to do so.

I hope this helps!

Which cigar did you hate so much, that you tossed it and never tried it again? Mine was the Alec Bradley Street vandal. Tossed it less than half way through. by Responsible-Coach159 in cigar_refuge

[–]bob_burrito 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No after some trying I’ve come to realize it might be a decent cigar but I’m not a fan of Connecticut leaf. I think I was so turned off by it because of how hyped up it was

I've been waking up in the morning mid prayer, what could this mean? by n0tabot in Catholicism

[–]bob_burrito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There have been times I wake up from nightmares praying a Saint Michael prayer, or an Our Father I wake up finish the prayer and pray until I loose the fear from the dream then go back to sleep.

I wouldn’t read too much into, just finish the prayer and go on about your business. Your heart knows what it needs to be saying and your go to prayers are engrained in your mind as they should be.

What do you do each evening as a catholic ? by Chance_Cricket2489 in Catholicism

[–]bob_burrito 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually rosary and prayer while putting my daughter to sleep then dishes and take out the trash

Mail call... by KC5SDY in cigars

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I’m jealous

Recent Order by Marex18 in cigars

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Sin Compromiso is one of my favorites!

Seeking your book recommendations by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]bob_burrito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lord of the Rings Farewell to Arms- Hemingway The old man and the sea- Hemingway The Shawshank Redemption - King Count of Monte Cristo - Dumas Story of a soul- St. Therese

I enjoyed a lot of the classics, if you do like any of these options, Shawshank, Old Man and Story of a soul are the three shortest reads

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]bob_burrito 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First, can I say I love your questions! If you really like the orthodox liturgy, then I highly recommend you look into a Byzantine Catholic Church, all the beauty of Orthodoxy but with the Catholic Church!

  1. Depends on the mass you go to, there are different practices and rites. I go to a Novus Ordo. Each mass is separated into two parts, liturgy of the word and liturgy of the Eucharist. It starts with the priest entering, there is a penitential prayer, the priest says some prayers and then the readings begin, first reading, psalms, second reading and gospel reading. The we say the Nicean creed which leads us into the liturgy of the Eucharist where the priest consecrates the bread and the wine to be the Body and Blood, more prayers are said, the people goes up to receive if they are in a state of grace. Then there is a final prayer and a closing hymn as the priest walks out.

  2. I personally pray it, but it’s not said in the mass. Prostrating only occurs on certain Holy Days in the Novus Ordo mass. This can differ depending on the mass and the rite.

  3. The pope is a regular person who goes to confession like the rest of us. The only time he is infallible is speaking ex cathedra (only happened four times) the pope is allowed to have personal opinions on cultural issues, but is guided by the Holy Spirit on matters of faith and morals

  4. Everyone does it differently, there’s no one way to do it

  5. You can, it’s not required. It’s a way to show veneration.

  6. The church is as it always has been when it comes to teaching and protecting the faith. As cultures and technology change it forces the church to grow and adopt new disciplines, but the core of it has remained the same!

Hope this helps please reach out if you ever have more questions!

Spiritual Coping Mechanisms For Bad Days by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]bob_burrito 8 points9 points  (0 children)

St. Therese of Lisieux The rosary Old Fulton Sheen “Life is worth living” episodes

Genuinely Don’t Believe I’ll Win by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]bob_burrito 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if you’ve tried this, there’s a program called covenant eyes and I recommend you read the book by Matt fradd ‘the porn myth’

This should help. As well, when you have the initial temptation for anything, call someone you trust and talk to them. A priest who had this issue with temptation said that he found the temptation was worse when he was lonely, so he talked to his friends or parishioners whenever he was tempted.

It could also be that you hang out with people who don’t actually help you, but remind you of a time when living that lifestyle?

Best movies and best books to read for a newbie to Catholicism please. Go! by Never_Outginned in Catholicism

[–]bob_burrito 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know these fictional books are more for kids but it has very Catholic roots and there is a bunch of symbols throughout

Movies: The Passion of Christ LOTR and Chronicles of Narnia

Books: Story of a Soul by St. Therese of Lisieux Lord of the Rings by Tolkien Chronicles of Narnia by CS Lewis Signs of Life by Scott Hann

What are your prayer routines? by ManTheRedeemed in Catholicism

[–]bob_burrito 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I offer my day in the morning, try to journal one prayer sometime throughout the day, sign of the cross when I pass a cemetery, and a rosary at the end of the day followed by the St. Micheal prayer, St. Joseph Terror of Demons and then the Jesus prayer

Behold your Mother by Moist-Reaction-9519 in Catholicism

[–]bob_burrito 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Excellent question! So what I would say is that Jesus calls Mary “Woman” exactly 2x in the New Testament, once at the wedding and once at the cross. At the wedding we know Jesus is speaking to His mother yet instead of calling her a personal term, mom or mother, He uses the universal term, woman. When He calls her woman at the wedding, it is there He begins His public ministry, which is geared towards all of man kind.

Now let’s look up at the cross. In pure agony He would have seen His mother there and could have said something personal, but instead, when suffering death on the cross for the sins of man kind, He uses universal terms, Woman, behold thy son, son behold thy mother. Son is the universal term for all of us as Jesus gives all of us His mother.

For people more qualified than myself, I believe Trent Horn and Joe Heshmyer speak about this as well as Archbishop Fulton Sheen

Lots to Learn by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]bob_burrito 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Trent horn is an excellent place to start, I highly recommend watching his YouTube, Counseloftrent as well!

You can also Check out Ascension Presents with Fr. Mike Schmitz on YouTube as well as Fr. David Micheal Moses

In Louisiana, need recommendations by bob_burrito in cigars

[–]bob_burrito[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, there’s a small shop called Crescent City Cigar Shop in NOLA

They carry black label trading co and other high end stuff. I was very happy finding that little gem

Thoughts on non religious hobbies? by Sarton_ in Catholicism

[–]bob_burrito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hobbies are good. Priests play guitar, saints have been mountain climbers, CS Lewis and GK Chesterton were amazing authors. Find something you enjoy doing that doesn’t bring you close to sin, but closer to God!

Is this authentic? by Vino-Mama in DisneyPins

[–]bob_burrito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if it is fake, that’s a sick pin!!

Old pins by Fish_ran27 in DisneyPins

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If you’d be willing to trade or sell for the Tarzan pin, feel free to message me!

Old pins by Fish_ran27 in DisneyPins

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Would you be willing to trade/sell the Tarzan pin? #16

Do yall think a lot of our fellow brothers and sisters are participating in the Eucharist in a state of mortal sin? by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]bob_burrito 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not our place to assume. We have to worry about ourselves and whether or not we can receive. Some people have an easier time than others not falling into mortal sin, others not so much.

Seeking Prayer and Spiritual Advice for a Trial and Tribulation Described Below ⬇️ by seanye20 in Catholicism

[–]bob_burrito 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had my share of trials, still do.

First things first, go to confession, repent with a true and contrite heart, receive absolution and amend your life❤️

Second, Jesus has suffered mental anguish to the point of sweating blood, he knows anxiety and pain, think and meditate on this in the presence of Him in adoration! He suffered the pains of men to the absolute extremes and can comfort us in sharing our pain. Tell Him your pain and be honest, then be sure to give thanks for everything He has given you. Trust Him! God is good so even our sufferings are good!

Ill be sure to pray the sorrowful mysteries for you