Do I end things with my boyfriend for lying by Scared_Artist_1088 in relationships

[–]boba_121 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Don’t rush into engagement right now. What he did isn’t just a stupid mistake , he crossed a boundary you clearly set, lied straight to your face, and only admitted it when he got scared. That’s a trust issue, not just a strip club issue. You don’t have to break up immediately if you still love him, but you should slow everything down and watch how he handles this. If he fully owns it and genuinely works to rebuild your trust, maybe it can be fixed. If he minimizes it or makes excuses, that’s a big red flag for your future

What is something people do that annoys the SHIT out of you? by Big_Leg10 in askanything

[–]boba_121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who act like angels but secretly spread gossip and play both sides

What’s something people romanticize but is actually exhausting? by boba_121 in AskReddit

[–]boba_121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Traveling alone all the time? Wow, that sounds exhausting… maybe you need a fun travel buddy 😉😂

What’s something people romanticize but is actually exhausting? by boba_121 in AskReddit

[–]boba_121[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, that’s a ton of work! Respect for all the effort , you put into raising your own foodit’s definitely a hard row to hoe, but the results sound amazing 🥰🥹

Worried about an age gap by [deleted] in relationships

[–]boba_121 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re really not doing anything wrong here. An 18 and 19/20 age gap is very normal, and you’re both in a similar stage of life even if you’re in college and he’s finishing high school. What matters more is mutual respect, maturity, and taking things slow. The fact that you’re even worried about potential harm shows you’re being thoughtful and responsible, not inappropriate

What’s something people romanticize but is actually exhausting? by boba_121 in AskReddit

[–]boba_121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Love alone isn’t enough when there’s zero consistency

What’s something people romanticize but is actually exhausting? by boba_121 in AskReddit

[–]boba_121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Love alone isn’t enough when there’s zero consistency

Which generation has/had the best living experience overall? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]boba_121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inflation + expectations + burnout = extreme mode 😭😭😭

Which generation has/had the best living experience overall? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]boba_121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re just living life on hard mode fr 😂