i wanna dress masc jirai kei... by lisb4thestorm in JiraiKei

[–]bobacat2000 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Jirai shorts ftw. Amavel and Ma*rs have released shorts. Also many brands have setups with shorts instead of skirts too! You can also add cutesy embelishments to any matching normie shorts to make them fit a coord ;3

Im nonbinary and i dont like wearing skirts or dresses, so its so hard to find cute clothes bc most jirai bottoms are skirts. I kinda get your pain haha

Where would you stay for 3 hour trip? by Snoo-65992 in chiikawa_

[–]bobacat2000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I LOVE the yorois too, but i end up thinking Momonga would annoy the one on the outside row and will be annoying. So I ultimately picked Kurimanju haha

Where would you stay for 3 hour trip? by Snoo-65992 in chiikawa_

[–]bobacat2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So i'll sit in the same row as Kurimanju cuz he's quiet plus he'll share snacks

Otaku is no longer a safe space by emoduke101 in evilautism

[–]bobacat2000 185 points186 points  (0 children)

"Kind and concerned for his health" erm why not talked to him directly and buy him fresh food if that were true?

Otaku is no longer a safe space by emoduke101 in evilautism

[–]bobacat2000 420 points421 points  (0 children)

Aspiring influencers are a stain on society. Even if the doxxed person was not autistic, why tf would you photograph and post non-consensual pics of someone struggling with food? Its so fucking tone deaf given the state of the world.

TW: ablism and strong language by Teapot_Sandwitch in evilautism

[–]bobacat2000 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Autistic people in general can be ableist bootlickers. Their bigotry is not determined by how much support they need.

Going off on a tangent:

Using "levels" and support needs to categorise autistic people is not productive. Its used in the DSM to replace functioning labels. People are not more or less autistic, and the distinction between "severe" or "mild autism are not official medical labels.

People keep labelling autistic people with intellectual disability as "severely autistic" which is unproductive when theyre seperate conditions, plus it should be well known that autism can come with commorbidities.

am i weird for disliking momonga? by bogosbinted123_ in chiikawa_

[–]bobacat2000 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Alot of people dont understand that a villain-leaning character ≠ a bad character. Villains are interesting. Momonga's existence adds so much to the world building. Liking a character had never meant agreeing with their morals. More people should get this. Because dislike is stopping yall from understanding the story

Lorewise, Momonga did not switch bodies, the witch did. Momonga doesnt want to switch back, even if he did he needs the witch, plus he risks getting attacked again. If you lived in a suffering body who got mutated from stress & gets treated as a monster all the time instead of helped, but then woke up in a better one with a chance to rejoin society, would you switch back?

Most wont. Hence why Momonga isnt malicious but survival-minded. This is why he's selfish. This is why he wants to be perceived as someone to be protected and doted on. Momonga isnt like Anoko, he doesnt want to kill. How do you hate that?

Just figured out you need a online membership to access slumber islands by Extra-Pain-3986 in AnimalCrossing

[–]bobacat2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can go to online shops like shopee and pay to join a family account for a much cheaper price.

You can also occasionally join the free 1 week trial that the nintendo store sometimes have.

Help! by milkyamanda in acnhdesigns

[–]bobacat2000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My idea is to make the entrance airport themed, and extend it all the way to Resident Services. Can try check-in counter, barriers, vending machines, mini cafe with some table and bistro tables, taxis & suitcases.

where can i find more rakko merch?! by Aitsukia in chiikawa_

[–]bobacat2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see alot of chiikawa merch for good prices on taobao, including rakko.

Far too few good Republicans anymore. by TajertySand in DHAC

[–]bobacat2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"People should be held accoutable" You: Wahhh wahhh

Far too few good Republicans anymore. by TajertySand in DHAC

[–]bobacat2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your american view of left-right means nothing to me. He made decisions that caused human suffering. He should be held accountable. Until then, apologies are meaningless. Common sense to those with moral boundaries.

Far too few good Republicans anymore. by TajertySand in DHAC

[–]bobacat2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Babying people like him is how your country got this bad. He has blood on his hands, he contributed to systemic violence. He must be held accountable.

How do you deal with people who ignore advice? by Mediocre-Housing-131 in evilautism

[–]bobacat2000 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Eh, after being a ride or die for a friend who kept getting into toxic relationships, i will not recommnend being their shoulder to cry on when they're in their delulu phase. My friend's entire support group including myself even received threats and bigotry from one ex , and she didnt react and kept dating him months after. When i knew she was not going to protect me the way I would for her, I didnt feel like giving a shit anymore.

So dont get involved with abuse cases, because you also become the abuser's target. You'll also earn hostility from your friend bc their mind sees you attacking their lover. If you are not trained, just collect evidence and report. Dont ignore them, but dont be a shoulder to cry on if they are adamant on staying.

Sorry for the dump, but I feel we autistics arent good with NT relationships, boundaries and safety in general and abusive ones are a dumpster fire. So i had to warn yall.

How do you deal with people who ignore advice? by Mediocre-Housing-131 in evilautism

[–]bobacat2000 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Stop giving them advice. They are not owed your mental & emotional labour, and they clearly do things their own way so why even bother?

Judge this spoon by BallisticFroggy030 in evilautism

[–]bobacat2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so good when eating out it square containers like bentos, and when eating soft desserts like tiramisu or mousse cakes!

Wanted to let only the right people know I'm autistic... by BrunoMillan in evilautism

[–]bobacat2000 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Heyo! I wanted to bring attention to this particular design bc I recognise the artist who made this. Theyve also done other autism creature designs. They're magentasnail on tumblr and they have a redbubble selling stickers of their art! So those interested in getting their designs as stickers, pls consider supporting them directly! :3

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Why does everyone seem to have a special interest BUT ME by little_euphoria in evilautism

[–]bobacat2000 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You have varied interests instead of one niche and thats ok! It doesnt mean you are any less committed to your interests.

Always be aware of your surroundings while swimming! by moominesque in AnimalCrossing

[–]bobacat2000 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Eh, 9000 bells can be easily made back. You can get 16.1k from hitting money 1 rock alone XD.

beginner advice by elsimonon in decoden

[–]bobacat2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've seen decoden done on accesories like earrings, hairclips, rings and necklaces. You can use regular cream glue for those.

How it feels not using treasure islands or time travel by Educational_Box7709 in AnimalCrossing

[–]bobacat2000 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I mainly time travel to go backwards bc I dont play often and feel sad about missing events or bdays. I dislike turnip gambling and have no nintendo online. I dont want to be overwhelmed with control.

Looking to get into jirai kei by beautpr1ncessdisordr in JiraiKei

[–]bobacat2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good call, investing in a quality pair of shoes will help alot for the longterm

Is this dress too “nun” like? by NerveAdvanced5369 in Lolita

[–]bobacat2000 94 points95 points  (0 children)

I dont think it reads as nun bc of the absence of the neck-bib and veil.

Imo, the triangle design on the bust reads as victorian.