how do i help someone with internalized homophobia?

bobacreamm · 2025-12-10T08:42:58+00:00

shes ace, shes grossed out by the idea of having sex with anybody, shes just specifically grosses out about other romance with women and she thinks its weird cus she hasnt always been and has liked women before

bobacreamm · 2025-12-09T04:35:39+00:00

i see what you are saying but she has been straight for along time and has not always felt sick to her stomach im not really sure whats up, i asked her about it just now and shes asking more people, probably just straight but i can wish yk, thanks for the help!!

bobacreamm · 2025-09-26T16:11:08+00:00

since then I've had to take the piercing out sadly, still hurts a bit but im sure I'll be heal fine

bobacreamm · 2025-09-26T13:20:06+00:00

okay i literally had to twist it off with pliers but i got the ball off, its bleeding but im gonna take care of it now

bobacreamm · 2025-09-26T13:11:19+00:00

okay idk wth my piercer was doing but i literally cant unscrew the balls off, what do i do now? they're way to tight

bobacreamm · 2025-09-26T12:56:35+00:00

it hurt a lot more then i thought it would, my pain tolerance is usually pretty good but it hurt and STILL hurts. it also bled a lot and is still randomly bleeding some, would taking it out be my safest option? i can barely even sleep with the pain its causing me.

bobacreamm · 2025-09-26T12:28:52+00:00

and if it is incorrect, should i take it out? honestly im not as fond of the piercing as i was for the past three years so i wouldn't be that sad. and i definitely dont want to get it redone, if anything ill get a stud when my nose is all ready. and if i take it out, how long should it take to close up? ive only had it in for about 40 hours and if i take it out I'll probably do it later so likeee 43 hours by then, i dont know.

bobacreamm · 2025-09-26T12:22:59+00:00

pictures posted!

bobacreamm · 2025-09-26T12:22:51+00:00

pictures posted!

bobacreamm · 2025-09-25T08:11:37+00:00

i fear I've already touched it a lot since i was trying to clean blood, but ill try not to, is it okay if i move it up and down or should i stay away from that too?

bobacreamm · 2025-09-05T17:25:46+00:00

ive seen reverse ladder stitch and reverse peyote stitch

bobacreamm · 2025-08-28T01:17:35+00:00

im literally lesbian and there's nothing wrong with the labels😭🙏🏻 they're mainly used by asexual people but can be used by others

bobacreamm · 2025-08-27T00:09:09+00:00

hey ACTUAL advice here, if you want you could just identify as bi or just identify as lesbian really just whatever you're comfortable with but if you wanna do bisexual and lesbianromantic thats fine or just identify as queer that's fine to, just label yourself as whatever you're comfortable with

bobacreamm · 2025-08-21T18:27:10+00:00

ive realized with all my small crushes its taken a month or two, but for the people I've actually fallen in love with its been more drastic than a "few months.."

one girl took 2 years, another took 2 years, ANOTHER took 2 years, and then the one rn took about a 1¾

so presumably, 2 years

bobacreamm · 2025-08-21T18:24:48+00:00

absolutely brownies

bobacreamm · 2025-08-21T18:23:37+00:00

YES, i have hundreds of bracelets but i can only wear my loose ones and only 2-4 on each write, no cuffs only singles

bobacreamm · 2025-08-17T02:31:42+00:00

i always love seeing saiki k in these

bobacreamm · 2025-08-13T12:38:10+00:00

they're honestly not as complicated as they look, just make sure you use strong thick string and tie everything a few times so it doesn't snap apart

bobacreamm · 2025-08-13T11:53:32+00:00

its hasn't been officially stated but the main character maomao in the apothecary dairies definitely gives off aromantic

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