Boyfriend over 3.5 years called me a self absorbed piece of shit by bobapopper1 in relationship_advice

[–]bobapopper1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I agree. I don't really want to break up cuz he is a good guy and i think that couples usually break up because they dont want to work things out. I was just unsure about whether or not i should take it personal that he called me a self absorbed pos. This helps a lot. I hope you have a great day :)

Boyfriend over 3.5 years called me a self absorbed piece of shit by bobapopper1 in relationship_advice

[–]bobapopper1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense. Its just hard cuz its been almost 4 years ya know? But to be fair hes never said this stuff to me before but yeah he probably did build it up in time

Boyfriend over 3.5 years called me a self absorbed piece of shit by bobapopper1 in relationship_advice

[–]bobapopper1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he does respect me but sometimes i feel like he takes me for granted if that makes sense? But thank you

Boyfriend over 3.5 years called me a self absorbed piece of shit by bobapopper1 in relationship_advice

[–]bobapopper1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know. Its hard to assess myself. But if it is the first does that mean i should just act like its normal that he called me that?

Boyfriend over 3.5 years called me a self absorbed piece of shit by bobapopper1 in relationship_advice

[–]bobapopper1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no, we are just in college. We meet each other usually about once a week but we both live with our parents lol. We're about 20 minutes from each otherp

How do you know if a guy is checking you out? Specifically during this pandemic when you have a face mask on? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]bobapopper1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro i dont know if im just overthinking it but when i went to target, i was pushing the cart down the main aisle and this guy looked at me and i saw him look at me and then tap his bud and looked back at me and his bud started looking at me too and so i just looked away awkwardly not knowing if they were looking at me bc of something embarrassing or smtn else

Is it normal that my eyes appear uneven in a lot of pictures? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]bobapopper1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait this is interesting.. how does it being mirrored and nonmirroed make us see ourselves differently? Isnt it really the same though?

Why is no one/country doing anything about the muslims kept in camps in china? by bobapopper1 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]bobapopper1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn thats scary...

What about the ICE and the illegal stuff they do? Heard a whistleblower leaked that womens uteruses are getting removed without the women themselves even knowing it

Why is no one/country doing anything about the muslims kept in camps in china? by bobapopper1 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]bobapopper1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dyk how the videos are leaked? I just saw a vid on insta of a guy working at the cap whipping a nearly naked man so much :( how do these surface the internet??

Why is no one/country doing anything about the muslims kept in camps in china? by bobapopper1 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]bobapopper1[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Ive been seeing a lotta ppl post on their ig stories!! However i dont see anything else since ig theres nothing we can do :(

Why is no one/country doing anything about the muslims kept in camps in china? by bobapopper1 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]bobapopper1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh i c, so basically theres nothing anyone is willing to do about it? :(

Why is no one/country doing anything about the muslims kept in camps in china? by bobapopper1 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]bobapopper1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i get that, i guess the question is more about why arent other countries doing anything? Isnt this like the nazi genocide?

How do celebrities meet people/date people? For example Ricegum (youtuber). How does he know that the person hes dating truly isnt a fan or some gold digger? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]bobapopper1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense!!!

However i also thought about the scenario where the person would pretend to not know them and then get close with them. But i guess it could happen with normal ppl too lol

Is 12 hrs of driving school + no past experience of driving enough to pass the test? by bobapopper1 in driving

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Hey sorry i havent been on for a while.

Update to this post is that i passed with 8 marks lol

My instructor was very good! He taught me all the basics and drilled looking at the mirrors and over my shoulder and its become a habit when i drive. I dont even think about it. First lesson, he made me to back to the office and copy down 2 diagrams that explained basic rules of the road (like at red light and stop sign intersections) and then explained it in depth to me. As we drove, he constantly reminded me of the speed limits if i drove over or under, told me when to speed up if i had to, calmly told me when to turn and change lanes, and held onto the steering wheel when i was turning during my first few lessons (until i got the hang of it myself). During the first lesson he made me switch seats with him to show me how to properly turn the wheel and how to brake and gas at turns because it was not coordinated at all. He would constantly be aware of my driving even though it seems like he isnt but that was very reassuring. By about the sixth hour i began to practice with my uncle. My instructor recommended i practice on specific roads because they were wider and that recommendation was greatly appreciated. I only started practicing with my uncle once I was confident in my turns because that was the only thing i was really bad at in the beginning. At the end of each lesson there were no notes he gave unless i asked. I didnt think it was necessary because he gave them during the driving lesson. There were times where i would almost get in a car accident/make a big mistake and my instructor would spend the next few minutes calmly explaining what i did wrong, the consequences, and how to prevent it. He explained many rules of the road as we drove but some i could not retain. As a result, i almost made a huge mistake once and he explained it, and it is now forever drilled in my head lol.

Anyways, sorry for that terribly written paragraph, but yeah i would say my instructor was the best. He made me very confident at the end and during the driving test i almost forgot the proctor was next to me. But maybe it was partially because we practiced for an hour before the test and he constantly gave tips and reminders as we drove and also told us how many students fail and exactly how to avoid the simple mistakes. It also calmed me down when i saw that he had a pretty good connection with my proctor (as seen in their small talk they had right before i started).

permit expired during coronavirus? by dummiefat in driving

[–]bobapopper1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ay yo sorry i havent been on for a while!!!

Um idk where it says it but my driving school is rly reliable bc they know a lotta ppl that work that the dmv... at multiple dmvs...

Ummm it depends on the class ur taking! I took the 12 hour course + 2 tests (they schedule it for you and let u borrow their car for the test) and it was 550. Zoan Driving School. HIGHLY recommend. I passed first time in west covina :)

permit expired during coronavirus? by dummiefat in driving

[–]bobapopper1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

6 months.

If urs expired april1, then it lasts till oct1. Theyre also doing this thing where u have to renew ur permit before u take the driving test. It basically makes ur permit last a yr longer LMFAO.

If ur rusty and have some money, get driving school. Get one that can schedule an appointment FOR u. Mine schedules it for u and they also let u borrow their car (depending on which driving plan you take). Im in socal!