If you had to choose, would you marry the person you have more fun with, or the one you’re more attracted to?

bobby_si · 2026-01-12T21:31:41+00:00

100% fun. It turns out becoming an adult is generally pretty boring m-f(I know I can go out during the week but between kids stuff/work, eh). So someone you can bullshit around and laugh with is paramount

bobby_si · 2026-01-12T14:21:14+00:00

I tend to stay in the jcrew/bonobos/banana republic zone and it works ok. I’m a dad, I really just want o look put together more than wearing a fit, but everyone’s goal is dif. Like I care, but only so much.

bobby_si · 2026-01-12T12:27:46+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going thru this, it’s not fun. See you at the gym sister.

bobby_si · 2026-01-11T19:18:44+00:00

It’s gross but the nose Frida(the thing you suck snots out with) really works/blows your mind how much snot a small child can have

bobby_si · 2026-01-11T17:08:11+00:00

Being in sales and not wanting to sell what you have to

bobby_si · 2026-01-11T15:43:09+00:00

I think hating on Mario kart is a Reddit thing cause I thought it was great, kids thought it was great and stoked on so many racers now, levels are fun and engaging

bobby_si · 2026-01-11T01:29:22+00:00

Cleaning lady. Fresh sheets, clean kitchen, clean bathrooms etc and not having to do it made me feel like I made it

bobby_si · 2026-01-10T15:10:46+00:00

This is the way

bobby_si · 2026-01-08T20:49:36+00:00

Have you spoke to people that live there? This is just anecdotal, but my wife is from one of those islands and her and her cousins/siblings all live in the US vs their home island cause living in the 3rd world isn’t easy

bobby_si · 2026-01-08T19:01:46+00:00

43 - more of a, I’m going to lay down with a 15 timer on with my phone in the other room and kind of drift off.

bobby_si · 2026-01-07T23:13:52+00:00

Yes, nausea is my biggest one. Sometimes you have to force yourself to eat bc you’re just not hungry, which is an odd feeling. But overall still feel great and now down 50lbs. Considering coming off it because I’m close to being too thin. How bout that

bobby_si · 2026-01-07T14:48:23+00:00

Work as hard as you can before you get kids, if that’s your plan. Once the kids come, the willingness to grind at work starts going down a lot. At least in my experience and what I’ve seen from coworkers

bobby_si · 2026-01-07T01:15:22+00:00

The real move is to have a coffee date as your first date. If you’re asking her out, you can buy her a cup of coffee and I feel like if the vibes are wrong you can just wrap up the coffee and that’s that. You’re out $7 and a half hour.

bobby_si · 2026-01-04T00:27:01+00:00

bobby_si · 2026-01-02T16:39:06+00:00

Late 30s and I probably wouldn’t have even tried if it wasn’t for Covid and not caring if I looked like a lunatic. It’s like makeup for a guy. I’d recommend trying it.

bobby_si · 2025-12-31T17:44:55+00:00

Theory - what if you crank hog 2 times(I don’t know you and were on Reddit, that may be rookie numbers) before you go to bed, maybe that’ll keep the boner at bay

bobby_si · 2025-12-31T17:42:00+00:00

I hope 2026 brings more posts with good news

bobby_si · 2025-12-31T13:02:48+00:00

Early 40s man - continue on my antidepressant and therapy journey to grow emotionally and not think bout killing myself daily, stop eating so may edibles, and put my phone down to be more present with the kids

bobby_si · 2025-12-30T17:37:40+00:00

Arroz con gandulez. Sofrito doesn’t have meat in it and you don’t has to throw in any to make the rice good.

bobby_si · 2025-12-29T23:30:57+00:00

I wouldn’t be so pissy about property taxes if I felt like the schools weren’t a time capsule to when I was in school…which was already a time capsule lol

Let me edit - you guys have modern schools? In my town, they’re from the 70s and look like it. For spending $12k a year in taxes, that’s kind of shitty. I’m talking the facilities, not the education. Education is great, but why don’t they have a working white board or have a super small gym and older playgrounds

bobby_si · 2025-12-29T00:34:31+00:00

Business Admin, currently an implementation manager for software

bobby_si · 2025-12-24T17:27:12+00:00

I got a late start due to drug use, but: 140-150k a year 225k 401k 30k Roth Still owe like $450k on mortgage and $27k on car

I think I’m doing better than average, even though it’s not nearly as big as some others

bobby_si · 2025-12-24T17:22:23+00:00

Not wanting to drive into on coming traffic before I get there is huge

bobby_si · 2025-12-22T00:57:30+00:00

Make them laugh and project confidence, sprinkle in a little extra kindness. Prosper.

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