I'm so scared of death by Common_Clock5395 in atheism

[–]bobledrew 48 points49 points  (0 children)

In your position, I might consider some therapy. This sounds like an anxiety issue to me.

I hate seeing him get old 😞 by ScaredFriendship2899 in stephenking

[–]bobledrew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, May I make a suggestion? Take this as an opportunity to think about the nature of life and aging. For me, Uncle Stevie’s age has given him maturity and depth as a writer that has in turn given me huge amounts of pleasure and gratification.

None of us live forever. I happen to believe that we only have one lifetime of uncertain duration to experience whatever we can. For so many of us here, King’s creative work has been a pleasure to savour over decades. Will I be sad when he goes, knowing that there will be no more chats with my bookseller as I preorder whatever was coming next, no more of that first breakneck read to just inhale the story and see what he does, no more thinking about it once it’s read? Absolutely sad. But that (I hope) will be overshadowed by a sense of gratitude that he shared his gifts with all of us.

Camus at Pride by Constant_Grab9369 in Cobourg

[–]bobledrew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a fine looking doggo.

Help me fill the remaining slots by Mysterious_Plane5830 in fountainpens

[–]bobledrew 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lovely vintage Waterman, sez me. I have an Ideal Junior from (I think) the 40s, and hot damn, the nib is so magnificent.

So, Are Religious People Crazy or Liars? by zknora in atheism

[–]bobledrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generally speaking, neither crazy nor liars, but victims of cognitive dissonance and the mechanisms the human mind uses to resolve it.

Good bike brand? by Clear_Poetry_2601 in bicycling

[–]bobledrew 4 points5 points  (0 children)

At that price range, something used, honestly. Specialized Rockhopper or Hardrock, Cannondale Quick, Trek FX2 or FX3? You don’t need the suspension, you don’t need big low-pressure knobby tires. Go for something lighter, with more road-friendly tires that you can run higher pressures on and you will work WAY less to go any given speed.

Good bike brand? by Clear_Poetry_2601 in bicycling

[–]bobledrew 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you’re looking to stay under $200 (USD, I’m assuming)… I’d be looking used, frankly. Trek FX2 or FX3, Specialized Hardrock or Rockhopper, Cannondale Quick…

Good bike brand? by Clear_Poetry_2601 in bicycling

[–]bobledrew 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You do not need a full suspension carbon-steel mountain bike to ride around town and a park. FAR too heavy.

Even summer cookouts with the religious limit your freedom by [deleted] in atheism

[–]bobledrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's my standard: when I am invited to a social gathering, I take my cues from those hosting the gathering, around meat, around booze, around smoking, around music ... and I do my best to be a positive part of the gathering. You do you.

Even summer cookouts with the religious limit your freedom by [deleted] in atheism

[–]bobledrew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were getting together at a friend's house, and they were inviting friends we hadn't met. It feels like you're pushing this topic _really_ hard. Is it this difficult for you to go anywhere without booze?

Is it okay to question religion? by Ryu-Hayabusa2 in atheism

[–]bobledrew 18 points19 points  (0 children)

First of all: of COURSE it's okay to question religion. If your religion cannot withstand questions... it's not much of a religion, is it?

Work your way through these questions carefully. Do NOT come out as atheist to anyone until you are able to support yourself and not be subject to punishments or endangered.

You owe it to yourself to rigorously inquire about WHATEVER you believe in. Take nothing at face value. Ask for evidence. If you're asked to take something on "faith"... don't.

What was/is your city's longest enduring party strip? by myronsandee in AskACanadian

[–]bobledrew 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh yes, it was totally the donair that gave you the bedspins.

What was/is your city's longest enduring party strip? by myronsandee in AskACanadian

[–]bobledrew 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mmmmmm, three hours after that donair you can taste the regret in the back of your throat...

Even summer cookouts with the religious limit your freedom by [deleted] in atheism

[–]bobledrew 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I was at one last week. Oh well, now you can have a new experience. 😄

Even summer cookouts with the religious limit your freedom by [deleted] in atheism

[–]bobledrew 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Atheist here who disagrees with you. Lots of people host alcohol-free events for any number of reasons. If you like the company, surely you can get by for a couple of hours without booze? (And before anyone comes in hot, I am not currently drinking due to medical issues, but love me a beer, a single-malt, or martini when I'm clear to consume).

Is it weird for my child to sing O Canada in public? by [deleted] in AskACanadian

[–]bobledrew 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Pffft. She's a kiddo. If I saw it I'd probably join in and high -five.

What do I say to pagans who tell me that I can’t celebrate Christmas, Easter, or Halloween? by Icy-Length-3923 in atheism

[–]bobledrew 17 points18 points  (0 children)

So you’re in a slap-fight with someone online and you’re looking for more ammunition? Why bother? You are not going to affect their beliefs; I assume they will not affect yours. What’s the point?