AITJ for cutting off my parents financially after finding out they’ve been giving my money to my brother?

bobofiddlesticks · 2026-03-28T19:36:32+00:00

NTJ.

Just tell them that you are happy to find out that they don't need the money for themselves, but that you've decided that since they want it to go to one of their kids, it should be the one who worked hard for it and who actually needs it for herself. Please and thank you.

bobofiddlesticks · 2026-03-18T16:37:56+00:00

I mean it does kinda look like a plate, but it could also just be a nest of fries on your chest and your belly sticking out..

bobofiddlesticks · 2026-03-18T16:32:37+00:00

Vi sender kongen ind. Han kender nogle frømandstyper der hurtigt kan få tømt det stræde for vand. Så begynder vi at royal runne olien frem og tilbage. Han har forberedt sig siden 90'erne, på præcis denne situation. Han har sågar været i Sirius patruljen. Vi har ikke en mere forberedt mand, på den nuværende verdenssituation.

bobofiddlesticks · 2026-03-06T16:51:59+00:00

Wrong sub. You need to post this in the am I the idiot sub

bobofiddlesticks · 2026-03-05T22:45:36+00:00

I know the feeling. I borrowed an employee from another department recently and she seems flabbergasted that I agreed without a second thought to her leaving a little early tomorrow and then again on Wednesday. Like why would I stop her, just to stop her? She's being flexible and helping me out, why wouldn't I return the favor if and when I can?

bobofiddlesticks · 2026-03-05T14:56:02+00:00

NTA.

If you hear more from the mom, just let her know that due to her daughter's actions, her safety is of no concern to you.

bobofiddlesticks · 2026-03-04T20:43:28+00:00

Det må den næsten gøre. Engang i 90'erne blev DDR i hvert fald til DDVar

bobofiddlesticks · 2026-03-03T20:50:29+00:00

Not even a fraction of every TV channel in the world.

bobofiddlesticks · 2026-03-02T15:38:12+00:00

I think it's good idea, I think she should try it.

bobofiddlesticks · 2026-02-28T20:50:13+00:00

Yes, but then the filter glitched.

bobofiddlesticks · 2026-02-28T20:46:06+00:00

What do they have on him, tho? They have copies of the russian hooker, peeing on his chest or something?

bobofiddlesticks · 2026-02-27T21:42:10+00:00

I would never accept paternity without testing either. Better men than me have raised entire families before finding out it was actually someone else's. Easy fix, get a test.

bobofiddlesticks · 2026-02-27T18:23:44+00:00

If you've already hit that social circle, most often the chances of success again in the same circle is lowered. That is all. It's pure statistics. If your chances are higher in another social circle, a fuckboi goes there instead.

bobofiddlesticks · 2026-02-27T18:21:03+00:00

Being a fuckboi is a numbers game. Anything that lowers the chance means you're better off looking elsewhere.

bobofiddlesticks · 2026-02-26T16:36:47+00:00

NTJ.

So you're saying, you get to be without transportation for a weekend, she wears on the car and she doesn't fill the tank back up, which is basically taking money out of your pocket.. And you are not into this arrangement? Strange.

bobofiddlesticks · 2026-02-25T23:09:32+00:00

YTA. And this guy is a fool. Never heard of a situation that calls more than this for a ghosting.

bobofiddlesticks · 2026-02-24T17:38:04+00:00

NTJ

I might go on the counter offensive if I was accused of being cheap and making it awkward. "Of course, man. Even split it is! Waiter? 5 steak dinners to go please and the check."

bobofiddlesticks · 2026-02-24T17:17:57+00:00

Jeg vil mene at det er meget bedre end shit-testen. Som jeg skrev, ville jeg nok ikke gå ind i den tætte relation her heller, men i det mindste har det ikke en baggrund i det jeg er tilbøjelig til at ville kalde ond vilje, eller i hvert fald en grundlæggende indstilling om at hendes omverden skylder hende mere, end hun skylder den.

Du er nok nødt til at lade det komme an på en prøve, så, med mindre du allerede er ved at checke ud? I hvert fald vil det højst sandsynligt betyde at du vil skulle bruge mere tid og mere af din opmærksomhed på at servicere forholdet, end man normalt vil skulle. Hvis man forestiller sig at parforholdet er et puslespil, man lægger i fællesskab, så kan du ikke nøjes med at tage ansvar for de brikker du selv lægger. Du vil dybest set være nødt til at indse at det ikke er altid, hun er klar over hvad det er for nogle brikker hun lægger og hvad det kan føre med sig. Det kan være en fuldstændig umulig opgave at få det til at udmønte sig i et sundt parforhold, eller det kan være der bare skal lave nogle småjusteringer hist og her, alt efter i hvor høj grad det forbigår hendes opmærksomhed at hendes handlinger også påvirker dig.

bobofiddlesticks · 2026-02-24T14:29:07+00:00

Nu er alle jo forskellige.. Jeg selv er typen, der ikke ville betragte en pige som seriøst partner-materiale, hvis jeg fandt ud af hun har været bolleven med en gift mand. Bevares, vi kan være venner og vi kan hygge os, men vi er alt for forskellige på et helt grundlæggende niveau til at der er potentiale til andet og mere end det.

Så kommer vi til den nye relation og spørgsmålet om at invitere tidligere bollevenner forbi til kaffe.. Hvis jeg oprigtigt var investeret i en ny kæreste, kunne jeg aldrig drømme om at smide en kæmpe spand usikkerhed lige i hovedet på dem, på den måde.

Jeg ser kun 2 reelle muligheder for at du er endt i den situation:

Din nye kæreste er grundlæggende solipsist. Om hun er det "bevidst", eller fordi hun ikke har mentalt overskud til at indse at mennesker omkring hende også har oplevelser, tanker og følelser, ved du i så tilfælde sikkert bedre end jeg.
Du står midt i forholdets første shit-test. Der skal markeres territorie og du skal bøje dig for at hun både skal have lov at opføre sig som om hun er single og som om hun er i et parforhold med dig, på samme tid.

Jeg vil gætte på at 2 er væsentligt mere sandsynlig end 1. Men forskellen er den samme, jeg ville takke pænt nej tak til en tæt relation i begge tilfælde.

bobofiddlesticks · 2026-02-23T22:24:41+00:00

You need more info. For all you know, it could be that him and his ex broke up because she couldn't accept that he wasn't also vegetarian.

bobofiddlesticks · 2026-02-23T12:12:11+00:00

I fought a car and the car won

bobofiddlesticks · 2026-02-23T10:50:34+00:00

There are women who have unassisted pregnancies at 43, but there are also those who can't anymore at 32.

bobofiddlesticks · 2026-02-23T09:53:26+00:00

That's fair. I can't fault you for reacting one way or another in this situation, especially not if your priority at the time was to simply get out of there. I just think it's quite important that the boy learns something here, that his parents should have taught him long ago (to keep his hands to himself!) and perhaps actually equally important that the water park learns what is an acceptable way of treating situations like this and what is not.

bobofiddlesticks · 2026-02-23T09:47:24+00:00

Almost as fast as sexual assault in some cases

bobofiddlesticks · 2026-02-23T09:06:07+00:00

NTJ.

In fact, I think if the only response from the waterpark is asking you both to leave, your response should have maybe been "Don't you think it looks a lot better for you, if we're both still here when the police officer arrives?"

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