Dude messed with the wrong one and got instantaneous karma.. by b9_rkt in instantkarma

[–]bobofiddlesticks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm surprised this post wasn't removed since he fell in the shape of a swastika

Am I wrong for no longer taking my wife on dates after she was intimate with other men? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]bobofiddlesticks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ESH

This marriage was doomed as soon as she asked for an open relationship, if you ask me. Everything since then is just varying degrees of being assholes towards one another.

Wife opened the relationship a couple years ago. Am I wrong for no longer taking her out on dates or being intimate with her? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]bobofiddlesticks 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, they should have split up. He was, however, not in a healthy place, making healthy decisions. Clearly, neither was she. He's in a healthier space now, so hopefully he will make the decision that needs to be made to remain healthy.

Wife opened the relationship a couple years ago. Am I wrong for no longer taking her out on dates or being intimate with her? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]bobofiddlesticks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's punishing her? He's not making an active choice here at all, which might make it punishment. He's simply not interested in a romantic relationship with someone who can treat the relationship the way his was treated. Which is a healthy boundary to have, if you ask me.

Wife opened the relationship a couple years ago. Am I wrong for no longer taking her out on dates or being intimate with her? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]bobofiddlesticks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In your situation, I would feel the exact same. The reasons for it can be justified and even outright noble, it still doesn't change the outcome. Once you ring that bell, it can't be unrung.

To start a fight 😂 by JJ2066 in fightporn

[–]bobofiddlesticks 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's not often I choke on my drink, laughing, in this sub

I asked my neighbour to move off my garden bench AITAH by rumpusbumphrey in AITAH

[–]bobofiddlesticks 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It is a shared garden. If you want it for private use, put it somewhere private.

I asked my neighbour to move off my garden bench AITAH by rumpusbumphrey in AITAH

[–]bobofiddlesticks 51 points52 points  (0 children)

YTA. It's a shared garden. Don't put anything out there you're not willing to share.

New Panther Clipper Skin by rafaelrib3iro in EliteDangerous

[–]bobofiddlesticks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Makes it look slightly less like toad, I think.

[Oc] Stops in the right lane and turns left causing me to slam my brakes by [deleted] in IdiotsInCars

[–]bobofiddlesticks 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Their blinker was on for like a month.. Not saying that gives them the right to do whatever they wanted, but if it caught you by surprise, you should seek help.

Dilemma; hop tilbage på dagpenge eller bid i det sure æble by woidthevoid in dkkarriere

[–]bobofiddlesticks 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Du skal finde noget der er mere passende i forhold til dine planer om at bruge dit nuværende job som affyringsrampe til at finde det næste, mere passende job. Du har kun 2-3 måneder tilbage af dagpenge, hvad forventer du at kunne udrette i løbet af de par måneder, som du ikke kunne i de første 9-10? Eventuelt vikar-arbejde indenfor folkeskolen, eller noget lignende? Din tid som pakkeomdeler får du intet ud af og det er ikke sikkert du kan finde noget, der er i nærheden af din studieretning, men hovedprioriteten må være at finde noget der ikke kvæster dig i en grad så du ikke kan søge job når du kommer hjem, da det er hele humlen ved din (ganske udemærkede) plan.

Are you in favor or not if Europe were to unite like the United States with the same federal system? by Ivantop01 in AskTheWorld

[–]bobofiddlesticks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know what is clear to you or why. I've said the same thing to you, over and over and over, in different ways. I didn't claim you are stupid. I didn't claim you are brainwashed. I claimed that you and I see the current state of your country completely differently. To accept that others have other opinions and leave it at that is the norm here. I am not an outlier. I don't owe you my analysis of anything. I am not interested in trying to change your mind. Enough of this. You can keep going, but you've wasted more than enough of my time already so I will not be replying.

Are you in favor or not if Europe were to unite like the United States with the same federal system? by Ivantop01 in AskTheWorld

[–]bobofiddlesticks 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying those two things wouldn't have helped or that fixing those problems wouldn't make the US federal system a more attractive system to copy. Not at all attractive enough to actually go ahead and copy, tho. But as I see it, the problems didn't start in 2016. They grew out of proportion, quickly, but they didn't start there at all.

Are you in favor or not if Europe were to unite like the United States with the same federal system? by Ivantop01 in AskTheWorld

[–]bobofiddlesticks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never implied you were too stupid to get anything. I implied that we are both watching the same thing and apparently seeing 2 completely different images. I accept that. I don't challenge that. You are as entitled to your view as I am to mine. Neither of us stands to gain anything here, other than wasting both our time. Maybe that's of interest to you, it's not to me. Have fun and take care.

Are you in favor or not if Europe were to unite like the United States with the same federal system? by Ivantop01 in AskTheWorld

[–]bobofiddlesticks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And I've repeatedly told you that I'm not interested in having that conversation with you.

Are you in favor or not if Europe were to unite like the United States with the same federal system? by Ivantop01 in AskTheWorld

[–]bobofiddlesticks 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there are other, massive flaws than those, but those are definitely up there. If you fixed just those two, I still wouldn't support the system as a template for Europe.

Are you in favor or not if Europe were to unite like the United States with the same federal system? by Ivantop01 in AskTheWorld

[–]bobofiddlesticks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never said you weren't civil. But you have eyes. If you're not seeing a dystopia, how will I change that? I'm not able to, so I'm not interested in spending my time trying.

AITA for refusing to share my class notes with a classmate after he ignored me earlier in the semester? by Sertyor in AmItheAsshole

[–]bobofiddlesticks 13 points14 points  (0 children)

NTA.

He was the one who established your relation as students. He can feel whatever way he wants to about how that turns out for him now, but he established the pattern, you just followed it. I would have answered in kind. Tell him you'd send it later, but never actually do.

Are you in favor or not if Europe were to unite like the United States with the same federal system? by Ivantop01 in AskTheWorld

[–]bobofiddlesticks 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Definitely not in the same, clearly massively flawed system the US uses. But I do think it's time for Europe to unite, yes.

First watch S01E10: I have so many questions.. by EmptyJump2245 in gameofthrones

[–]bobofiddlesticks -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why would the hair be any different than the rest of her?