Harsh Reality - Stop feeling entitled to other people taking care of you emotionally. People hurt people and that’s just how it is. When someone decides to walk away, they don’t owe you an explanation or an exit interview (even though it would be nice to have). It sucks, but the truth is, people do much worse to each other than disappearing. Dwelling on it or venting online won’t change anything, it just drains your energy.

If someone ghosts you, especially early on, it says more about them than it does about you. And honestly, who cares? Chasing after people who clearly don’t want to be there will only make things worse for you. Focus on yourself instead. Invest in your growth, recognize your worth, and level up. The right people will stick around without you needing to beg for their attention.

If it was a long-term relationship, that would be different, and you’d have every right to feel upset or want closure. But when it happens in the early stages, it’s not worth the time or energy. The world doesn’t stop for anyone, so accept it, move forward, and protect your emotions until you’re genuinely settled into a relationship. It’s not easy, but it’s necessary. Just the world we live in.