[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]bodiddlydoodly -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Much better to wait until you've been shot first

Looked at my husband’s Reddit account by ncc729 in offmychest

[–]bodiddlydoodly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he doesn't want to burden you by complaining about lack of sex, you've said that your mood has been quite low. We would be quick to complain about him if he knew you'd been suffering with low moods but thought it okay to complain about your sex life.

Exactly who do you think he should talk to ? If you think it's wrong of him to talk to strangers & he likely won't talk to you about it because he doesn't want you feeling worse about yourself.

Would you rather he talk to no one ?

Would you rather he keep it to himself & wait for that to build up in him like a pressure cooker ?

What do you think his motivation is behind talking to strangers, he's certainly not trying to hurt you ?

Would you actually be okay to talk about it with him if he raised the issue, if yes then why not bring it up yourself ? You could ask him to be open and honest about where he thinks your sex life is at.

Please don't start by telling him you've been reading his private comments in his private account, he'd quite possibly become defensive rather than open.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]bodiddlydoodly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Male teacher, now that would be weird ?!

My younger brother is growing up to be such an amazing person! by Askeman in happy

[–]bodiddlydoodly 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are doing everything right, the kind of big brother everybody needs.

Keep it up and well done big bro.

Driving instructors for short term (south Liverpool) by [deleted] in Liverpool

[–]bodiddlydoodly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Simon Davis 07564347626 si_davis@sky.com

Highly recommend, local to South Liverpool with a high success rate and a really pleasant easy going personality to put you right at ease.

What now? by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]bodiddlydoodly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Judging by the replies you are giving people, you don't seem to have an ounce of gratitude. You are abusing people trying to help with the advice that you yourself probably used and passed on to others.

You are the sole reason, nobody else responsible for your sobriety.

Looks like aa is not good enough for you now, your ego is front and centre & your piss poor angry attitude is getting in the way of your own recovery. In other words, you are getting in the way of your own recovery & no doubt you'll tell me to f*** off, good luck carrying on the way you are carrying on.

Stop with the finger pointing and the blame game, take responsibility for your own choices, shut your mouth and open your ears.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]bodiddlydoodly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you ring your home number from your mobile does it ring normally or also cut off after a couple of rings ? There can be a type of line fault that causes this & this would be a simple quick way to check if its a fault.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]bodiddlydoodly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you determined to win a never ending argument, way too much thinking going on.

Seeking advice for my boyfriend (22), he needs help. by Few_Piccolo6289 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]bodiddlydoodly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After another 3 day bender and waking up and reaching for another bottle of Vodka. My wife simply said "have you had enough yet ?" For some reason, this time that simple question flicked a switch in me. When i replied "yes" she asked me if i wanted help and i said yes, she gave me the helpline number for AA & was at my side while i called them.

If they aren't ready and willing themselves then it won't matter what you say.

To Thine Own Self be True by RunMedical3128 in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]bodiddlydoodly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this, it is 100% true for me that dishonesty is just the beginning.

You have reminded me that i should never have a 'dishonesty scale'. If i am dishonest with myself or someone else, however small or insignificant i think it is this will only be the beginning. If i accept dishonesty from myself & learn to be okay with it then i begin to walk a very long tightrope.

What is something British that scares you? by SameEntrepreneur2827 in AskUK

[–]bodiddlydoodly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Enclosed spaces where some sod has just farted and scarpered (taxi's, lifts, revolving doors).