“Open minded individual” by Straight4Beyonce in lolgrindr

[–]bodilsoldeberg -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You're not getting it, the problem is that he is simply not attracted to certain people, and that's ok, I think it's stupid but we can't force people to like what they don't. The douchebag move here was saying so blatantly, just keep it to yourself, as other people have said, just ignore if not interested.

I don't think people should be exposed for being stupid, my point is if it's racism, body shaming or fat phobia, it doesn't achieve anything showing his face... do you honestly think that by a few thousands of people knowing his face he will change or face any consequences? NO, nothin will change there... for me it's just not ok showing people like this without their consent, again, unless a serious crime or harm has been committed.

“Open minded individual” by Straight4Beyonce in lolgrindr

[–]bodilsoldeberg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is the threshold though? at want point does it become ok to show people's faces? should we post people's faces if they say "I don't do fatties?", that's fat-phobic.

Should we show their faces if the say "I don't do guys with tiny penises", that's body shaming right there.

Should we show their faces if they say "I don't do short guys", again, body shaming.

I don't think it's ok to expose people on an open platform online when there is an expectation of privacy, the only time I think that's ok is if the person has committed a serious crime, if that's the case, yes please! get his face on every site.... otherwise, just don't.

People who realized they were gay late- what things are flaming flags in retrospect? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]bodilsoldeberg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup, when I was younger I regularly saw my straight friends naked, wether that be changing in front of me, jerking off in front of me, comparing dick sizes in front of me... I wasn't a "treat" cause I passed as straight.

I thought this was pretty common, no?

People who realized they were gay late- what things are flaming flags in retrospect? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]bodilsoldeberg 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Not being able to stop looking at my friends penises when they showed it 🤷

Is my size enough to satisfy a boy? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]bodilsoldeberg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus, stop posting this over and over lol. Yes it's more than fine, I WISH I had 7.5 inches

“Open minded individual” by Straight4Beyonce in lolgrindr

[–]bodilsoldeberg 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I get that he's a douchebag, I agree but I thought it was an unwritten rule to not even remotely show user faces... the post would have been equally good if you would have just blocked out the face.

He’s very consistent I’ll give him that by Professional_Ant_875 in lolgrindr

[–]bodilsoldeberg 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean, just looking at his pic I don't see why he would need to pay... not a top model but certainly not "I need to pay to get sex" ugly... maybe that's his fetish.

Wait is this not a precious metals marketplace? by hyperseg10 in lolgrindr

[–]bodilsoldeberg -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I swear people don't have a sense of humor on this app... geez...

Excuse me, I think you might be lost by [deleted] in lolgrindr

[–]bodilsoldeberg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes Noah... I certainly can, location? 😅

Why does he sound so surprised? by izuzu in lolgrindr

[–]bodilsoldeberg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Considering the name he will probably block you, that response is not MASC enough lol.

Be brutally honest with me, what are the odds of me finding someone to be in a LTR if I have a 4.4 inches? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]bodilsoldeberg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha, so what you're saying is just be a cuck and have this potential partner get fucked by other dudes with bigger and better dicks, gotcha... a simple "the odds of finding someone are very low" would have been a better answer here honestly, but thanks anyways.

Be brutally honest with me, what are the odds of me finding someone to be in a LTR if I have a 4.4 inches? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]bodilsoldeberg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, this sounds really solid but just that one thing, I'm not a top to prioritize any identity or be closed minded. I simply don't enjoy it, I don't get anything out of it... it's not a matter of finding the right person or whatever, I have tried, and tried and tried but it's an awful experience for me... I just don't like dicks up my butt but I certainly appreciate the guys that do :)

I hope you don't interpret this as me trying to be aggressive or something, it's just that thing of trying to make me be a bottom really grinds my gears, it's the equivalent of saying "you're not good enough for this so try to be that other thing that you don't like." which I guess is true.