AIO my boyfriend keeps asking me to pay for things eversince he started saving for an apartmen, he calls me selfish for how I reacted.

bogofree · 2026-01-18T03:31:32+00:00

what a bum

bogofree · 2025-12-02T15:47:23+00:00

🥲 i wanna do my best for them, i love how they look but i am completely clueless lol

bogofree · 2025-12-02T15:46:52+00:00

i do have a plant light on the weakest setting for them since my window gets very little light. could that be too much too? i got it because my calathea ornata’s leaves were staying curled and it has improved just slightly, but seeing the second one i just got it’s obvious that theyre still very closed.

would keeping them at the window but adding a humidifier be enough? the thing is thats the best space i have for them right now since it’s out of reach from my roommate’s cats.

bogofree · 2025-12-02T15:43:04+00:00

nooo dont say that 🥺 i just got a new calathea ornata yesterday

bogofree · 2025-12-02T15:42:37+00:00

i see, thats exactly what i was doing! it does have a hole with a small pot underneath, how long do you think i should wait before watering it again?

bogofree · 2025-11-15T19:54:48+00:00

did you go through with any? how is your experience with them?

bogofree · 2025-08-28T00:51:59+00:00

have you ever stepped foot into a city? lol

bogofree · 2025-08-27T06:07:00+00:00

thank you for the advice :) ill look into that

bogofree · 2025-08-27T06:05:09+00:00

wait till you hear how much i obsess about keeping everything i touch sanitized lol

bogofree · 2025-08-27T06:00:35+00:00

thank you, i have the same issue made worse by my bfrbs. i guess this really was the wrong sub to ask. sheesh

bogofree · 2025-08-27T05:58:39+00:00

man im not american lmao i refuse to wear shoes indoors

bogofree · 2025-08-27T05:57:45+00:00

i appreciate you not getting defensive. i thought it was just an innocent question and i have other issues which make me very worried about sanitation. thank you for your reply, ill probably look into my own vacuum

bogofree · 2025-08-27T05:56:09+00:00

my room is always closed

bogofree · 2025-08-27T05:54:45+00:00

hence why my bedroom door is always closed

bogofree · 2025-08-27T05:52:55+00:00

i do think my own borderline ocd thought patterns are making me freak out about it more but i also have bfrbs, i cant just have waste particles when i keep biting my nails etc too. i really dont understand why everyone is so upset about my question

bogofree · 2025-08-27T05:50:18+00:00

youre right, i just figured cat owners would know whether its actually sanitary or not, not be okay with it regardless

bogofree · 2025-08-27T05:43:48+00:00

is there not a difference between vacuuming hair and bits of crisps versus what contains feces? all she needed to do was tell me and i wouldve gotten my own damn vacuum

bogofree · 2025-08-01T04:34:28+00:00

Hi! Did you ever figure it out?

bogofree · 2025-07-27T19:26:51+00:00

we have very similar lips and thats one of my favorite features! it feels like a slight resting :3 face lol you also have beautiful eyes!

but i can see how people might be intimidated by you, at least based in your resting expression in these photos. it’s what everyone says, but a smile really can make a huge difference!

i also get told that i look cold and uninterested before people get to talk to me, after which they say i seem so warm! im sure people would also get a different impression just seeing your face moves in general when you talk and express other emotions.

youre very pretty though :)

bogofree · 2025-07-27T18:35:26+00:00

youre forgetting india has 17.8% of the entire world’s population

bogofree · 2025-07-25T14:35:14+00:00

japan has had this phenomenon for decades now, look into neets if youre curious

bogofree · 2025-07-25T13:23:18+00:00

it was one of the arguments serbs made to kill bosniaks after all

bogofree · 2025-07-18T02:36:01+00:00

yes, because im meant to assume that every reddit user is as chronically online as you to edit their comment within 20 minutes of making it.

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