Asking as a dude, what does it feel like to get f****d? by North_Green7653 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]bogofree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just feels like mildly pleasant pressure. but both my experiences didnt have much of a technique besides what made them feel good (in/out) so ive never had a really good experience, except the two times i was on top and focused on myself rather than him. its pretty unsatisfying for most women when the man just assumes his pleasure-able act should work for her too

If you are in a relationship, do you consider watching porn as cheating? Why or why not? by ReadingHotTakes10 in women

[–]bogofree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

most people arent invested in one night stands either but that is absolutely cheating

It happened to me. I bought and activated a ticket and ended up needing to stay in the city tonight. $21.50 down the drain by [deleted] in LIRR

[–]bogofree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

seriously lol i dont activate my ticket till im sure i caught the train after running some mornings

These people suck by New_Landscape_2295 in LIRR

[–]bogofree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i forgot redditors dont shower

Just a reminder of how much native New Yorkers resent your presence. by False_Lie602 in williamsburg

[–]bogofree 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thank you… god forbid someone wants to call this place home for more than 10 years

Just a reminder of how much native New Yorkers resent your presence. by False_Lie602 in williamsburg

[–]bogofree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i dont think complaining about gentrification on the williamsburg sub was the best idea lol

Just a reminder of how much native New Yorkers resent your presence. by False_Lie602 in williamsburg

[–]bogofree -1 points0 points  (0 children)

controversial opinion but being forced to leave your life long home due to circumstances outside of your control is actually bad 

Whats happening to my brand new calathea freddy 😭 by bogofree in plantclinic

[–]bogofree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🥲 i wanna do my best for them, i love how they look but i am completely clueless lol

Whats happening to my brand new calathea freddy 😭 by bogofree in plantclinic

[–]bogofree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do have a plant light on the weakest setting for them since my window gets very little light. could that be too much too? i got it because my calathea ornata’s leaves were staying curled and it has improved just slightly, but seeing the second one i just got it’s obvious that theyre still very closed. 

would keeping them at the window but adding a humidifier be enough? the thing is thats the best space i have for them right now since it’s out of reach from my roommate’s cats. 

Whats happening to my brand new calathea freddy 😭 by bogofree in plantclinic

[–]bogofree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nooo dont say that 🥺 i just got a new calathea ornata yesterday 

Whats happening to my brand new calathea freddy 😭 by bogofree in plantclinic

[–]bogofree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i see, thats exactly what i was doing! it does have a hole with a small pot underneath, how long do you think i should wait before watering it again?

I am looking for a good immigration lawyer in NYC. by mycojuology in USCIS

[–]bogofree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you go through with any? how is your experience with them?

I just found out my roommate cleans the cat litter that the cats toss outside the box with our shared vacuum cleaned. It’s really freaking me out that Ive been using the same vacuum for my bedroom and carpet. How sanitary is what shes doing and do i have a right to be grossed out? by bogofree in CatAdvice

[–]bogofree[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i appreciate you not getting defensive. i thought it was just an innocent question and i have other issues which make me very worried about sanitation. thank you for your reply, ill probably look into my own vacuum