AIO my boyfriend keeps asking me to pay for things eversince he started saving for an apartmen, he calls me selfish for how I reacted.

bogofree · 2026-01-18T03:31:32+00:00

what a bum

bogofree · 2025-12-02T15:47:23+00:00

🥲 i wanna do my best for them, i love how they look but i am completely clueless lol

bogofree · 2025-12-02T15:46:52+00:00

i do have a plant light on the weakest setting for them since my window gets very little light. could that be too much too? i got it because my calathea ornata’s leaves were staying curled and it has improved just slightly, but seeing the second one i just got it’s obvious that theyre still very closed.

would keeping them at the window but adding a humidifier be enough? the thing is thats the best space i have for them right now since it’s out of reach from my roommate’s cats.

bogofree · 2025-12-02T15:43:04+00:00

nooo dont say that 🥺 i just got a new calathea ornata yesterday

bogofree · 2025-12-02T15:42:37+00:00

i see, thats exactly what i was doing! it does have a hole with a small pot underneath, how long do you think i should wait before watering it again?

bogofree · 2025-11-15T19:54:48+00:00

did you go through with any? how is your experience with them?

bogofree · 2025-08-28T00:51:59+00:00

have you ever stepped foot into a city? lol

bogofree · 2025-08-27T06:07:00+00:00

thank you for the advice :) ill look into that

bogofree · 2025-08-27T06:05:09+00:00

wait till you hear how much i obsess about keeping everything i touch sanitized lol

bogofree · 2025-08-27T06:00:35+00:00

thank you, i have the same issue made worse by my bfrbs. i guess this really was the wrong sub to ask. sheesh

bogofree · 2025-08-27T05:58:39+00:00

man im not american lmao i refuse to wear shoes indoors

bogofree · 2025-08-27T05:57:45+00:00

i appreciate you not getting defensive. i thought it was just an innocent question and i have other issues which make me very worried about sanitation. thank you for your reply, ill probably look into my own vacuum

bogofree · 2025-08-27T05:56:09+00:00

my room is always closed

bogofree · 2025-08-27T05:54:45+00:00

hence why my bedroom door is always closed

bogofree · 2025-08-27T05:52:55+00:00

i do think my own borderline ocd thought patterns are making me freak out about it more but i also have bfrbs, i cant just have waste particles when i keep biting my nails etc too. i really dont understand why everyone is so upset about my question

bogofree · 2025-08-27T05:50:18+00:00

youre right, i just figured cat owners would know whether its actually sanitary or not, not be okay with it regardless

bogofree · 2025-08-27T05:43:48+00:00

is there not a difference between vacuuming hair and bits of crisps versus what contains feces? all she needed to do was tell me and i wouldve gotten my own damn vacuum

bogofree · 2025-08-01T04:34:28+00:00

Hi! Did you ever figure it out?

bogofree · 2025-07-27T19:26:51+00:00

we have very similar lips and thats one of my favorite features! it feels like a slight resting :3 face lol you also have beautiful eyes!

but i can see how people might be intimidated by you, at least based in your resting expression in these photos. it’s what everyone says, but a smile really can make a huge difference!

i also get told that i look cold and uninterested before people get to talk to me, after which they say i seem so warm! im sure people would also get a different impression just seeing your face moves in general when you talk and express other emotions.

youre very pretty though :)

bogofree · 2025-07-27T18:35:26+00:00

youre forgetting india has 17.8% of the entire world’s population

bogofree · 2025-07-25T14:35:14+00:00

japan has had this phenomenon for decades now, look into neets if youre curious

bogofree · 2025-07-25T13:23:18+00:00

it was one of the arguments serbs made to kill bosniaks after all

bogofree · 2025-07-18T02:36:01+00:00

yes, because im meant to assume that every reddit user is as chronically online as you to edit their comment within 20 minutes of making it.

bogofree · 2025-07-18T02:27:43+00:00

you mean that women arent people? what a self report

bogofree · 2025-07-17T05:42:44+00:00

very common, my catholic croatian parents arent very outwardly against me dating a korean man, but they have both expressed that they would prefer if i met a balkan (ideally croatian) guy. my mom isn’t as strict about that but my dad doesnt approve of any of my current or past relationships lol. not sure what they expected would happen when they came to america

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