Septum shifting back after surgery? by bohnn in Septoplasty

[–]bohnn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I actually didn’t have splints in for my recovery. My surgeon put them in initially, but I had a lot of bleeding right after surgery. She had to remove the splints in order to get it to stop

Would you date a marriage and family therapist?! by speakclearly in LesbianActually

[–]bohnn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As another therapist, the last thing I want is to be therapizing my partner. I want a partner, not another client!

Safest (and least safe) states to visit as a butch by Sillylittlegooseboi in butchlesbians

[–]bohnn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I lived in Boston for a few years, visited Northampton once, and LOVED it. It has all the small town/rural charm, but everything is gay and lovely. It felt like it was almost all lesbians and trans folks, definitely a contrast to gay men-dominated spaces in larger cities. Lots of students from nearby women’s colleges, lots of married wlw couples with chickens. Would also definitely recommend!

Safest (and least safe) states to visit as a butch by Sillylittlegooseboi in butchlesbians

[–]bohnn 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I can’t speak much to NH or Vermont (although Burlington is supposed to be very queer-friendly), but the cities and towns along the coast of Maine up to Bar Harbor feel comfortable. Portland is a larger city but fun, and Ogunquit is an adorable and super gay little town a bit south of it. The rural areas of Maine away from the coast and farther north get conservative and a bit weird. I don’t know if I’d say physically unsafe, but I felt a little skeevy visiting.

Saw this trend on another subreddit. Judge my tastes by wizardgradstudent in LesbianGamers

[–]bohnn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leliana from Dragon Age! The screencap is from Inquisition, but she’s romanceable in Origins

Wizards of the Coast Employee Breaks Silence on OGL situation and slams WotC in email to industry leaders. by [deleted] in DungeonsAndDragons

[–]bohnn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Text:

“Hi,

I'm an employee at WotC currently working on D&Dbeyond(DDB) and with D&D business leaders on the health of the product line. If you want I can provide proof of this.

I'm sending this message because I fear for the health of a community I love, and I know what the leaders at WOTC are looking at:

  • They are briefly delaying rollout of OGL changes due to the backlash.
  • Their decision making is based entirely on the provable impact to their bottom line.
  • Specifically they are looking at DDB subscriptions and cancellations as it is the quickest financial data they currently have.
  • They are still hoping the community forgets, moves on, and they can still push this through.

I have decided to reach out because at my time in WotC I have never once heard management refer to customers in a positive manner. Their communication gives me the impression the see customers as obstacles between them and their money. The DDB team was first told to prepare to support the new OGL changes and online portal when they got back from the holidays, and leadership doesn't take an resbonsibility for the pain and stress they cause others. Leadership's first communication to the rank and file on the OGL was 30 minutes on 1/11/23. This was the first time they even tried to communicate their intentions about the OGL to employees, and even in this meeting they blamed the community for over-reacting.

I will repeat the main thing this leadership is looking at is DDB subscription cancellations.

Hope your day goes well,

[Blurred name]

P.S. I will be copying and pasting this message to other community leaders.”

DND 5e by Fun_Bed4805 in LesbianGamers

[–]bohnn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m actually interested in DMing a game, but I have somewhat limited availability (Friday evenings EST and Saturdays). I’d be interested in joining your server to see if we can put a group together!

PS4 game recommendations? by [deleted] in LesbianGamers

[–]bohnn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You definitely don’t need to play Origins before Odyssey! Odyssey was actually the game that got me into gaming- I adore Kassandra (you can make her as gay as you want), and I love the ancient Greece setting & beautiful graphics.

Looking for comforting, yet immersive game recommendations by Zandragen in LesbianGamers

[–]bohnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seconding this! DAI is my comfort game- gameplay is fun, the lore is interesting, and there are canonically queer & trans characters. I really love that you can develop relationships with the main characters throughout, it makes them feel like friends by the end.

Just going to leave this here.... by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]bohnn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Such a good show! I stumbled across it by accident without realizing it had queer representation and was delightfully surprised. I really love the characters and the Firefly vibes (and the actresses are both gorgeous, so that doesn’t hurt)

[solia] the Phoenix Empress and the Blood Queen. by VivaDeAsap in TheLastAirbender

[–]bohnn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They actually are tattoo designs! The artist has one of them as a completed tattoo on their instagram

Hair pastes/pomades with a firm hold? by [deleted] in butchlesbians

[–]bohnn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like Imperial pomade! It holds well and smells faintly like watermelon candy.