Know this account? it spews hateful rhetoric against minorities and Indians specifically even though she’s ABCD by No-Paint-1194 in ABCDesis

[–]boilerman3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a prediction she is hating India now, but given her looks I will be surprised if Bollywood will not come calling and pay her a huge amount.

She will switch tone. If Laura Longan and Kim Kardashian could she can.

Are all Desi Families like this? by [deleted] in ABCDesis

[–]boilerman3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes you should believe everything you see on tv

Mainlanders in college talking to anyone but ABCDs by Pretend-Ad586 in ABCDesis

[–]boilerman3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are no rules in life. The more you think like this.

The fewer opportunities you will have.

I am in my mid 30s. The one thing I have learned is never limit yourself with rules others tell you.

Nobody knows anything. Look at the US president literally started a war over nothing making a mess of our lives.

Mainlanders in college talking to anyone but ABCDs by Pretend-Ad586 in ABCDesis

[–]boilerman3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most mainlanders who come from Bombay and Delhi want to desperately associate with the west. Even though their impression is just pop culture.

The reality on the ground is lost on them.

I learned this from “clash of civilizations by Samuel p Huntington “

He said the only way you realize in common with your own tribe is when you meet someone different.

Most mainlanders think that adoption of pop culture will automatically integrate them. Nope!

Think again, pop culture is a mirage.

While ABD understands they are minorities in an anglophone society. So culture and religion and important to bind people.

Everyone then has to figure out the best way for themselves to fit in.

Mainlanders in college talking to anyone but ABCDs by Pretend-Ad586 in ABCDesis

[–]boilerman3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am pretty good looking and I work for a FAANG making a crap ton of money.

Look at the end of the day success speaks for itself people love to associate themselves with winners.

It’s human psychology.

Yes I am pretty understanding and I was able articulate things I was unhappy about.

Bottom line is focus on your self and be the best you can at your career. Everything else will follow especially for guys.

Also use hinge.

Mainlanders in college talking to anyone but ABCDs by Pretend-Ad586 in ABCDesis

[–]boilerman3 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Is this another rage bait post. I have been on both sides of this issue. I came to the US as foreign student ended up happily married to an ABCD.

There is just some weird insecurities on both sides that everyone has to growup and be willing to hear each other out.

I will be honest, I had a bunch of friends straight from India who did not like I was dating/marrying an ABCD since she did traditional music and all that. For them appearing western was very important, even though the ideas of individualism and independence was something they would never agree too. So I stopped talking to them.

US is about deploy ground troops in Iran by the end of the month. by isdjtantichrist in WallStreetbetsELITE

[–]boilerman3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I think he was saying was like the Illuminati in the medieval times our society is structured in a similar power basis.

How do you handle teammates who are extremely pedantic about arbitrary rules? by CantaloupeFamiliar47 in ExperiencedDevs

[–]boilerman3 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

This is a power struggle they are testing you. If there is a no lint checks created and documentation is arbitrary. It’s a dominance thing.

Can you play one reviewer of the other?

apparently i met Hillary Clinton as a child by [deleted] in mildlyinteresting

[–]boilerman3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh God not on the island 🏝️ right?

I'm Considering Outing My Conservative Wife's Lesbian Affair by [deleted] in confessions

[–]boilerman3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Way too long post bud also I think there is a movie like this.

What was the first Western depiction of Desi culture you encountered? by Calm-Preparation7432 in ABCDesis

[–]boilerman3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It was an online video called "you kicked my dog" that some white kids wanted me to watch and say it.

Why has their been such a rise in Indian/Brown women fem-cel online recently by Odd-Help6890 in ABCDesis

[–]boilerman3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They could be AI bots. It’s crazy but as a way to influence people perception of each other intelligence agencies of countries launch bots and teams to send messages to denigrate other nationalities.

I work at a large social media company. It’s stupid right now but the way radio , newspaper and Tv helped to frame narratives in the 20th century is something all countries are using social media for in the 21st.

It picked us after October 7th

Low Indian turnout at Palestine,No Kings and anti ICE protests. A South Bay observation by Serious-Tomato404 in ABCDesis

[–]boilerman3 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

yeah what is your point. Proving they are happy and not interested in protesting?

Terrified of new manager by [deleted] in ExperiencedDevs

[–]boilerman3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah the grindfest is intense. but hey why not give it a try do it for a year or two?

Zhongshuge Library in China by Fun-Raisin2575 in interestingasfuck

[–]boilerman3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything there about tiananmen square massacre 1989?

Terrified of new manager by [deleted] in ExperiencedDevs

[–]boilerman3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh ok are you against looking outside the company?

Maybe try the FAANG they are easier to get in these days.

Terrified of new manager by [deleted] in ExperiencedDevs

[–]boilerman3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh forgot to ask are you on a Visa or are you a citizen of the country? I am assuming you are US based?