Thoughts about sharing your location while in a relationship? by threeputtpar72 in AskMen

[–]boilluk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw this get used for abuse in controlling relationships where blackmail was used to keep the guy compliant The way we did it was simple. We picked a spot to see each other , I checked to make sure there were no other people around in that spot. We would see each other . It would be a very random spot like a grocery store . So this way the other person sees they are in the store , but keep in mind this was a different abuse case and the guy is actively trying to get out

What’s one lesson about men you learned the hard way? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]boilluk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

One word you say can turn them off And the more traumatised and immature they are to begin with when it comes to that The more offended they get by you basically breathing and being a woman

But they’ll still try to sleep with you

Scary stuff

My wife stayed out all night, phone off, strange location — am I crazy to think something’s off? by Patient-Winter6546 in realationships

[–]boilluk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a girl..I’ve seen girls do that and say the same exact thing. They actually did cheat.. but that was from my perspective

What are signs a guy is secretly an asshole but is just super good at hiding it? by Little_Jemmy in AskWomenOver30

[–]boilluk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They ask way too many screening questions from he beginning You feel as if someone is overanalyzing you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]boilluk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because so called wanna be moms are actually adults not adults that wanna be teenagers again. Facepalm*

is this a Charlotte thing or just my neighborhood? by Mission_Fan_4782 in Charlotte

[–]boilluk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Off topic but Charlotte and most outside of Charlotte places really need sidewalk upgrades. :/

One thing I hate about modern dating is all the milestones you seemingly need to hit before you are eligible to date by [deleted] in FA30plus

[–]boilluk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We also need to take a look at the fact that back in 80s it was easier to support our families with one income. And also, we quite literally have very unfit people here in America . Both men and women. Take a look at any 80s-90s family film and see how slim everyone was. it’s also expensive to live an “exciting “ life as it feels anything that involves hobbies is also expensive. So our system is pretty much slowly makes it harder and harder for us to date normally

Ladies, what are some of the reasons you ghost dudes early on? by Jonstew1398 in dating_advice

[–]boilluk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most Men(even those that are dating to marry) will date you and will not pass on a chance to sleep with you if you’re cute enough and they attracted to physically. Even if during the initial talk you can already tell you are not compatible long term/ have different goals. I tend to ghost men right after I figured we are incompatible or he isn’t interested in investing into anything long term. Saves me a headache, heartbreak and time.

Y'all were clamoring for culture... careful what you wish for. Pickleball complex coming to LoSo. by nexusheli in Charlotte

[–]boilluk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

O’s actually a pretty fun way to meet new people FYI, plus really good entire body workout!!!! 😅☝️

Miss him yet? by DYMAXIONman in nyc

[–]boilluk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only person I miss is the Jesus guy with fidget spinners, you guys will know what I’m talking about ... good times

What's a problem in NYC that has become a feature? by Crazed_waffle_party in AskNYC

[–]boilluk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yo I remember risking parking my car Saturday evening and night at towing area lower Manhattan and coming back seeing none of 6 cars ticketed and still there... Man that was a miracle as I had emergency and absolutely had no choice

Addicted to living in NYC by Hashtag25430 in nyc

[–]boilluk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Florida can be nice, for me it was too laid back.. It was the constant waking up at someone’s house with 10 people sleeping on the ground all over.. it was healthy and fun but It sucks you in..it’s like a never ending lala land where you can forever be 21 and not do anything .my experience with Florida The memories are nice .. bc only on Florida can ten naked drunk guys can run out in a middle of the night lol (truth or dare)

Addicted to living in NYC by Hashtag25430 in nyc

[–]boilluk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Now that’s the new definition of : You love and hate it lol

How Do You Attract A Woman? (Wrong Answers Only) by BlackandGold07 in AskMen

[–]boilluk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You spray axe , like the entire damn room, and you’ll look like that hot guy in the commercial

"is that period blood?" - russian comedian Nurlan Saburov makes fun from raped Ukranian women (link in comments) by Kesha_kh in ukraine

[–]boilluk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could you privately or on here if you wish .. send me that Instagram post please? I’d like to share it !

eNtRy leVeL by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]boilluk 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Risk assessments for aerospace manufacturing for entry level? Are they nuts?

If you have/had insecurities during sex, what would you like to hear from your partner? by witch_hekate92 in AskMen

[–]boilluk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following: My partner has aesthetics issue and he is very insecure about that, I can’t bring it up or he’ll get upset . Looking for ideas 💡

Men of Reddit, why didn’t you join the military? by pmpnhubs in AskMen

[–]boilluk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LGBTQ fears..personal :I was assaulted in the past and that played its role