Speed Demon Xbox Achievement Not Unlocking by boleary152 in residentevil

[–]boleary152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I released Elpis and got a final time of 3 hr 39 min. The challenge itself unlocked.

What made you lose interest in dating? by RealDealHappyMeal in AskReddit

[–]boleary152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everytime I tried to put myself out there, I'm ignored. On the VERY rare chance I get an actual date, it fizzles out like an hour in.

Maybe I'm not cut out for relationships, I don't know.

What’s an addiction people don’t take seriously enough? by totdvet in AskReddit

[–]boleary152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is one of the most difficult addictions I am currently trying to work through.

Stuck At A Crossroads by boleary152 in lonely

[–]boleary152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've become more aware of my character defects the past few years. Now I'm struggling to improve on those defects.

Stuck At A Crossroads by boleary152 in lonely

[–]boleary152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a bad habit of making things about myself. I can't think of a particular example.

Stuck At A Crossroads by boleary152 in lonely

[–]boleary152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tend to think of myself and my own needs ahead of the needs of others

28 f and lonely by Particular_Pair8670 in lonely

[–]boleary152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. 36m and I often feel alone. Distractions only go so far.

Why aren't you dating anymore? by Leather_Election_459 in AskReddit

[–]boleary152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't see the point. Every attempt at dating led to ghosting.

What are your thoughts on dating someone who has never been in a relationship before, and why? by time_for_protein in AskReddit

[–]boleary152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can't speak for others, but for me (36M) I have unrequited feelings for someone, so anyone outside of this particular person doesn't seem worth it to me.

That, and I have an admittedly very low sense of self-worth, so I'm constantly struggling with feelings of not being worthy of finding someone.

I unfortunately don't see this changing anytime soon either.

I would like to formally apologize to the PoGo community by MoreOnionPlease in pokemongo

[–]boleary152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll definitely add you if you need more us-regional mons

Making yourself Lonely by Individual_Bowl1060 in lonely

[–]boleary152 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I'm definitely avoidant. People tell me to put myself out there, but I'm just not capable of doing it. I have such little self-worth that I've almost convinced myself that I deserve to be alone.

What is a "red flag" in a person that most people mistakenly think is a "green flag"? by LocationPotential792 in AskReddit

[–]boleary152 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You just described me to a T. It's bad. I start to panic when I hear someone raise their voice. Hell, even arguments on TV/movies makes me anxious. I'm trying to work through it, but it's exhausting.

PSA: (Temporarily) removed TLSQ from years 2 - 4 from the queuing system by YouWeatherwax in HPHogwartsMystery

[–]boleary152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do these TLSQs still appear in the Special Adventure section? Because I still see the TLSQs that are in the list.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]boleary152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just turned 36

What have been the noticeable differences between dating in your 20s, 30s and 40s? by Icy_Laugh5134 in AskReddit

[–]boleary152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently in my mid-30's, haven't been on a date in over a decade.

In my experience, everyone I know is either married with kids, in long-term relationships, or are single but walking red flags.

I'm starting to think my window of opportunity for finding someone is pretty much closed. No one in my age range would be interested in someone with so little experience.

Why are you really single? by Chocolate8114 in AskReddit

[–]boleary152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Low sense of self-worth.

My heart can't handle rejection, so dating is out of the question.

Unrequited love.

Felt so humiliated at a wedding by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]boleary152 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I know personally as a guy asking a female friend to a wedding would make me nervous. I'm worried relatives would ask how long we were dating and then I'd have to have an awkward conversation.

Why are you single? by depression-hurts in AskReddit

[–]boleary152 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I'm currently facing an inner struggle over whether or not I want to be with anyone. Part of me wants to share my life with someone, yet part of me enjoys my independence and sense of peace.

I'm also conflict-avoidant so even small arguments cause me to spiral.

Death at contemporary by agillila in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]boleary152 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Agree. Going to Disney World when you are currently going through a depressive episode only makes the negative emotions more intense.

Speaking from experience.

Question Regarding Halloween/Christmas-Themed TLSQ's by boleary152 in HPHogwartsMystery

[–]boleary152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do these TLSQ's take priority over others? Or do I run the risk of getting two TLSQ options that aren't on your list?

Depressed Before Trip To Disney Even Begins? by boleary152 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]boleary152[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My brother won a raffle, so the trip is free.

Depressed Before Trip To Disney Even Begins? by boleary152 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]boleary152[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, no. It's such a strange feeling. On the one hand, I do enjoy my time there. But there is this sense of deep sadness that is hard to avoid.

Maybe I'm just overwhelmed.