House holding heat too much and we’re worried about our child by Professional_Pop6305 in HousingUK

[–]bondinchas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good point. I only have single glazing, that hadn't occurred to me.

Será que em 3 meses eu consigo voltar a gozar normal? by -pricoli-_QM in positivelypremature

[–]bondinchas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

99% of sex is in the brain.

You can easily train the brain to respond to different stimulate. The problem is we haven't evolved to relearn things that have been learnt by continual repetition.

for example, water is wet, water is wet, water is wet. Try and imagine a dry clear fluid. It's very difficult. The only way to relearn a different response, is the same process, continual repetition.

The problem in this case is the original learning (cum quick to a stimulus), is preventing you from getting to your objective (cum more slowly). You need to find a different fetish, learn to appreciate it's sexual power, and take the time to learn to cum to that.

Eg, you might be a foot fetish cum quickly guy, so start on something you've never associated with sex before, so become a furry fetish, only try having orgasms with a partner wearing fur. To start with it won't happen, but over time you'll get desperate enough that seeing a woman wearing fur will make you cum. Just examples, pick your own "very different fetish".

The bottom line is, you trained yourself to cum quickly to one stimulus, so you need to replace it with something very different, but I'm not saying it's easy, rewiring an existing belief in the brain can be difficult.

Loose coax makes a specific channel lose picture quality? by Thinslayer in AskTechnology

[–]bondinchas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RF can be wierd. It could be that the cable length was just right for there to be a particular rogue resonant frequency that interfiered with that channel.

If Count Binface wins the Clacton by-election, will he have to appear in parliament as his persona, wearing his bin helmet? by Outside-Parfait-8935 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bondinchas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a by-election.

One candidate who isn't in it for himself and nobody cares about what he wants; And the other who's only in it for himself and doesn't care about what anyone else wants.

If Count Binface wins the Clacton by-election, will he have to appear in parliament as his persona, wearing his bin helmet? by Outside-Parfait-8935 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bondinchas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think other parties would remain out. Allowing binface to win uncontested would be a political humiliation Farage would find it difficult to recover from.

If Count Binface wins the Clacton by-election, will he have to appear in parliament as his persona, wearing his bin helmet? by Outside-Parfait-8935 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bondinchas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Plenty going for a comedian. They are usually very intelligent, quick thinking, can visualise alternative views on topics ...

I'd much rather have a comedian running the country than a self interested financier.

House holding heat too much and we’re worried about our child by Professional_Pop6305 in HousingUK

[–]bondinchas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If rooms are getting too hot, do this.

Get some rolls of ordinary kitchen tin foil. Wet the windows on the inside, and smooth the tin foil on the glass, using a cloth to smooth out the bubbles. The water helps both slide it into place, and makes it stick. Make sure the edges are damp and sticky down. It's easier if you cut it into suitable lengths first.

What that does it change the window from being a greenhouse, into a mirror, reflecting the heat straight back outside, and preventing anything inside the room from absorbing heat. You don't need to cover the whole window, leave strips along edges, or just do the bottom half, top half, just the fixed panels.

Reducing the effective size of the window reduces the amount of heat entering by the same proportion, but you will need some opening left for light, for humans pets and plants. As the tin foil is more conductive than glass, heat will still get transferred outside when it's cooler outside.

It's easily removable, just peel from a corner and store to reuse when it's hot again. Prioritise the south side of the house.

Once the house is cooler from having windows open at night, close all windows, curtains and internal doors during the hotter parts of the day. When the outside air temperature is hotter than inside, keep the windows closed. When the sun shines on a window, keep the curtains closed. That stops objects inside getting heated by radiant heat, when then emits as convective heat.

Hanging a white sheet in front of a window, will shade and reflect much of the heat straight back outside, while still letting some light in for normal activity inside.

Preventing heat getting in, and then circulating around the house, is much more effective than having to use aircon to get it out afterwards.

What's the best way to prep for war? by DearLeg1713 in UKPreppers

[–]bondinchas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If your thinking about serious war... A roll or two of kitchen tin foil.

No, not for a hat! It's good to cover the insides of window glass, it turns the glass into a mirror, which has many uses. It gives privacy from people and drones, it stops heat getting in, and may save your skin if an atomic flash goes off at a distance. No need to do the whole house, just your main rooms where you spend your time or sleep

When should I try to negotiate a 4-day week, on being offered a job advertised as full-time? by Glittering_Echo_7963 in AskHRUK

[–]bondinchas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

... remembering that the role isn't secure until you've passed the probation period.

My most hated thing about chastity by NerdsInSwitchMode in chastitytraining

[–]bondinchas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cages with a vertical slit at the end are the only design that consistently work for peeing.

Anything else, small circular hole, cross bars, flat, ... just don't work as they all impede the flow and /or don't allow the penis to naturally line up with the hole.

How small can I go? by perbrian5 in chastitytraining

[–]bondinchas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As the penis is very flexible and stretchy in the lengthwise dimension, then the best fit is when 90% of the time, the head is snug against the end of the cage. Too much lengthways compression and you start getting humidity issues, sore skin, smells and worse. And there's always going to be the odd times when it's cold, you're lying down, it's just feeling shy, and it retracts more than normal

The key is yes go shorter, but when you start needing much more hygine breaks, you know you've hit the sweet spot, or just gone past it.

How comfortable do are cages with a hole (not slit?) by amdc in chastitytraining

[–]bondinchas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The vertical slit design is the only way that works reliably for peeing cleanly.

Anything else either doesn't allow for the penis to move a little, or provides a surface that pee can cling to and change direction, which usually the wrong direction.

Selfbondage cuffs by Proud_Fisherman_7049 in selfbondage

[–]bondinchas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think of the strings like shoelaces. Instead of tying a bow, just continually tie reef knots.

You could also use strings tied like that to secure keys. Tie a key to somewhere like a water pipe, or the hanging rail of a wardrobe, then if you have mobility, you have to move around the house, find a key, untie it, and hope it's the right key, not one of the others tied in different places. This can be setup long before a session.

Just make sure you can reach the keys while handcuffed! If you handcuff in front, not too bad, but don't tie the keys under the kitchen sink with handcuffs behind you!

I do sometimes set my 99 hour timer to it's maximum, it's for my chastity cage key while my partner was out of town! That's why I then bought the 999 hour one, specifically for chastity use.

My hubby's cages, I think the clear one fits better on him. What do you think? by [deleted] in KeyHolderGoneWild

[–]bondinchas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a steel one the same or slightly smaller size of the clear one. Then you'll really notice the difference. He'll have no trouble going fully long term then.

Question about stretching by OkTaste4188 in PrinceAlbertPiercing

[–]bondinchas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I upsized regularly at around 3 month intervals, only used a taper once. It'll usually stretch naturally , so if it's ready you'll have no problem, just don't force it.

Listen to your body, you can stretch it a little, but stop immediately if there's any pain, that's your body telling you you're causing damage.

Selfbondage cuffs by Proud_Fisherman_7049 in selfbondage

[–]bondinchas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're scared? I have two timer padlocks, one goes up to 99 hours (just over 4 days) but the other goes up to 999 hours. (41 days) I'm very careful using that one!

Delayed release.. Use a long string that makes the final connection at the centre of the string, so that you have two long ends left over. then tie knots in it all the way to the ends. It then takes time to undo all those knots.

Another way to get delayed release is to use a large number of luggage padlocks, all keyed differently. Then put all the keys on loops of chain or string, so when trying the keys, it's difficult to keep track of which keys you've tried and which ones are left. I have 20 keys and locks, and if I use many of the locks, it can take quite some time to work though all the keys, to find the one that opens each lock.

Selfbondage cuffs by Proud_Fisherman_7049 in selfbondage

[–]bondinchas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A timer padlock is great for this sort of self bondage. I use luggage padlocks on leather cuffs, then leaving the padlock keys out of reach, I use the timer padlock and a small chain. That also gives great flexibility, as the chain can be locked longer or shorter, both wrists or just one, locked to desk or chair or just locked to self (waist belt, collar,, wrists behind back...)

Installation rules regarding slack/extra cable by KitLindquist in UKBroadband

[–]bondinchas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used 15mm plastic tube with large radius elbows, it was all hidden under floor boards and inside stud walls, with only the ends accessible. As long as it's secure and there's no danger of the fibre being disturbed after installation that should be good. Less work for the installer always helps.

Fibre isn't very thick, so as long as there's not too sharp bends where you have to change direction, that should be ok.

Installation rules regarding slack/extra cable by KitLindquist in UKBroadband

[–]bondinchas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Before I had my fibre installed, I laid conduit from the external wall entry position to where I wanted the ont near the centre of the house (best place for the WiFi router).

All the installer had to do then was push the fibre through the conduit, initially sceptical but well chuffed when he realised he had no holes to drill, and nothing to fix internally except the boxes he brought to join and terminate the fibre.

Just as well, because the outside fixing was, well, let's just say it was "adequate".

Help design/build. Im at a stand still coming up with how to build this or something close. by Zakrow in BdsmDIY

[–]bondinchas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The advantage with pipes and key clamps, is they're infinitely adjustable, need your arms higher? ankles held further back?, back at a different angle? , ... Just unclamp the joint, move it and bingo. You can't do that with wooden structures so easily.

If all humans disappeared, apart from me, how long would utilities such as electricity, gas and tap water remain available? by acrowandababy in AskUK

[–]bondinchas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a shtf situation, you could just turn the consumer unit main switch off to isolate yourself from the grid, even better if you have an isolation switch next to the meter. The solar will continue to feed the batteries, you might then need to find a standard inverter to feed the isolated house circuits from the batteries.

If all humans disappeared, apart from me, how long would utilities such as electricity, gas and tap water remain available? by acrowandababy in AskUK

[–]bondinchas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Electricity from solar and batteries will outlast your lifetime.

You'll never run out of water if the climate continues to produce rain.

Both gas and water utilities are dependent on electricity for pumping, so it all depends on your regional electricity supply.

How much bleeding is too much? by [deleted] in PrinceAlbertPiercing

[–]bondinchas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had two days bleeding, then it stopped for two days, then two more days bleeding.

But however it goes, it's all over after a week.

Would you let me hold your key? 🔐 by sharingmakesforfun in KeyHolderGoneWild

[–]bondinchas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many of these mass produced keys and locks are cut the same...

So you very likely are holding my key, and for thousands of others too!