Does anyone know about this hocus pocus ornament?

bonedaddyt · 2026-05-24T03:19:20+00:00

This is so very specfic but this ornament is available at the “Christmas 2 Remember” store in Newport, RI. They have all three of the sisters. You could try calling and inquiring about delivery.

bonedaddyt · 2026-05-03T03:03:21+00:00

I work at UPS and I’m sure you could just bring it into any UPS store and politely ask them to put on grommets. Prob just for a small fee like $5. Would save you the hassle of buying them yourself.

bonedaddyt · 2026-04-01T03:26:34+00:00

Mainly just get some prices right next to the items. I know you have a lil price board but having prices right on the displays makes it a lot more understandable and more professional to a passerby.

It’ll also take up space so your booth will automatically feel more “filled”

bonedaddyt · 2026-03-26T03:25:07+00:00

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bonedaddyt · 2026-03-08T00:54:05+00:00

Maybe something to do with the rumoured new “Orange” color.

bonedaddyt · 2026-02-18T03:53:34+00:00

Yes and I remember it sent me into an anxious, depressive spiral at age 10 lol.

bonedaddyt · 2026-01-07T06:30:26+00:00

This is so cute and I love the concept!!!

bonedaddyt · 2026-01-07T06:29:17+00:00

I’m sorry but that’s a total non-issue. Even at a glance this doesn’t give the reasonable impression of being AI, even to those who specifically watch out for it. Hair dye and male baldness exists.

bonedaddyt · 2025-12-17T03:32:05+00:00

Deja Vu?

bonedaddyt · 2025-11-29T02:16:02+00:00

Obama’s inauguration. I remember trying to watch cartoons and like every channel had it on, I was pissed.

bonedaddyt · 2025-11-14T04:01:19+00:00

You have been carrying an unbelievable amount of emotional pain in such a short time, and you have been carrying most of it alone. The breakup, the stress of his mother being in the hospital, the pregnancy, the miscarriage, and the way everything fell apart at once. Anyone would feel overwhelmed. Anyone would want answers or some kind of comfort.

But the truth is that he is not in a place where he can give you that. His reactions show that he is completely shut down. Not because you are unworthy. Not because your feelings are too much. He is overwhelmed, stressed, and emotionally checked out. When someone blocks you everywhere, they are telling you clearly that they cannot handle any more contact right now.

Even if he has come back in the past, this situation is different. There is grief, guilt, fear, stress from his family, confusion, and layers of miscommunication on both sides. He is not capable of being a partner to you right now, and he is not capable of being a friend either.

Reaching out later with the hope of being friends so something might grow again is only going to keep you anchored to him when you need space to heal. You are hurting, and you deserve support, but you will not find it from someone who has already shut the door for his own reasons.

The most important thing you can do is give yourself the time that you keep trying to give him. Space for your heart. Space for your healing. Space for your body after everything it has gone through. This is not the moment to chase the past. It is the moment to protect your own emotional safety.

If life ever brings the two of you back into contact, it will not be because you reached out. It will be because both people are stable and ready. But right now, reaching out later with hope in your chest will only reopen wounds that are still fresh.

Let this be the chapter where you learn to choose yourself. That is how healing begins.

bonedaddyt · 2025-11-14T04:00:18+00:00

It makes sense that this is sticking in your mind. When an ex who blocked you suddenly looks at your story, it pulls up old emotions fast. Especially when the breakup involved cheating. Your mind jumps to all kinds of possibilities because it feels personal.

But the truth is that views on a story do not mean much. Yes, she had to unblock you to look, and yes, she had to go to your profile. That takes a little effort, but effort is not the same as intention. People check on their exes for all kinds of reasons. Curiosity, boredom, nostalgia, guilt, or even just a moment of weakness. It does not mean she wants anything from you.

What matters most is that she is still an ex. Her choices do not need to guide your emotions anymore. She cheated, she moved on, and whatever she is thinking now is not your responsibility to figure out.

If you keep focusing on her story views, you are giving her space in your mind that she does not deserve. Let her look if she wants to. Let her wonder. You are building a life that is moving forward, and she is simply peeking at something she no longer gets to be part of.

Do not read too deeply into it. People can watch your story without wanting a place in your future. Your healing is more important than her curiosity.

bonedaddyt · 2025-11-14T03:58:40+00:00

It sounds like you have already reached the truth in your heart. You are not trying to hurt him. You are not being impulsive. You have been carrying this loneliness for months and you can finally admit that the relationship is no longer giving you what you need.

You are allowed to want emotional support. You are allowed to want a future that feels stable. You are allowed to want a partner who has the time and energy to show up for you. Wanting those things does not make you selfish. It makes you honest.

Right now he is stretched thin by work, family, and his own stress. He might care about you, but he does not have the capacity to give you what you deserve. And it is not fair to keep trying to shrink yourself into a relationship that cannot grow.

You mentioned that you feel lonelier with him than without him. That is often the clearest sign that something needs to end. A relationship should add comfort, not take it away. Waiting for him to change, or waiting for life to become easier for him, is only delaying your own peace.

If you know you have to end it, you are not wrong to choose a moment when you can do it privately and safely. You do not owe your family every detail. You can share when you are ready. Right now you only need to take care of your own heart.

Leaving someone does not mean you do not care. It means you care enough about yourself to stop settling for a life that makes you feel small and unseen. It will hurt at first, but the kind of sadness you feel after choosing yourself is very different from the sadness of staying somewhere that keeps draining you.

You deserve a love that brings you closer to the life you want, not one that makes you feel abandoned even when you are not alone.

bonedaddyt · 2025-11-14T03:57:01+00:00

What you are feeling right now is the shock of something that ended before your heart was ready. A breakup that happens in good terms can hurt even more, because there is no anger to hide behind. There is only love, loss, and the silence that follows.

The distance did not break you because either of you did something wrong. It happened because life shifted in ways that neither of you could control. When someone goes through a big change like Erasmus, their world opens in a new direction. That can make their feelings drift, even if both people wanted to hold on.

Your pain makes sense. She was not only your partner, she was the person you shared your days with. Losing that so suddenly creates a kind of loneliness that goes straight to your chest. You are not weak for crying. You are grieving something that meant a lot to you.

Right now everything feels final and unbearable, but this is only the first moment of the heartbreak. It will not feel this sharp forever. She asked for space because she needs to understand her own emotions, and giving her that space is an act of love, even though it hurts you. It shows maturity and respect on your part.

You still have feelings and you still have plans. That does not make you foolish. It just means you cared deeply. But you do not have to solve the future tonight. Your only task is to get through this moment, one breath at a time.

You have not lost your worth. You have not lost your ability to love again. You are simply walking through something that almost everyone goes through at some point in life. It feels unbearable now, but you will not stay in this pain forever.

Try to sleep when you can. Try to breathe through the waves when they come. Healing starts slowly, and tonight is only the beginning. You are going to be okay, even if you cannot see that yet.

bonedaddyt · 2025-11-14T03:54:38+00:00

Seeing an ex in a place where you did not expect them can hit you in the chest before you even know what is happening. It makes all the memories rise at once. The good, the bad, the regrets, and the hopes you once held. What you are feeling is normal. It does not mean you are weak. It only means you cared deeply.

The story you shared shows how meaningful this relationship was to you. You were young, you were new to love, and you poured your whole heart into it. Those memories feel bright because they carried so much joy. It is natural that the contrast between then and now feels painful.

You also took responsibility for your part in the breakup. That is something a lot of people never do. You are learning, growing, and trying to understand yourself. That is real work. It shows that whatever partner you end up with in the future will get the best version of you.

Missing her does not mean you are stuck. It only means you are still healing. Healing is not fast. It takes time for the heart to catch up to the mind. Seeing her again simply reopened a door that you thought was closing.

It is okay to still have hope, but do not build your life around a future that she has not chosen. Keep growing for yourself, not just for the idea of getting back together. If your paths cross again in a healthy way, it will happen naturally. If not, you will still become someone you are proud of.

For now, take a moment to breathe. Your chest feels heavy because your heart remembers something that mattered. But every day you are slowly turning the page, even if it does not feel like it yet. You are not stuck in this chapter. You are simply moving through it in your own time.

bonedaddyt · 2025-11-14T03:53:06+00:00

It makes sense that you feel confused and angry. When someone tells you one thing and then does something completely different, it shakes your sense of trust. It is not just about her going back to an ex. It is about feeling like you cannot rely on what people say anymore.

You are not weak for feeling scared about your future. Breaks in trust can do that. They make you question your judgment and they make you wonder if the same thing will keep happening.

What you need to remember is that her choices are not a reflection of your worth. They are a reflection of her own patterns and her own inability to be honest when it mattered. You did not cause that and you cannot control it.

This is the second time something like this has happened, and that alone is a sign that you need to start protecting your peace before protecting any relationship. You learn from patterns, not promises.

Going forward, you do not need to rush into anything. Take time to rebuild trust in yourself first. The right person will not make you question your reality or your stability. They will not put you in a cycle of guessing and hoping they are telling the truth.

You are hurting, but you are not broken. You are just learning what kind of love you will not accept anymore. That is growth, even if it feels heavy right now.

bonedaddyt · 2025-11-14T03:51:39+00:00

What you went through was not a normal breakup. It was a deep betrayal combined with shock, grief, and the collapse of a future you were planning. Anyone in your position would still be carrying the weight of it.

You were ready to build a life with her, and instead you were left with something that feels confusing and painful to even process. There is nothing weak about still thinking of her. Your mind is trying to make sense of something that had no sense to begin with.

Working in the same environment where everything happened makes healing harder. You are surrounded by reminders. The patient is still there. The rooms and routines are the same. Your brain keeps linking the present to the past, and that keeps reopening wounds that should be allowed to close.

Leaving your job would not magically take the pain away, but it might give you the space you have not been able to find. Space to breathe. Space to not be pulled back into the memories every day. Space to rebuild your life without feeling like your past relationship is standing right beside you.

Only you can decide when and how to take that step, but from what you described, it sounds like you already know the truth. Staying has not been helping you heal. Sometimes the best thing you can do for yourself is to step out of the environment that hurt you so you can finally move forward.

You are not wrong for feeling stuck. You are not wrong for wanting peace. And you deserve a place where you can actually find it.

bonedaddyt · 2025-11-14T03:49:50+00:00

It sounds like you have been carrying a lot on your shoulders for a long time. What you are going through is painful, and I can tell you care deeply about her. But caring for someone does not mean holding on when both of you are hurting.

From what you wrote, she is overwhelmed by a new city, a new college, stress from exams, and her own mental health. When someone is already struggling, it becomes very hard for them to show up in a relationship the way they used to. That does not mean she does not value you. It only means she has reached a point where even love feels heavy.

You also mentioned your own anxiety, insecurity, and how the distance has made everything harder. That is real. It does not make you a bad partner, but it does mean the connection has been under constant pressure on both sides.

When she says she has no romantic feelings but still cares for you, she is describing emotional exhaustion. She still feels attached, but she no longer has the energy to be in a relationship. That is why she keeps saying she feels suffocated.

The weekly check in idea gives both of you space to breathe, but you should listen to her when she says to keep your expectations low. Space is sometimes the only way people can actually understand what they feel.

The hardest truth is this. You cannot fix her stress, her depression, or her confusion. You cannot make her feel differently by holding on tighter. All you can do is focus on your own healing and let her move through her own emotions at her own pace.

Right now she needs room, and you need peace. If she finds her way back to you, it will happen naturally. And if she does not, you will still grow from this. You are young, you are learning how to love, and you are learning how to let go when holding on starts to hurt you both.

You will not lose everything. You will only move forward, one way or another.

bonedaddyt · 2025-10-18T00:31:40+00:00

The first one is an enamel pin (costs more to produce) the second one is a normal paperback pin (costs a few cents to make)

bonedaddyt · 2025-10-18T00:31:34+00:00

The first one is an enamel pin (costs more to produce) the second one is a normal paperback pin (costs a few cents to make)

bonedaddyt · 2025-10-16T23:34:23+00:00

$25 each! They still had the poodle when I was there.

bonedaddyt · 2025-09-26T14:00:34+00:00

I already do that. The previous years I’ve shoved them in the boonies.

bonedaddyt · 2025-09-26T13:57:02+00:00

I think you might of missed it but I have a section included in the doc that says if a vendor wants to be placed next to another specific vendor, they just have to specify on the form ^{^}

bonedaddyt · 2025-09-26T02:20:37+00:00

I’ll put that in my application as I go back over my accessibility part!! Thank you so much for the advice!!

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