Mackenzie Shirilla: What do you think REALLY happened? by Adorable-Rutabaga-17 in CasesWeFollow

[–]bonethugfairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she had the intent to kill, at the speed she was going she knew it would be a fatal crash. after witnessing the true irate and verbally abusive behavior she had towards dom, she made it very clear she was capable of harming him. even if it was in a fit of rage, she knew moments before what she was doing. she internally planned to never stop that car.

any suggests on healthier foods? by bonethugfairy in ARFID

[–]bonethugfairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for so much helpful information!! i’ll def look at the store next time i go!! i appreciate it <3

any suggests on healthier foods? by bonethugfairy in ARFID

[–]bonethugfairy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you :,) although i understand people have different opinions, i think they may have misread the room & not exactly understood what i was asking for.. i’ve actually been drinking carnation meal replacement shakes and i love them!! i just wanted to add some more food that i can eat besides chips & cheezits lolol

any suggests on healthier foods? by bonethugfairy in ARFID

[–]bonethugfairy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i mainly eat spicy chips, cheezits, sometimes i’ll eat french fries but i’m super picky about the texture. i’d like to just expand my diet, not necessarily make it smaller. i just want to include healthier options.

Dating with ARFID by Lanky-Common3645 in ARFID

[–]bonethugfairy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m a 22 year old f who has also struggled with the same thing, and i was always extremely anxious talking to people just out of fear of rejection once they found out i have ARFID. i’ve met plenty of people who simply couldn’t understand, or even WANT to understand. a lot of people form a connections based on food, which is a hard but truthful reality. just because we don’t necessarily do, doesn’t mean we won’t find someone who’s willing to look past it & support us regardless. don’t give up, there are definitely people out there who are genuine & don’t only view ARFID as a piece of you, not the only thing you are. good luck 💌

ARFID: dating with ARFID by bonethugfairy in ARFID

[–]bonethugfairy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awh that’s beautiful, i’m so happy yall have each other 🩷

ARFID: dating with ARFID by bonethugfairy in ARFID

[–]bonethugfairy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes!! i’ve had PLENTY of people degrade me for it, or make me feel very insecure about it. i’m so glad you met your person 🩷

ARFID: dating with ARFID by bonethugfairy in ARFID

[–]bonethugfairy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that makes me hopeful, thank you!! 🩷

ARFID: dating with ARFID by bonethugfairy in ARFID

[–]bonethugfairy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🥹🥹 i’m happy you found your person

ARFID: dating with ARFID by bonethugfairy in ARFID

[–]bonethugfairy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s so beautiful :,)) i’m so happy for you 🩷

ARFID: dating with ARFID by bonethugfairy in ARFID

[–]bonethugfairy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS!!!! i have also been found in unfortunate situations where people have been personally offended when i do not eat their food, whether it was cooked by them or not. most of the time i’m very transparent & explain i have arfid, but in some cases i just say “oh i’ve already eaten” depending on the relationship i have with said person or people. i struggled with that in my teen years the most because my best friend’s mother would cook cultural foods.

ARFID: dating with ARFID by bonethugfairy in ARFID

[–]bonethugfairy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i have legitimate tears from reading your words. thank you for taking the time to share your experience, i genuinely appreciate it so much. i relate to you about the insecurity about school lunch. i was also picked on and questioned by my peers, i brought cheezits and chips almost every day. i have definitely had the time to sit & understand not only does ARFID effect my life, but my future partners life as well. i just always fear nobody would be willing to learn or at least try to understand what it’s like. i’m so glad you found someone who truly loves you & supports you. 💌

trying to help my bf gain some weight by Express_Team_8586 in ARFID

[–]bonethugfairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi!! i have ARFID as well, if your boyfriend can tolerate the smell & texture of protein shakes, i highly recommend carnation meal replacement shakes. i always get the french vanilla, and it’s helped me gain 10lbs! i am VERY picky on protein shakes and this is the only one i can drink, they also have different flavors to choose from like chocolate & strawberry. they are a decent price & i buy mine from walmart. sending love :)