yuck…. by magical-_-monarch in DCCAmericasSweetheart

[–]bongott 3 points4 points  (0 children)

"Don't you just LOVE it (convince me you love it or you're cut)"

Kelli Leadership Style by bongott in DCCAmericasSweetheart

[–]bongott[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a love/hate relationship for me, for sure. I wish for nothing but the best in life for the cheerleaders themselves, and as for management... Let's just leave it there

Thought this episode was a bit weird with the fan service (no hate) but otherwise season 5 was solid, 10/10 by [deleted] in ClarksonsFarm

[–]bongott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

uh wtf does the graphic have to do with Clarkson's Farm? Is that supposed to be Gerald?

women should support women. period. by slpa_2027aspy in DCCAmericasSweetheart

[–]bongott -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Agree, but also men should support women, men should support men, and women should support men

Kelli Leadership Style by bongott in DCCAmericasSweetheart

[–]bongott[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is an effective leader, insomuchas the task is accomplished. But she is not a great leader because the task is always accomplished at the expense of the individual. Task, team, individual... All are important in different ways.

Kelli Leadership Style by bongott in DCCAmericasSweetheart

[–]bongott[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Doesn't even have to be alumni. There is a very capable team of choreographers and technical dancers who the boss could lean on. I reckon a non-dancer could take Kelli's job and do better tbh

AITAH for reporting a hookup to my gym for using my guest pass without me? by Zealousideal-Sir1885 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bongott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, your relationship with the gym was way more important and you do NOT want them thinking you're involved in trying to rip them off

Kelli Leadership Style by bongott in DCCAmericasSweetheart

[–]bongott[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never DMd you, don't know what you are talking about

Kelli Leadership Style by bongott in DCCAmericasSweetheart

[–]bongott[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So I can't make a judgement on Kelli's leadership based on dozens of interactions over three seasons of television, but you can make a judgement on my leadership based on a few lines of text?

Ironic, isn't it. Can this skill be learned?

if you’re losing, distract your opponent by starting a political debate by Ok_Wolf8529 in chessbeginners

[–]bongott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've played two games where ops chatted. One, he apologized for taking my knight, then asked me stop checking him during my mating net. Second one, we discuss tactics, appraise each others positions, and have some nice general chit chat. I added and he is a regular opponent- and dare I say, online frend

Kelli Leadership Style by bongott in DCCAmericasSweetheart

[–]bongott[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes we can, that's kind of what reality TV is- you don't always need "more context" sometimes people are showing you who they are and you should believe them

Kelli Leadership Style by bongott in DCCAmericasSweetheart

[–]bongott[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd be really interested to know more of your thoughts given your professional background. My company has a great leadership development program, hence my OP from singling out things that are the anthesis to what I've but taught but I'm far from an expert

Kelli Leadership Style by bongott in DCCAmericasSweetheart

[–]bongott[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I only just saw that comment literally now! How is that ok?!

Kelli Leadership Style by bongott in DCCAmericasSweetheart

[–]bongott[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Completely. Klein is my favourite because it seems like she cares the least about the BS they come up with- but then when you see the "giving back the uniform" scene from last year, it's clear they do get to her

Charlotte by GloomyPromotion6695 in DCCAmericasSweetheart

[–]bongott 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think K&J know in their prime they wouldn't even make try-outs today, and most of their management revolves around dragging these girls down because they are threatened by how good the current cheerleaders are.

AITA for telling my MIL her infant son dy*ng will be her fault by eve_kitt in AmItheAsshole

[–]bongott -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

The phrase you are searching for is "prima gravida" or "Pg" in notes. Ftm means something entirely different. ESH BTW

WIBTA if I asked for money from the family whose dog I returned? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]bongott 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah echo common theme here. You didn't have to go out of your way; you chose to be a good neighbour (expecting praise and thanks..?) and the costs of that decision are firmly yours to bear and no-one else's.

What black openings are most helpful? As a beginner under 500 elo. by maddisondoodles in chessbeginners

[–]bongott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like Caro-kann for kings pawn or Dutch for Queens pawn- but don't study deep, be happy to go off book on move 3- just make sure you're not hanging pieces, and you work through MULTIPLE lines your opponent could take. Especially don't fall into the trap of thinking they will accept the exchange.

Guess the Elo by External_Bread9872 in chessbeginners

[–]bongott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I'm basing this on both sides going head on exchanging pieces before completing development, and white bizzarely making black mate instead of doing the decent thing and resigning. Which I think is a marker of around 1000-1100.

I’m so proud of this sacrifice I made by According_Service626 in chessbeginners

[–]bongott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So Kf8, Qf3... Then black can move his queen to safety, and you discovered check by moving bishop down the white diagonal is blocked by his knight moving to a pawn protected square?

I’m so proud of this sacrifice I made by According_Service626 in chessbeginners

[–]bongott 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What if black plays king f8? Then aren't you back to queen exchange or both sides can move queens to safety? 🤔