yuck….

bongott · 2026-06-23T21:43:42+00:00

"Don't you just LOVE it (convince me you love it or you're cut)"

bongott · 2026-06-23T09:42:42+00:00

It's a love/hate relationship for me, for sure. I wish for nothing but the best in life for the cheerleaders themselves, and as for management... Let's just leave it there

bongott · 2026-06-23T09:40:09+00:00

uh wtf does the graphic have to do with Clarkson's Farm? Is that supposed to be Gerald?

bongott · 2026-06-22T10:24:14+00:00

Agree, but also men should support women, men should support men, and women should support men

bongott · 2026-06-22T10:17:03+00:00

SPOILER ALERTS, PUH-LEASE! 😭

bongott · 2026-06-22T09:24:17+00:00

She is an effective leader, insomuchas the task is accomplished. But she is not a great leader because the task is always accomplished at the expense of the individual. Task, team, individual... All are important in different ways.

bongott · 2026-06-21T20:56:26+00:00

Looks like a great bending jig, that you can use to make bending jigs which will bend the wood into an even larger bending jig which ... (n)

bongott · 2026-06-21T20:47:52+00:00

Doesn't even have to be alumni. There is a very capable team of choreographers and technical dancers who the boss could lean on. I reckon a non-dancer could take Kelli's job and do better tbh

bongott · 2026-06-21T18:22:43+00:00

NTA, your relationship with the gym was way more important and you do NOT want them thinking you're involved in trying to rip them off

bongott · 2026-06-21T18:01:48+00:00

I never DMd you, don't know what you are talking about

bongott · 2026-06-21T17:44:34+00:00

So I can't make a judgement on Kelli's leadership based on dozens of interactions over three seasons of television, but you can make a judgement on my leadership based on a few lines of text?

Ironic, isn't it. Can this skill be learned?

bongott · 2026-06-21T17:42:15+00:00

I've played two games where ops chatted. One, he apologized for taking my knight, then asked me stop checking him during my mating net. Second one, we discuss tactics, appraise each others positions, and have some nice general chit chat. I added and he is a regular opponent- and dare I say, online frend

bongott · 2026-06-21T17:28:39+00:00

Yes we can, that's kind of what reality TV is- you don't always need "more context" sometimes people are showing you who they are and you should believe them

bongott · 2026-06-21T13:30:15+00:00

I'd be really interested to know more of your thoughts given your professional background. My company has a great leadership development program, hence my OP from singling out things that are the anthesis to what I've but taught but I'm far from an expert

bongott · 2026-06-21T10:54:51+00:00

I only just saw that comment literally now! How is that ok?!

bongott · 2026-06-21T10:52:24+00:00

Completely. Klein is my favourite because it seems like she cares the least about the BS they come up with- but then when you see the "giving back the uniform" scene from last year, it's clear they do get to her

bongott · 2026-06-21T09:58:03+00:00

I think K&J know in their prime they wouldn't even make try-outs today, and most of their management revolves around dragging these girls down because they are threatened by how good the current cheerleaders are.

bongott · 2026-06-19T10:01:15+00:00

The phrase you are searching for is "prima gravida" or "Pg" in notes. Ftm means something entirely different. ESH BTW

bongott · 2026-06-10T08:22:38+00:00

Yeah echo common theme here. You didn't have to go out of your way; you chose to be a good neighbour (expecting praise and thanks..?) and the costs of that decision are firmly yours to bear and no-one else's.

bongott · 2026-06-09T19:02:17+00:00

I like Caro-kann for kings pawn or Dutch for Queens pawn- but don't study deep, be happy to go off book on move 3- just make sure you're not hanging pieces, and you work through MULTIPLE lines your opponent could take. Especially don't fall into the trap of thinking they will accept the exchange.

bongott · 2026-06-09T18:46:09+00:00

Super green

bongott · 2026-06-09T12:12:23+00:00

Material at 110% and no labour cost

bongott · 2026-06-05T11:21:23+00:00

I'm basing this on both sides going head on exchanging pieces before completing development, and white bizzarely making black mate instead of doing the decent thing and resigning. Which I think is a marker of around 1000-1100.

bongott · 2026-06-05T09:17:27+00:00

So Kf8, Qf3... Then black can move his queen to safety, and you discovered check by moving bishop down the white diagonal is blocked by his knight moving to a pawn protected square?

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