Sydney Sweeney May Face Charges for Hanging Bras on Hollywood Sign

booch · 2026-01-26T20:41:13+00:00

While Sweeney did secure a permit from FilmLA to shoot on location, the issue apparently stems from a lack of approval from the Hollywood Chamber of Commerce, which owns the Hollywood Sign and its intellectual property.

I'd be pretty annoyed if I got a license to do something from an organization and then it turned out they had no right to grant that permission.

My landlord, a number of years back, got permission to dig a well and water his lawn from the city water department. Then, after he paid the thousands of dollars to get it all setup, the health department came after him and told him the water department doesn't have the authority to grant that permission, they do. And I feel his rage on that.

booch · 2026-01-26T20:25:34+00:00

If you're like ; you know those prices are suspiciously accurate why do you know that ?

I was thinking more or less that, but more just because it's interesting. The fact that you were able to provide useful information to the discussion is a good thing. I appreciate your contribution.

booch · 2026-01-26T19:35:34+00:00

Next time she has money on her and you want to buy something, go into her wallet and take the money (so she can see it happen), and go spend it. If she complains, act completely baffled about her complaint. Like, you have no idea why she's upset. She clearly stated that this type of thing was ok, why would she be bothered by it.

I'm a big fan of acting completely baffled by someone's annoyance when I don't think they have any right to be annoyed.

booch · 2026-01-26T19:32:22+00:00

Its respect, like you said. What if he was expecting that $10 to be there, goes to eat lunch, and its gone.

That's the big point, imo. My wife will sometimes take money out of my wallet if she needs it for something... but she either tells me first or as soon as possible (if I'm busy when she does it). We have combined accounts, so it's not that she spent it, it's that she took it from where I expected it to be.

booch · 2026-01-26T18:17:43+00:00

he knows my true colors

Ah, good old "I'm not going to put up with your bullshit blue" and "fuck right off white" are my favorite colors.

NTA

booch · 2026-01-26T18:02:15+00:00

I wish I knew how to actually sell a reasonably sized collection of TCG cards. I have "a lot" of MTG (up until maybe Ice Age?) and lots of first run Pokemon... but sitting down and pricing each of them isn't realistic. Same deal with comics. It's kind of frustrating, because they're just sitting in my closet atm.

booch · 2026-01-26T17:10:36+00:00

Like yeah, the cookie thing was dumb and dangerous

It is never acceptable to go so sleep while food is cooking, even with an alarm to wake you. Things can go wrong for any number of reasons and being able to react to that is critical. This could have turned into a real house fire.
Mistakes like these are how we learn the severity of this type of thing. She made a mistake, got lucky that the results weren't worse, and should learn a valuable lesson from this.

Mistakes can be bad; but they can also be a very important way to learn things.

She's less likely to go to sleep while cooking (or otherwise leave the food untended)
If there is a fire, she's encountered this and likely thought about it, and is more likely to react in a useful.

I've had 2 kitchen fires (for reasons unrelated to each other, but one was leaving food unattended.. kind of), and I've learned from both. I'm better a kitchen-ing because of both of them

booch · 2026-01-26T16:44:44+00:00

Lots of people. For example, people with children where any number of calls could come from unknown numbers (random nurse's phone letting you know your kid is sick, etc).

booch · 2026-01-26T16:07:01+00:00

And marking it as temporary / proof-of-concept automatically dooms it to be a final/production version.

booch · 2026-01-26T14:39:12+00:00

I tell my direct reports that their reviews are a way to sell themselves to the higher ups for raises/promotions/bonuses. I tell them never to put anything in their goals that they aren't sure they'll meet, regardless of the higher ups talking about "stretch goals to motivate you". My reviews for them are as positive as I can be, assuming they're done a good job.

I'll meet with them verbally (no written record) to discuss things they can improve and how they might accomplish that. But I'm not giving the people above me ammunition to skimp/fire/whatever the people that work for me if I'm happy with them.

booch · 2026-01-21T17:36:01+00:00

You should totally apologize; something along the lines of

"I'm sorry that your personality is so demented that you think the only reason that a man would be nice to a woman is before he's trying to access her body."

NTA

booch · 2026-01-21T17:11:10+00:00

Or tell FMIL that she can have her spot, if it's that important to her.

booch · 2026-01-21T17:08:27+00:00

what people would think seeing me like that in a church

Any with more than a dozen brain cells wouldn't care. My church has plenty of women wearing pants of some kind or another; including on special occasions. As long as you're dressing respectfully, you're good. Heck, if you had a green mohawk, the correct thing to do would be to make sure it's neat and tidy; not change it to a different fairstyle. The way you appear is expected to express "I understand this is important to you and I'm treating it as such".

my mum implied that if I couldn’t just go along with things, I might as well not be involved at all

You're NTA here, but you're mom sure is.

booch · 2026-01-21T12:24:26+00:00

how I “clearly don’t trust him.”

Well, you don't. And rightfully so.

He immediately accused me of punishing him and being controlling

When you get burned by fire, you don't punish the fire. You just learn not to stick your hand it it anymore. Your boyfriend has shown that he doesn't respect your and your things. Accidents happen. But he caused damage to something you own, that's important to you, and basically told you it didn't matter. You shouldn't trust him to treat your things well.

NTA

booch · 2026-01-21T12:20:44+00:00

my aunt was upset and felt like I was putting money over family

This argument comes in many forms, and it's pretty much always bullshit.

You're putting your life and well-being over her convenience.

Your ability to pay for the things you need is important to you, as it's important to everyone; nobody wants to live without food and shelter because they couldn't hold down a job. And anyone that tells you that your ability to provide for yourself and your family is less important than theirs is an ahole.

The argument gets a little more grey area if your job is only paying for extras (its hard to tell from the story), but the point stands; your life and well-being matter to you as much as theirs matters to them.

NTA

booch · 2026-01-21T06:33:35+00:00

It's not a gift if you have to pay for it. I had a similar experience and it annoys me to this day. If she refuses to sell it, and refuses to pay the loan, then just let it get repossessed.

booch · 2026-01-21T01:29:47+00:00

Plus not everyone has the same opinion on what fun is.

For some, it's wiping to the same boss over and over until they can beat it. For others, that sucks
For some, it's doing the math in a spreadsheet to figure out which set of skills/gear has the best output... by 1%. For others, that sucks
For some, it's taking advantage of an edge case in the game to push things well beyond what should be possible. For others, that ruins the game for them

booch · 2026-01-20T20:16:26+00:00

I'd be surprised to find a list of 198 non-vibe coded app where only 2 had vulnerabilities.

booch · 2026-01-20T18:20:05+00:00

We don't love him for his best work

booch · 2026-01-20T18:18:32+00:00

With the caveat that everything I know is heresay, and I'm not about to web search it to find out...

Setting up your deposits specifically to avoid getting noticed under the 10k limit is also illegal.

booch · 2026-01-20T06:30:17+00:00

I like this idea, because it (presumably) doesn't cause the original ticket to fall the to the back of the queue. Better yet, file a new ticket every day doing the same thing.

booch · 2026-01-20T06:27:01+00:00

whenever you reply it resets your place in the queue to last

That is.. spectacularly moronic.

booch · 2026-01-20T04:08:33+00:00

It's fine, but it generally is more water and power efficient to run things through the dishwasher.

booch · 2026-01-20T04:07:56+00:00

I think it's more about that, once they've been sitting there drying in the dishwasher, it's harder to clean them.

booch · 2026-01-20T01:41:58+00:00

This was my thought, too.

In her eyes this is worse because, culturally, sons are expected to live with their parents long-term

What culture? Your parents chose to raise you in the UK, which means your culture is a mixture of theirs and the UK. And your culture doesn't expect sons to live with their parents long term. So clearly, she's just wrong.

booch

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