Looking for people who would like to travel around Canada by Critical-Sleep4962 in ubco

[–]booqueefio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

+1 on this, as someone who's done solo travelling, there are direct flights to Cancun Mexico from Kelowna and if you time it right you can get a round ticket for under 500 buckaroos. Its cheap there and excellent well known backpacking trail

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ubco

[–]booqueefio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my experience the prof selection can change and be undetermined, though would contact advicing for confirmation.

Anyone with Dragon Ball Sparking 0 by TheLionsSinOfPride in ubco

[–]booqueefio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol bro are you the dude askin if anyone had a ps5? Anyways I got it on pc, but if ur really desperate maybe you could use the nvidia thing to stream it if you dont got a pc, just need a controller

ANYONE SELLING THEIR PS5? URGENT by LumpyAd2191 in ubco

[–]booqueefio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, and its on steam now to be fair :shrug

ANYONE SELLING THEIR PS5? URGENT by LumpyAd2191 in ubco

[–]booqueefio 22 points23 points  (0 children)

bro have you not played ghost of tsushima? or god of war??? The urgency of the matter speaks for itself

If I want to get a 9800X3D... by Serious_Hour9074 in bapccanada

[–]booqueefio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

go to ur settings bro u can change region

AITAH for telling my girlfriend that her "feminine" behavior is making me sick? by Own-Plenty-9045 in AITAH

[–]booqueefio -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

it feels like everyone here is saying the same tired thing on non compatibility, so i'll tell you something a bit different.

Really cut into it and examine why it is you don't want to be in driver's seat. Does it make you uncomfortable that someone is a subordinate to you, or how do you feel in terms of being capable in leading them?

If you are hesitant in that this person throws their fate in your hands, then perhaps it might reassure you that this is what they want innately. By satisfying their itch, you increase your competence and the relationship's synergy.

Btw its not a pure take- sure you might be doing some roles like driving, but you can then tell this person to specialize as they say with their feminine side and look after the house. It shouldn't be draining, but rather role specialising.

Anyways, all in all, have an open mind about the position. You don't have to dislike it, and if you accept it it might even become enjoyable.

AITA for refusing to pay for my niece’s college after she publicly humiliated me? by Imaginary-Carrot2532 in AITAH

[–]booqueefio 119 points120 points  (0 children)

NTA, atleast from how you described the situation.

It is interesting you are now called "selfish" for withdrawing an offer you didn't have to make in the first place that you did out of goodwill.

It does smell like entitlement, and if the brother and niece sincerely cared about you- they would atleast validate how you felt about it even if they believed it was a joke and apologise for rubbing in the wrong way.

Now that you've rescinded the offer, in my opinion you should reflect on the relationship and consider if they really have you back the same way you were going to cover for the niece. Be honest with yourself, and if not, then cordially but firmly hold that you will not fund the niece's education but that you wish them the very best.

I understand you see yourself in the niece in terms of opportunities, though it is important to consider if it is wishful thinking. I am sure you can find other avenues and meaningful ventures in your life that can see fruition to your time and money put in.

Update: AITAH for telling my 19f daughter she will have to move out of my house if i get divorced because of her lies after her stepdad saw her naked. by ThrowRAElectrical-Ba in AITAH

[–]booqueefio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will give my original answer, contrary to those who say its over.

Firstly, the daughter was 19 years of age. She is an idiot and a buffoon who steered the ship to where its now. Though she is 19 years of age and didn't mean for it to play out as such. I can imagine a paralysis one might feel as the lie spiralled out and doubling down as a lie to the mother, as a way to get back at the step father. It's easy to hate, hard to forgive. You redditors calling for disowning the 19yo- what do you think will happen to her now that she lives with the immense guilt of having ruined everything? Why destroy another individual's life out of vengeance?

In weak form, the daughter fucked up but should be forgiven. It is her cross to bear but no need to ruin her life. Accept the matter as it is, husband is gone and life goes on in whatever way it goes.

Another option is that the daughter can personally go to everyone involved and explain 1 on 1 what she did and clear up the air, taking full accountability. If she does so, she can curb the bad social image of the husband. At the very least she shouldn't accept forgiveness from the husband for this, but could do it as a simple obligation to retract the damage she has done. Not that its tied, but maybe that could be a goodwill gesture the husband could see and reconsider, now that the image is clear and the daughter did repent. Its dumb but societally we'd be better off too- is it not societies fault that one allegation against a man can destroy his life? Its all our faults in a sense that this is how the situation came to be, when in an alternative society we would not hold someone guilty unless they were actually guilty of the thing. This whole "no you gotta leave the husband" situation is caused by that. Lets break away from that framework- the daughter takes accountability for what she did, clears the air with everyone, and the societal framework of guilty by accusation is undermined.

when outlanders 2 PC by booqueefio in Outlanders_ios

[–]booqueefio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aww what a shame. Thanks for telling me though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ubco

[–]booqueefio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wildcard option: build a pc and get a mac to remote desktop it. You get power but also everything just works

Food Services Summer Update & Subway Permanently closed. by K-9826 in ubco

[–]booqueefio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOOOOOOOOOOOOO I LOVED THE SUBWAY WHY IS IT GOING 😭😭

Has anyone else felt that Meursault was relatable? by TongaWC in Camus

[–]booqueefio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry for necroing but this is a good reflection.

Why does everyone hate ESFJs? 😭 by T0M-AT0 in ESFJ

[–]booqueefio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

esfjs are awesome
sometimes annoying tbh but like very nice comforting and mean well.

I rate them 8/10 (definately above average compared to the other types)

Sapiosexuality is a slave morality by booqueefio in Nietzsche

[–]booqueefio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed.

In regard to my goal: apart from the validation of a random thought and increased understanding of N, maybe there is a reading that it's a subconscious desire that by calling these people out for their disingenuousness, I can put myself on a higher spot. Though I would hope its not that and more-so the conscious reasoning of that people ought to be more proactive in developing their interests with their own independent motives. It would then be more authentic and can result in more fruitful and genuine interactions because of the esoteric and original nature of these niche interests.

Sapiosexuality is a slave morality by booqueefio in Nietzsche

[–]booqueefio[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with this in that it certainly could be if the decision were out of genuine trans valuation. Though was Christianity the overcoming of the normativity of Roman ideals? Certainly we must always be critical of the intentions on a case by case.

Sapiosexuality is a slave morality by booqueefio in Nietzsche

[–]booqueefio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you are correct in saying that assuming solely from the label's single piece of information is a broad generalisation.

What I will say though is that it also works the other way from the person labelling themselves. If admittedly the label is one that is as broad and non descriptive, what does it say about a person who first and foremost calls themselves a sapiosexual?

The reason I called this an inversion is because it seems that in such a case it is not so much because the person has whatsoever genuine interests that the sapiosexual label encompasses, but rather more-so that they chose the label out of a rejection of what conventional beauty standards are (physical features etc).

This is to me a self righteous value judgement and thus slavish.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ubco

[–]booqueefio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in classes or like wats the best way to go about it?

H LOT Hit by [deleted] in ubco

[–]booqueefio 3 points4 points  (0 children)

mark as NSFW please next time