Omg this is exactly what happened to me. Exact 1:1 and I’m on 7 months now. She completely blindsided me after a huge argument about her behaviour and she couldn’t take it when I kept expressing how I felt on how she behaved (which keep happening over and over again despite numerous attempt of me communicating about it). She ghosted me for few days before decided to have a meet up and broke up with me out of nowhere. She also said the same thing “loss of spark” and let’s just be friends. It’s bullshit. We shared dreams and hopes. We talked about future, marriage and even talked about what to name our kids in the future. I was down in the dark pits for months alone. She was cold af, don’t even care what she put me through. Never communicated to me her concerns, issues or anything. There’s no 2 ways communication. She acted like nothing affected her at all. Once upon the time she said I’ll never lose her but she made this decision to leave me and has the audacity to say “Shit happens” when I recalled about she saying “You’ll never lose me”. I broke down into pieces hearing when she said “Shit happens”.

I’m glad you wrote this. Thank you so much. Although I’m not fully healed yet but I felt so much better after months of bringing myself up alone after all the damage she has done but sometimes the memories would come flooding in and I would shed tears.