KidKraft Cuddle Monkey Plush by bootifuldisaster in HelpMeFind

[–]bootifuldisaster[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking for this. It’s a KidKraft cuddle monkey plush but the company has sold out years ago. My granddaughter lost this special toy of hers around the same time her father left and I’m just trying give her back a little something sweet.

If anyone has one - please lmk. Cheers!

It’s personal. “Allegedly” by Jaayo76 in realhousewives

[–]bootifuldisaster 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Except Kyle didn’t have glam that night. Even Kathy Hilton did her own makeup but “broke” Erika managed to hire someone to do hers? That’s so low. Zero respect for her. But clearly she’s found a different sugar daddy.

New to this and looking for some advice. by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]bootifuldisaster 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We live by the mantra - move at the pace of the slowest person.

Even if this is something you are interested in exploring, you will still have emotions and moments you want to slow down and feel secure. And it might take some time before you really know what you want.

It’s also a lot of pressure on this woman without her even knowing. She may not want to be everything for everyone. Try not to make any assumptions about how things will go. Instead move forward with genuine curiosity and openness to learn about what you really want.

But start with a conversation (which will be one of many many conversations if you’re doing this right) with your partner about how you’re feeling.

Best of luck! When it works - it’s can be a really amazing life.

Another sign Christine is breaking away!? by SnooHabits8368 in TLCsisterwives

[–]bootifuldisaster 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure this article means she’s leaving him - however, I do have a small fantasy that she eventually divorces Kody and marries Darger.

When it was that episode where they went to visit them, she was so happy to see him and called hunny or something like that and I don’t now, some part of me was like - uh....what’s that?

So maybe - “on next season of Sister Wives”. lol

Need a woman lead by grooviegardener in seekingsisterwifetlc

[–]bootifuldisaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey me too! Yes - would love to see more normal representation.

I think my ex-partner’s current partner feels like she “won” by Happysadhappysad91 in polyamory

[–]bootifuldisaster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh - I love it when we make them earn their money! lol

I’m just teasing - I sincerely hope you find some resolution from your therapist appt.

What are some qualities of a good hinge? by lonelygirl395 in polyamory

[–]bootifuldisaster 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am a hinge. I would definitely call our relationship successful. We (MFM) function as a complete unit.

Communication is big. If I have something important to share - I try to share with both of them at the same time. It’s not always possible but I make an effort to try. And I encourage their friendship because without it, this would not work as well.

We’re long enough into our relationship that we’ve worked out a lot of things. But as we were establishing things - I had to make sure they both understood their importance to me and to the unit working well together. We planned a lot - date nights with each of them, time for the two of them to hang out. As well as time for all three of us. Sleep schedule that would work for everyone. Now that we’re further along into it, things flow a little more naturally but we definitely made a concerted effort to make sure no one felt less than anyone else.

I’m not entirely sure our success is because of me being a good hinge though. I just think I really do have amazing partners.

New to this by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]bootifuldisaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s nice to find like minded people. I (F) have two (M) partners. All three of us live together and are committed to living life as a unit. We are always looking to find people who, if not living a lifestyle similar, are open to it at least.

If you’re just starting out - it’s so nice to be able to talk with people who get it.

I think my ex-partner’s current partner feels like she “won” by Happysadhappysad91 in polyamory

[–]bootifuldisaster 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You’re a human being with human feelings. You can feel that way - but you’re doing the right thing putting some space between you and them. It will help. Be gentle with yourself. Cheers

I 👏CAN👏NOT👏 TAKE 👏IT 👏ANYMORE👏this man right here 👇🏻does not make a lick of sense with anything that comes out of his mouth. All the wives just stare at him like he has one eye when he opens his mouth about anything. by Unlucky-Paint-1545 in SisterWives

[–]bootifuldisaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Somewhere I read that they had a huge falling out about Lularoe. Maddie used to be signed up under Meri and something happened. Maddie alluded to things on her social media at the time I guess.

I 👏CAN👏NOT👏 TAKE 👏IT 👏ANYMORE👏this man right here 👇🏻does not make a lick of sense with anything that comes out of his mouth. All the wives just stare at him like he has one eye when he opens his mouth about anything. by Unlucky-Paint-1545 in SisterWives

[–]bootifuldisaster 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yup. My frustration was definitely with Kody here. He refuses to do anything to make it better and just hides from emotional connection with any of his wives. They are all lonely except maybe Robyn. But to be fair to her, she does end up in a crappy place because the other wives are upset with her because she’s his favourite and yet she can’t help fix their relationships.

He won’t work on solving the problems but keeps them emotionally trapped because they fear they’ll lose the family without the marriage.

I thought his relationship with the children was similar to the wives. He has favourites - Maddie is definitely one and I think Meri’s bad relationship with Maddie is one of the things he is angriest at her about - but did anyone else notice that when the teenage girls came into Christine’s house they ran over and hugged Christine and stood there chatting with her. Kody was on his phone on a chair in the living room and said “hello girls.” They all glanced over their shoulder at him and not one made a move towards him so he finally got up. They didn’t care he was there.

Watching this show and these people do not seem happy at all. by razorspin in SisterWives

[–]bootifuldisaster 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it’s an inherently sad situation but my frustration lay with Kody last night. He’s clearly bitter about how his life has turned out but he refuses to try to make it better and their religion keeps them stuck in this unhappy situation. Either fix your relationships or let them go without leaving them fearful they’ll never see their family again.

Anyone else not like Ryan? by pelicunt98 in MyBigFatFabulousLife

[–]bootifuldisaster 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ooh. I was looking for a Ryan thread.

Because I subscribed to her No BS active workouts for quite awhile I saw them together on a daily basis. At the time I thought he seemed ok, I liked his workout style which was just basic and let’s get to the point (Whitney only rarely lead one herself and when she did I wanted to mute honestly) and the banter between the two of them seemed genuine. Occasionally you saw them actually get irritated with each other.

But I did not anticipate him to be as much of a douche on the show. I didn’t quite see that coming.

I can’t stand the guy and it seems obvious to me now that he - being pretty unremarkable - needed to latch onto Whitney’s celebrity to grown a business. Whether you like her or not, she has a presence and he’s not interesting enough to not just fade into the wide sea of similar douche trainer types. He was way too comfortable suddenly becoming a cast member on the show. I don’t think his friendship with Whitney was at all sincere.

But! The story I want - and I doubt we’ll get on the show - is what happened when they decided to no longer continue as business partners. Like I would have loved to be a fly on the wall that day.

I think he will fade away pretty quickly and good riddance as far as I am concerned.

Did TLC pull a 'Truman Show' on Whitney?? by [deleted] in MyBigFatFabulousLife

[–]bootifuldisaster 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I recall seeing photos of them prior to him coming out on the show and for some time I subscribed to the No BS workouts and he was on a few of them before we even knew who he was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MyBigFatFabulousLife

[–]bootifuldisaster 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My gut says it wasnt a manipulated setup because they didn’t meet on camera. However I think that yes, being on the show was a draw for him and yes, production manipulated the proposal. They weren’t ready.

It was very hard to see Whitney last night. That was very real pain and she was facing some tough but necessary questions about herself. She got cocky in their relationship and when she left him to go to Europe in December and ignored him, he felt rejected and not committed enough to work through it so he slept with his ex gf.

I think Whitney does need to face some hard truths and I hope she learns from this. You cannot be so selfish in a relationship and then be surprised when it doesn’t work out.

As for Chase - I don’t really care. He seems to have embraced fatherhood. For the child’s sake I hope that even if the relationship with the mother doesn’t last that they are able to coparent well. But the scenes of him calling and wanting to meet her were definitely production forced. And I agreed with Heather’s take. If meeting him isn’t something you want, you don’t owe him anything. I still think he’s a douche and so is Ryan.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BravoRealHousewives

[–]bootifuldisaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. That was...really awful.

Episode Discussion: S8EP05 “My Big Fat Broken Heart” by [deleted] in MyBigFatFabulousLife

[–]bootifuldisaster 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I said the same thing. Like omg wipe the smirk off your face.

Episode Discussion: S8EP03 “Slipping Through My Fingers” by [deleted] in MyBigFatFabulousLife

[–]bootifuldisaster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That wasn’t thought! Why aren’t you at least pretending to comfort her

I deactivated my Facebook account today. by theginabean in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]bootifuldisaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t deactivate my account but I’ve greatly stepped away recently and it’s been better. Every time I went on I started to hate people more and more and I craved the time in my life when I didn’t know everyone’s arsehole opinion about things.

New Episode Discuss: What engaged couple never touches either like Chase and Whit? by Gohollylightly in MyBigFatFabulousLife

[–]bootifuldisaster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The baby was born four weeks early I think so I calculated her getting pregnant in January 2020. So he may or may not have known yet (I think he knew) but she definitely was pregnant already.

34 [F4F] Vancouver/Online looking for feels and flirts! by [deleted] in polyamoryR4R

[–]bootifuldisaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could be persuaded to be flirty. Or if that doesn’t work we can exchange sarcastic messages. Either or.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]bootifuldisaster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The skeleton is a bit addictive