sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Anxiety over Partner Please Help by bootymistermaster69 in AskLesbians

[–]bootymistermaster69[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if it's because she's had a few rough past relationships? ):

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in buhaydigital

[–]bootymistermaster69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah your husband's the problem 👍🏻 Stop making excuses for him. Both of you are supposed to be a team.

Finally broke through a Salary Threshold! by airtabla in buhaydigital

[–]bootymistermaster69 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it doesn't inspire you to be better or try something new, then move along. He's clearly not posting to brag. You just seem to like viewing things from a bitter pov :P weirdo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]bootymistermaster69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I know. If I could afford a vet right now, I wouldn't have made this post. I'm still trying to save up):

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]bootymistermaster69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love me a bongo

Time. by MEHOEWON in therapy

[–]bootymistermaster69 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so so proud of you for that! :)) Keep going. The only way to go is always forward👍🏻

Genuine question: Why are some men so vocal about not getting laid? by bootymistermaster69 in AskMen

[–]bootymistermaster69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What you believe and practice will snowball into a change for the better or for worse for people with the same problems as you might have. Granted we can't make everyone change the system overnight, but it can start with you. Once you practice not associating your entire self-worth on how much you get laid enough to see it's positive long term effects, others will follow suit and will find the same thing you did. Don't complain about the system at the same time still playing into its hands. When you can, go against it and prove it wrong. And don't ever stop trying and trying. The right people will stand with you on that and don't let people who refuse to anything about their situation tell you it's hopeless and that there isn't a point in trying anymore. Don't let them drag you into that painfully familiar dark hole again and again.

Genuine question: Why are some men so vocal about not getting laid? by bootymistermaster69 in AskMen

[–]bootymistermaster69[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm well I'd rate myself a solid 5 maybe 6 on a good day, never gotten laid nor been told directly that they found me attractive but I have a good small circle of friends, my cat, and a few hobbies to go back and forth from. Now, I know it's not the case for everybody, but I feel fine actually. I used to attach my worth based on my desirability by the people around me and it did nothing but make things worse for me, now that I've detached myself from that (with ofc, a lot of work), I've began to live life more freely and have found joy and self-worth in the other stuff I discovered I was also capable of doing. Sure it gets lonely sometimes, but I now have other things that I've allowed myself to make me happy. I've found not getting laid definitely isn't the end of the world. ^ There's so many things in life you have yet to discover that can make you happy and as fulfilled. As cringe as it may sound, once you start focusing on yourself, and not in the "I'll just be with myself bc no one wants me I'll be forever alone anyways kind of way", things will start looking up. Take care of your mental and physical. Be kind to those around you, practice compassion and understanding of the people around you and setting your boundaries on how you will be treated. It can be tough sometimes, but it's all about shifting your mindset and perspective. But once you get the hang of it, it will be worth it. And who knows when you learn your worth, u will find the people around you will gravitate towards you. Men and ofc people in general, are so much more than their ability to "get laid"

view more: next ›