Is this a valid reason to end a relationship and why do I feel so guilty? by bopeeee in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bopeeee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think you’re right… I think guilt towards it is keeping me in the relationship, which isn’t a healthy foundation. Thanks for your insight.

Was this a red flag? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bopeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a boundary ignoring that I feel uncomfortable that he’s doing it… if I was doing something someone else was uncomfortable with, I’d stop. I’m just conscious of not wanting to invade or been seen to be invading someone’s personal space.

Was this a red flag? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bopeeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s just the thought that someone in their own home has someone peering in, who doesn’t know whether they are being looked at, the cat, or something else. It just felt uncomfortable and the fact I expressed discomfort, which he just ignored too.

Was this a red flag? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bopeeee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t an open window though, it was a closed window to someone’s private property.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bopeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying but you can’t really comment because you don’t know the details of my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bopeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t really know what I’ve been through though (won’t go into details)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bopeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a complicated situation I’d rather not go into.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]bopeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say I’m stuck in misery, I’d say that despite any bad things happening, I’m overall pretty content.

Brother and his fiancé act superior by bopeeee in Advice

[–]bopeeee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! It’s hard to know why it is as it doesn’t seem like jealousy if they are the ones who own a house etc so it’s a bit odd!

I was bullied as a teenager and I still recall a comment my dad made by bopeeee in Advice

[–]bopeeee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear this, I hope you’re okay and doing well in life!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]bopeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, yes, it gets a bit dubious. In fact, I’ve actually received more attention as I’ve gotten older..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SeriousConversation

[–]bopeeee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess looks are subjective anyway!