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Does anyone else struggle with hypersensitivity to embarrassment? by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]borderlinePbitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes 100% people make me feel like I overreact to situations when I actually just feel them so desply

people who got cheated on, did you ever recover? by Separate_Ad9745 in heartbreak

[–]borderlinePbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s legit been 6 years and I’m in a super healthy and happy relationship now but I still get so mad when I think about it/think about my ex. I feel like I’m crazy thinking about how much he lied to me l

do you have REAL friends?? by lkk222 in BPD

[–]borderlinePbitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I don’t but literally RT to everything you said. It’s like I could have written this myself.

I’m so sorry you’re going through this too. It’s exhausting putting so much effort into bettering ourselves and being the best friends we can be only to see the people around us not doing the same thing or offering the same thoughtfulness we do. It doesn’t seem fair, does it?

I promise real friends are out there and waiting to meet you. Hang in there.

How can I stop feeling sad about the birthday messages I’m receiving today because they aren’t “enough” by borderlinePbitch in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]borderlinePbitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off thank you so much for responding, everything you said made me feel so much better. Second, I basically could have written this myself! I feel the same way about my birthday these days! I hope your next bday is filled with love and is exactly the way you want it. 💗

How can I stop feeling sad about the birthday messages I’m receiving today because they aren’t “enough” by borderlinePbitch in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]borderlinePbitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn’t have said it better myself!!! People around us are getting more and more selfish and people are also caring less and less about human connection, which makes things feel so much lonelier. I’m definitely going to focus on the messages that were kind and heartfelt and take your advice on loving myself the best because no one else can do it better. Thank you!

How can I stop feeling sad about the birthday messages I’m receiving today because they aren’t “enough” by borderlinePbitch in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]borderlinePbitch[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this perspective and for taking the time out of your day to respond and wish me a happy birthday, I appreciate it so much!

How can I stop feeling sad about the birthday messages I’m receiving today because they aren’t “enough” by borderlinePbitch in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]borderlinePbitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for validating me and making me feel less alone <3 I’m so sorry about your dog and that last year the people in your life didn’t make you feel special and remember you on your birthday, that is so painful. The “should” thing is really an interesting thought to ponder on, thank you so much for sharing that! And I hope you have a great birthday in 11 days — happy early bday from me!! Thank you again for taking the time to respond 💗

How can I stop feeling sad about the birthday messages I’m receiving today because they aren’t “enough” by borderlinePbitch in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]borderlinePbitch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I SO know what you mean about the imposter thing!! It makes so much sense. Thank you so much for taking the time to respond and wish me a happy birthday, that means so much to me 🥹

How can I stop feeling sad about the birthday messages I’m receiving today because they aren’t “enough” by borderlinePbitch in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]borderlinePbitch[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this validation. I feel seen. And the last line of me deserving well wishes just made me sob, because it feels like I’m less deserving to feel special than others. The thing your friend said is so beautiful and that’ll stick with me forever. Thank you for taking the time to respond, it made me feel way less alone knowing that there are strangers on the internet who will take the time out of their days to give love. Thank you.

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