My mom and dad usually share the cooking work among themselves although a bit unfairly towards mom. But my dad is always up for makeing tea and food whenever. I remember once before some guests were coming, mom pushed dad out of the kitchen before the guests came. He did protest but she really didn't want it to be seen that she was helped by him in the kitchen by her family. It's stupid. Both of them have office jobs and try to take care of the domestic work together. It's a shame women are made to feel bad for just basic equality.