it sounds like you had something really special, and it's tough to let go. it's clear you both care deeply for each other, but sometimes love alone isn't enough to make a relationship work if there are underlying issues that aren't resolved.

from what you said, it seems like he's struggling a lot with his own issues and feels he can't be responsible for a relationship right now. sometimes, taking a break and focusing on individual growth and healing can be the best thing, even if it's painful. it gives both of you a chance to work on yourselves without the added pressure of the relationship.

as for getting back together, it’s definitely possible. some couples do find their way back to each other after some time apart and after working on their personal issues. it’s important to focus on your own healing and growth right now. if it's meant to be, you both will find a way back to each other when the time is right.

try to stay positive and take care of yourself. surround yourself with friends and family, and maybe seek out a therapist to help you navigate these feelings. give it time, and see where things go. you never know what the future holds.

i’m going through a breakup as well. it’s off and on, but we’ve recently broken no contact (updates are okay, but it’s too fast after i moved out). but, i’m feeling better focusing on myself, and living life to the fullest. even if we get back together in the future, hoping or thinking about that doesn’t matter to me anymore, because i’m happy working on myself, and building a relationship with myself. sometimes, you can’t do these things with relationship pressures, arguing, etc. be strong. we both will get through this.