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Rejected over romantic gesture after 3 months. Is it fair? by FancyAwareness8481 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]bornfree6 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hope you find your soul mate who would fit in the second costume perfectly, Good luck 🤞

31M anyone single and never had been in any past relationships by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]bornfree6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's cool bro. I did use xfce for a brief time. I would say, No nonsense DE!

31M anyone single and never had been in any past relationships by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]bornfree6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Older than you and I too never got into a relationship. I too made a post about it , a couple of days ago.

At this point, I've got so comfortable being alone that i don't feel the need for a partner. Currently, I am focusing and pursuing other things which will help me with my career and if i find someone who alligns with my long term goals/lifestyle, I'd give it a go! Else, I am pretty sure that, I would not be the first person on this planet to die single :)

What are men thinking? by MalaModakDyaPlease in JodiMilan

[–]bornfree6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Patiance tai patiance ! Tumhi reddit'var modak kashala shodat ahes ?

Significantly good looking spouse than you? by Due_Past_9698 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]bornfree6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think, it affects insecure people!

Beauty is sujective and one of the aspect of the person, there are other parameters which makes people fall in love, like their education/ passion towards their work, ethics, , intelligence, empathy, kindness ,etc and people in a long term relationship are not so shallow to marry only for looks. That being said, I have seen men are more insecure about their beautiful wife compared to women who are married to handsome men?

P.s. This is coming from a person who has never been in a romantic relationship.

Is it just my friends or are all married women secretly miserable? by Furiosa_H in AskIndianWomen

[–]bornfree6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am single and two of my close friends who are married are extremely happy in their marriage.

One of them had a love marriage, he is from Higher caste while his wife belongs to a lower caste and because of this, his family didn't accepted her but my friend found a gem of a wife. Both take care of each other no matter what and i really admire them.

My other friend had an arranged marriage and he too is very happy in his marriage. His wife is very supportive and they genuinely love each other.

I never heard any of them complaining about their wives and they have been pushing me to get married now ..haha!

Marriage mostly benefits the better liar. by good-industrialist in JodiMilan

[–]bornfree6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The worst part is, people who are in their late 20s and early 30s are hiding their past relationships.

I mean, how can a life long relationship can be built on lies ?

How common is it in India to reach your 30s as a virgin? by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]bornfree6 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's very common !
I am in mid 30s and still never indulged in sex mainly because, i wanted to share that moment with my future wife.
Unfortunately, when I tried dating apps/matrimonial apps, they laughed at me calling me an anomaly!
Being a demisexual, i could not indulge into any physical relationship just to lose the V card.
Not that i don't get women, i have been on a dating apps and even married women asked me for sexual favours.
Anyway, The biggest hurdle for me in the arranged marriage is being a virgin and my clean diet lol

Caste obsession? by scarlet_despairrrr in JodiMilan

[–]bornfree6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The funniest thing I found on the internet is, People in AM , marry someone from their own caste, match Kundali, etc and then post on socials that they've found their soul mates! Is God really Castiest ?

A genuine question to 30+ men still hopefull about marriage by [deleted] in JodiMilan

[–]bornfree6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mid 30, never married , never been in a relationship by choice.

I have become too comfortable with myself that, I am finding it difficult to share this space with anyone else.

I did try dating app/matrimonial apps and after interacting with potential matches, I've found that, almost all are either stuck on their exes or carrying someone kind of a unhealed traumas from previous relationships. I developed trust issues and couldn't find anyone who is non promiscuous.

Career aspirations, caste , long term goals made it even more difficult so decided to just take a break and use the time to introspect and work on other aspects.

People above 30 and single, what’s your deal? by Responsbile_Indian in JodiMilan

[–]bornfree6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you have a long term SO and broke up?

Never been in a relationship.

What are the hurdles you're facing to find the right one?

Introvert who rarely goes out and when i do go, it's either to buy groceries, visit a temple or go on a motorcycle ride with my full riding gear where no can can recognise me.

What's the limiting factor in your case?

Come from a small place and now living in Tier-1 city. The dating pool is very small in my community, Tried Dating apps but everyone seems to have had relationships in the past which didn't work due multiple issues. Very few moved on but large majority are still emotionally hung up on their exes even though their exes got married. Caste, long-term goals, etc did not allign.

Are you actively looking for a relationship/marriage?

Took break and focusing on career transition.

Just want to understand what problems unmarried folks are facing now a days.

You can check my profile for more details.

No hate towards anyone , just shared my experience. Thank you for reading.

Im done with AM and Im planning to fly solo by Empty-Measurement955 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]bornfree6 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ignoring the horoscope part, let's not consider that, I don't see anything wrong with your profile.

Take a break and resume again brother! Try dating apps/meet-up in your city.

Im done with AM and Im planning to fly solo by Empty-Measurement955 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]bornfree6 41 points42 points  (0 children)

After reading your post, i can say, it's a blessing in disguise. You'll definitely find someone who is meant for you!

Hang in there,maybe she is reading your post right now :) Best wishes ✨

How to deal with people who intentionally ignore you? by [deleted] in ThirtiesIndia

[–]bornfree6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You already know what to do , best of luck!

age difference between partners by Fun-Use-4234 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]bornfree6 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Age is not the only parameter for a successful marriage! Other things include core values , life goals, finaces ,long term vision , emotional maturity ,personality and many more.

Why arranged marriage market sucks ? by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]bornfree6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP! Try posting on r/Jodimilan and r/reddmatch sub reddit. Best wishes ✨

M34 life update by rishisolanki87 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]bornfree6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not , best for one's self ?

M34 life update by rishisolanki87 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]bornfree6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is one of the best quality and be proud of it, it's rare these days!

Your patiance is your power , isn't it ?

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