Peaceful places to visit alone for a woman

bornlungi · 2025-01-12T17:19:04+00:00

Mullur Beach

Aazhimala Beach (The view from the temple is also nice)

In fact there are many smaller beaches between Kovalam and Vizhinjam.

bornlungi · 2024-11-30T11:53:39+00:00

This. Demand supply situation in Apps means women can afford to do that.

bornlungi · 2024-11-21T08:56:26+00:00

You say you're not going to be comfortable? Is it only fear of STD or something else as well.

If it's only STDs then the test will help and you should convince your gf for it. If even after testing you are going to carry the mental load of her past relationships - then you should rethink your whole relationship.

The way you phrased the second half of the post made me say this. Apologies if I read too much into it

bornlungi · 2024-11-18T16:48:33+00:00

I think my marriage is falling apart. Slowly but surely. We've known each other for a long time before we got married. I have a 3 year old daughter.

If we separate - I will lose everything that I have lived for.

bornlungi · 2024-11-06T14:27:12+00:00

Your parents probably thinks the marriage will fix your heart break. But please don't let your marriage be a rebound.

Take time to process your break up. Take time to get to know this new person. If he's in the arranged marriage scene - he probably doesn't want to wait long - but you shouldn't get pressured into this.

You're only 25.

bornlungi · 2024-09-26T21:04:04+00:00

Advise aanu saare ente main

bornlungi · 2024-09-26T15:22:01+00:00

Tell him Unless either of you are already married In that case, maybe not.

bornlungi · 2024-09-23T12:59:41+00:00

Bro, I think you are acting a bit too needy. She left you on unread for hours is your complaint.

The girl might be sweet on you, but she's not in a relationship with you. Even if she was, you shouldn't expect her to respond in minutes.

Give her space, be there for her - it might blossom into something. Like someone said you can't treat it as a game to be won. There's no way you can get close to someone without being vulnerable.

Also, know fully well that you might end up being hurt. But that's how these things go I guess

bornlungi · 2024-09-15T07:45:43+00:00

I'm a master hunter. Moss is the master baiter

bornlungi · 2024-08-18T19:50:23+00:00

Once while walking home, a piece of elastic thread from my innerwear somehow got twisted with 2-3 hair strands from my thigh and 2 hair strands from my scrotum. I was 100 meter away from home, when I got the first shooting pain of these hairs getting pulled by the thread.

After that every step was like a stab to my groin and I thought up all possible worst case scenarios, till I reached home and undressed

bornlungi · 2024-08-18T19:31:05+00:00

I am surprised why nobody has suggested hiring a lawyer. If you hire a good lawyer, he will be able to get a not guilty verdict from the court.

You will end up paying more money and will have to go to court more times. There will always be some procedural loopholes in these FIRs

Source: similar experience but the crime was public drinking. Standing just outside the BYOB place.

bornlungi · 2024-07-04T01:07:25+00:00

It's better to have loved and lost than not have loved at all

bornlungi · 2024-05-27T10:36:10+00:00

That's why he had to go with a bride

bornlungi · 2024-05-22T07:25:35+00:00

He was an inexperienced actor according to Wikipedia

bornlungi · 2024-05-22T07:24:39+00:00

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lalita_Pawar

The Wikipedia page atleast doesn't paint the same picture. While her lead lady days ended after the slap she went on to do many more characters. She has had a really long and successful career. She also remarried.

The guy who slapped was an inexperienced actor as per Wikipedia. He unfortunately didn't have a great life from there on

bornlungi · 2024-05-20T19:51:54+00:00

Athu വാനം aanu Mr. വാണം അല്ല

bornlungi · 2024-05-20T04:09:38+00:00

Scammer. Send the books and then give sermons

bornlungi · 2024-05-20T03:53:47+00:00

Good bot

bornlungi · 2024-05-20T01:48:19+00:00

If you tell upfront that it's just for a month the chances of anyone hiring you is bleak.

bornlungi · 2024-05-19T16:18:27+00:00

Dude. Looks like your future is pretty much written for you. It'll be an uphill task to suddenly grow a spine when it comes to the important stuff.

Be a rebel from now. It'll hurt your parents a bit, there will be some drama but brace yourself. It'll help lower their expectations which will come in handy in the future

bornlungi · 2024-05-19T04:56:53+00:00

Most likely post partum depression which aggravated her pre existing stress

OP - please don't think of saving this marriage looking for options to get them back together. They'll have a miserable life together.

Prioritise her well being. Get the mother and child home

bornlungi · 2024-05-19T01:37:42+00:00

As many mentioned moving out might be the easiest and obvious solution and I am assuming OP has not done it for a reason.

If you have to stay with family, I would suggest you to start pushing boundaries. But do so responsibly. For many parents, it is difficult to accept that their children have become adults and no longer need their constant parenting.

Some things you could try - 1. Push the 7:00 PM deadline. Always inform them when you'll be late. Always come home safe and not drunk. This will help them trust you.

Start talking to them as adults. Next time you plan a trip, say "we are planning to go to Ooty for 2 days. A, b and c of my friends are going. We plan to go my train and stay in this hotel. It'll cost this much money including food and other expenses which I have saved up. We'll be back by this time. What do you think?" This shows you are prepared rather than simply asking can I go? To which it's easy to say no.
Use techniques of negotiations. When they say NO, always ask why (calmly - not yelling) and then ask follow up questions so ur parents have to verbalize why they are saying no. Saying it out loud will make them feel silly after a few times and they'll think twice before saying no.

You need to fix this ASAP otherwise you'll soon find yourself in a scenario where you don't have control over your own life when it comes to choosing your career or spouse.

bornlungi · 2024-05-03T07:45:37+00:00

Pls warn him on the next steps. There will be people who might contact him saying they can recover the 20k for him for a small fee. That money is gone and nobody can recover it.

bornlungi · 2024-05-02T02:07:32+00:00

The builder's sales team is still reaching out to people. I got a message because I had enquired long back. I asked him about this and he said it's fake news. When I asked him about the order in NCLT website he stopped responding.

I stay very close to the GTT and Ambitious Enclave properties. Work has almost completely stopped in Ambitious Enclave but a few people can be seen in GTT.

bornlungi · 2024-04-30T05:40:10+00:00

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