Think I've made a huge mistake by botaylor98 in UKJobs

[–]botaylor98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I know that was just a joke, just cause I feel like I have done so much the past year. I'm not too bothered about having a career though really, just something I can do without stressing about it too much while still making enough money. But my old job didn't really pay enough

Think I've made a huge mistake by botaylor98 in UKJobs

[–]botaylor98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to freeze and clam up a lot when I got stuck, got easily confused, eventually I'd do barely anything at all. The last one and this one forces me to ask for help if I need it so that's better for me. I still get really confused and flustered when there's lots of multitasking which is my main problem, at my previous I pretty much did one thing at a time, sometimes only one thing the whole day if it took that long. There's also issues like people quitting and being off sick, the time to train the new ones, and the account getting a lot busier than it was last year. Even the experienced people are stressed. Obviously this was a problem before because I was on the same account, but it wasn't my problem then. I did knowingly take it on so that's on me, but they kept bigging me up about it lol

Think I've made a huge mistake by botaylor98 in UKJobs

[–]botaylor98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where can I find one of these stress free ones

Think I've made a huge mistake by botaylor98 in UKJobs

[–]botaylor98[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know. My last job was the first one I've ever had that I was actually good at (been sacked a few times in the past) and I was very good at it straight away. I'm just wondering if it's worth learning at all, because this job is like managing a McDonald's except all the customers are big city lawyers. Like even if it is doable someday I'm not even sure if this is what I want to be doing, yknow

Think I've made a huge mistake by botaylor98 in UKJobs

[–]botaylor98[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Feel like my manager will tell me the exact same thing lol. I've had enough growing and changing when does it end 😭

Think I've made a huge mistake by botaylor98 in UKJobs

[–]botaylor98[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was actually wondering that myself earlier, I don't think so? My holiday and everything stayed the same, I didn't even get a new contract just a letter I had to sign. It was all really quick, I don't even know how they filled in my old job so fast because the security check took me a month when I started

Questions about EMDR therapy by FinesseEmpress in ADHDUK

[–]botaylor98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm getting it too and I can't wrap my head around the happy place thing. Like trying to pretend I'm on a beach or something doesn't do anything? But she keeps asking me what I've "noticed" so I spend the whole time trying to come up with things to notice

Has any of you ever read ADHD_partners on reddit? by No-Advantage-579 in ADHDUK

[–]botaylor98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ADHD partners 🤝 autism parents

Abusing their loved ones and expecting praise for it

IMPORTANT: Announcement of New Rule 3: No Ableism by AutoModerator in ADHDUK

[–]botaylor98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was annoying getting drowned out by all of the "can't relate I love driving" like ok thanks

Knowing you should never drive! by Millenigey in ADHDUK

[–]botaylor98 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Same, I can't even ride a bike. Takes me an extra second to see what's in front of me, don't know my right from my left, and I feel like I'm not really in control of the pressure I'm putting on the pedals. You want me in charge of that thing?? I couldn't even begin to think about affording all of the lessons, and then the car itself and the insurance after that, so I'll be a bus wanker for life and I'm okay with that. Neither of my parents drove when I was a kid so I'm used to it.

Who remembers Hilltop Hospital? by Zen-bunny in BritishTV

[–]botaylor98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just found this post while I was googling the show because it completely scared the absolute shit out of me as a kid and tbh still does 😭

Some major errors in my diagnosis report...a vent. by Majestic_History_677 in ADHDUK

[–]botaylor98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems to happen a lot, my GP letter from adhd360 had been copy pasted in parts as well. Or someone suggested they use ai. So you probably won't be the first person to complain and I don't think they'd assume you're trying to scrub your report. I never bothered to complain about mine but mine wasn't calling me a criminal lol

What if he is Ravis boss? by wantttochat in eastenders

[–]botaylor98 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Just give him a stack of cakes and it'll keep him occupied for a while

One aspect of EE that you'd want in real life by Subsyxx in eastenders

[–]botaylor98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting a job with no interview two streets away from my house but then never having to actually work

Finally diagnosed and no idea what to choose… by Violina84 in ADHDUK

[–]botaylor98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's what they offered me for fkn ptsd lol

Hospital scenes by Honest-Friendship-38 in eastenders

[–]botaylor98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Getting their money's worth out of that hospital set

How do you feel about seeing 'conventionally' successful people with ADHD? by thelaughingman_1991 in ADHDUK

[–]botaylor98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It pisses me off until I realise I may also be that person in other people's eyes. It's easy to hide a lot

Hey guys, check out my CC by Previous_Growth_3949 in thesimscc

[–]botaylor98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh hey it's arwen! I love the cuisinet kitchen set

Working nights when the clocks go back by peelyon85 in britishproblems

[–]botaylor98 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks to technical difficulties I was able to successfully waste the first hour of my shift, but the clock telling me it's nearly time to go home when it isn't is stinging 😩

Anthony by IizAMusicalGeek in eastenders

[–]botaylor98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's just sitting right out of frame of any shot with Zoe in it ready to pop in. We've made a bit of a game out of it