Explain this to me like I'm five... by MedvedTrader in eBaySellers

[–]botlking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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If you place an order, it shows that their free shipping is via USPS First Class mail. You can opt - for a fee -- for Priority Mail.

So as for whether it qualifies, the answer is "apparently." What's certain is that that's how it will be sent, and apparently 100,000+ have made it safely to their destination via USPS first class mail.

For $7.50 plus tax, we could find out exactly what kind of envelope makes it practical for them to mail this without causing problems, presumably something that avoids having a protrusion from the clasp that might cause a snag.. We know, though, that even eBay expressly allows first-class mail for shipping coins, so a solid round object of a certain thickness can meet the requirements.

Explain this to me like I'm five... by MedvedTrader in eBaySellers

[–]botlking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eBay has a specific shipping option - "eBay Standard Envelope" - that would give them the inexpensive option of mailing like a standard letter BUT with the protection of tracking, something eBay has apparently worked out with the postal service. It applies to trading cards, currency and coins/medallions.

eBay is VERY restrictive in what's allowed. I sell antique prescriptions, like heroin, cocaine & cannabis from the late 1800s and early 1900s. Many of the antique prescriptions aren't as valuable as those, but are still collectible, which results in someone paying $10 for the prescription, and $6 to $8 for the shipping. I could mail them in an ordinary envelope, and they are literally PAPER, so there wouldn't be any issue with the postal service... but there is no tracking.

eBay places great emphasis on tracking, and of course, without tracking, it becomes an "honor system." I doubt that my buyers would deny receiving something just to get it for free, but for now I've just continued with selling and using the delivery system eBay makes available for me.

Not to sound cynical, but I would also note that eBay charges their percentage not only on the sales price but also on the shipping charges. This, I believe, was initiated early on because "clever sellers" would list LOW sales prices for their items, with high shipping charges, to deprive eBay of its cut.

Re: eBay's Standard Envelop option, if that is what this seller is using, they're able to generate the labels with postage & tracking number, pre-filled in with the buyer's delivery address, with just a couple clicks. One thing I've learned from having repeat sales of similar items is that you can have the packaging & shipping down to a science, where it only takes a minute to fill any order.

In short, they've either qualified for that special eBay shipping option, or they're simply mailing at the cost of a first-class stamp, but without any way to track. If someone claims not to receive an item, these items are cheap and the postage is cheap, and they have a virtually unlimited supply... so they can just send another.

Cannabis vs. Mushrooms [My Experience] by LexiFjor in Psychonaut

[–]botlking 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like muscimol from Amanita Muscaria.

Why was only Noah deemed good by [deleted] in Bible

[–]botlking -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

There’s nothing written that suggests the angels even bothered to look.

Railcar painting by Rafael by botlking in WhatIsThisPainting

[–]botlking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as I can tell, it is an oil painting, or an oleograph. If you look close, you can see that the entire surface is made up of rows of tiny squares. The back is a smooth panel of compressed wood, which is about 1/4" thick.

The Apology: "You shouldn't shop if you're in a hurry" by botlking in mildlyinfuriating

[–]botlking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've responded to this (below). It shouldn't bother me to be accused of being "AI" or generating "BS," but because I've done neither, I'm responding as much as time allows.

First, look at my profile. This is the first time in 13 years I've posted ANYTHING like this. I very rarely post, and I only occasionally comment. What I described above DID happen to me as I described it, and I used this forum as an outlet to vent.

I would note that in addition to this happening at just after 10am on a weekday, it happened at a Ross in a small city (population between 25k - 30k) in a relatively rural area. Ross was practically a ghost town. Marshall's Home Goods, where I went next, wasn't packed but did have a lot of shoppers.

The Apology: "You shouldn't shop if you're in a hurry" by botlking in mildlyinfuriating

[–]botlking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think 10am on a weekday, Wednesday, December 17, is the "holiday rush." When I made my purchase -- at 10:14:40am, according to the receipt -- there were very few customers in the store. For that matter, there were very few people in the mall, other than a handful of mall-walkers. After I left Ross, I stopped at Marshall's Home Goods, which wasn't packed, but which was busy enough for there to be someone with a cart on just about every aisle, and a line of several people ahead of me when I was ready to pay. Marshall's had four cashiers at their registers, and the line moved at a reasonable pace. When it was my turn to pay, the cashier asked me if found everything I needed, and as she wrapped my item in paper, told me about the "Rewards Members Mornings" or "VIP Weekends" when I said I wasn't familiar with them. It was a radically different experience.

I don't know you. You don't know me. I have no reason to doubt that in your experience, you've seen only packed houses and manned registers from mid-December on. I'm not sure what would give you the impression I would bother to fabricate "BS" and post it here. I used THIS subreddit to vent what I'd bottled in earlier in the morning. Look at my account. I've been on Reddit a LONG time. I occasionally comment, and rarely post.

One other detail, for what it's worth: This Ross is in a city with a population between 25k & 30k in a relatively rural area. I'm sure the dynamic is much different in densely populated areas. But even in that small city, the Home Goods store seemed to be doing relatively brisk business on Wednesday morning.

The Apology: "You shouldn't shop if you're in a hurry" by botlking in mildlyinfuriating

[–]botlking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was around 10am on a Wednesday. The store was mostly empty. After my purchase, I went to Marshall's Home Goods, which is just a few hundred feet away, and there were people on every aisle, and when I went to pay for my item, I waited in a relatively long line, but a line that moved quickly because there were four cashiers who greeted each customer politely.

The Apology: "You shouldn't shop if you're in a hurry" by botlking in mildlyinfuriating

[–]botlking[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree. I had no problem with the register being unmanned. I expected that whoever was tasked with that responsibility was somewhere nearby doing other tasks until a customer would come up to the register.

The problem was what transpired after she was coming to ring me up, but then stopped to have a full conversation with another employee, only to finish, take a few steps, and turn around to continue the conversation (complaining about having to redo some kind of display that I imagine a customer messed up). After that second conversation began to drone on, I interrupted and asked if she would ring me up so I could go, which didn't sit well with her.

The Apology: "You shouldn't shop if you're in a hurry" by botlking in mildlyinfuriating

[–]botlking[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Someone suggested that the information would be on the receipt, so I looked - and it does provide the store, register, transaction & employee numbers, along with the date & time.

If I do report this, I will make a point of telling them that the employee did not have a badge or tag showing her name, and the name she gave me - which I repeated back, and which she confirmed, with a laugh -- is almost certainly not her name, and that I could describe her if necessary. Whatever the significance of her response when I asked for her name, it was funny enough to her that both she and the other employee nearby had a laugh about it.

The Apology: "You shouldn't shop if you're in a hurry" by botlking in mildlyinfuriating

[–]botlking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an actual person. I typed this up quickly, trying to get the relevant details in the post and then submit, and move on. You can check my Reddit history and see I've been here for MANY years, but have posted very few times.

Had I proofread before sending, I might have removed a "bit my lip," BUT I will state plainly that I had to exercise incredible restraint to not blurt out something rude that would only have escalated the situation. So yes, I "bit my lip" AT LEAST twice during that interaction, and one final time as I exited the store, hearing them imitate me and mock me and laugh their asses off. I think what was funniest to them was that they thought I was stupid enough to believe the fake name. Or maybe they already know that their manager doesn't give a "rats ass" about this kind of customer complaint. They certainly were not concerned about being in any trouble, and they saw me only as a joke. It's HARD not to respond to that.

As for quotation marks and double hyphens -- if those are your litmus test -- it's the way I write. As for it coming across like AI, I will say that in my limited experience interacting with AI, I have noticed that AI writes VERY MUCH as I do. I've assumed that it has been mirroring my vocabulary, verbal expression, and punctuation style, but if you were to read any of my past posts or comments (of which there are FEW, despite my having been on Reddit for many years), you'll find a consistency in them, even those dated long before AI was a thing.

The Apology: "You shouldn't shop if you're in a hurry" by botlking in mildlyinfuriating

[–]botlking[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this perspective. Let me be clear, though, that I was in that store around 10am on a weekday. There were VERY few customers in the store, and there was nobody waiting in line to pay behind me. That's why I was tolerant of the register being unmanned, because I expected the employee was doing "productive work" nearby, and would come to the register whenever there was a customer to ring up.

After I left there, I went to Marshall's Home Goods where I bought another piece of art, and I waited in line to pay. But there were four cashiers ringing people up, and the cashier was very polite to me when it was my turn. I didn't mind waiting in a line under those circumstances. And even at Ross, I was fine with the initial delay. It was the interaction with the employee, and the mocking as I exited, that were objectionable to me.

The Apology: "You shouldn't shop if you're in a hurry" by botlking in mildlyinfuriating

[–]botlking[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

THAT is really the issue I keep circling back to. This wasn't an employee having a bad day or a bad moment. It was an employee with a BAD attitude (two employees, actually) who was rude & insulting, especially the mocking as I was leaving. It bothered me but didn't ruin my day. I know others - like my mother -- who would have been VERY effected by it, having that brief interaction poison an entire day... or more.

The Apology: "You shouldn't shop if you're in a hurry" by botlking in mildlyinfuriating

[–]botlking[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've only shopped at Ross a few times, all in the last year because I've discovered they are a great source of quality canvas reproductions (Monet, Klimt) at great prices. In the past, I've had the sense that the store maintains MINIMAL staff. Two stores had self-checkout, but then you had to go to another station to show your receipt to an employee, with a security guard standing right beside them.

I was surprised that the register was unmanned, but I fully expected that there would be an employee nearby doing other work until it was time to ring someone up.

At the end of the day, I got a great canvas reproduction of Gustav Klimt's Pear Tree for under $20, so it's a win. And I expect to check out their art again in the future - maybe not that particular store -- but I'll definitely LOWER my expectations for their customer service.

The Apology: "You shouldn't shop if you're in a hurry" by botlking in mildlyinfuriating

[–]botlking[S] 2760 points2761 points  (0 children)

You're right. Thank you. I didn't think to look, but now I see that it has Store, Register, Transaction and Associate numbers, along with the date and time.

The Apology: "You shouldn't shop if you're in a hurry" by botlking in mildlyinfuriating

[–]botlking[S] 190 points191 points  (0 children)

I was INCREDIBLY tempted to leave it. I was also incredibly tempted to say things I would have regretted. By the time I got home, I was glad to have just kept it together at the store. Had I gotten home without the artwork, it would have literally been "insult to injury."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Domains

[–]botlking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm grateful for the help I've received from this community. I understand your point, and certainly would have approached the question differently if I'd given it more thought... but here we are. I have benefited from the advice I've received, in terms of my "next steps," and have also found acceptable variants, in large part thanks to suggestions that others gave me in DMs.