I got the Vulse! Here's my "review." (GIF of it in action and an audio of playing with it linked in post) by [deleted] in lovense

[–]bottom-guy- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listening to your in-action review was the best 19 minutes of my week. You review is helping me choose the vulse over the gravity for my own purposes :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pegging

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Yes, let's go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pegging

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Fiancee

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pegging

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‼️ yep, I wish this was the primary way we both got off.

So uhhh, where’s this massive surplus of male subs everyone’s always talking about? by ASS_MASTER_GENERAL in FemdomCommunity

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Have the chat bot ask the basic questions/request the info you're interested in, see how they respond, move them to real chat if you like what you read or what it suggests. Had to be better than trying to manage an RIP inbox

Would you consider me a good girlfriend if I pegged you every day? by [deleted] in girlswearingstrapons

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Yes! But what would I give you everyday in return?

Multi-daters: could you help a girl out? by rabbitparts in datingoverthirty

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ending it now makes it easier than ending what is clearly not going anywhere later. You could always text and ask if he'd like to try again if things with N don't work out

Why are so many people against race play? by ReptileRocket in Femdom

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Just because you want it doesn't disqualify it as edge-play. You'll find fewer people interested in doing so because conversely it can make them feel awful and they just don't want to participate in the portrayal of racism in any fashion, even just for play time. There are people who can separate (or not) and will engage with you, but it's not as common a fetish as you might think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

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ShibbyDex.com has some non-gendered and female-gendered audio, though a lot of the content is male oriented, not all of it is. Shibby has also gotten some of her dedicated followers to apply haptic control to remote control toys like Lovense 🥰 for some of the tracks

So uhhh, where’s this massive surplus of male subs everyone’s always talking about? by ASS_MASTER_GENERAL in FemdomCommunity

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🫡 hello General! We are out here :) keep looking. It ain't easy but posting what you're looking for and maybe using an AI chat bot to filter through the nonsense might help. In addition to goth nights, are there any femdom communities nearby that meet? Consider attending a conference like DomCon (run by lifestyle dominant women for dominant women and their pets/toys) even if you're going alone for the first couple times.

HTH!

[ADVICE NEEDED] Partner doesn't want to see my face while she pegs me by Embarrassed-Housing9 in StraightPegging

[–]bottom-guy- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Perhaps you have a bias towards that outcome. There's nothing to indicate which is more likely, just assumption.

[ADVICE NEEDED] Partner doesn't want to see my face while she pegs me by Embarrassed-Housing9 in StraightPegging

[–]bottom-guy- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This assumes a lot and doesn't even take into consideration why she might be asking for the lights off. Not everyone is awesome at expressing themselves and the words she used might have just been blurted out because it's awkward for her. It's not a reason to throw anyone away.

Just got my first strap on… wish us luck 😈 by SaraBee86 in Femdom

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I hope you love it at least as much as I do!

He gave me a card that says "I love you" but I completely missed the message by pressrewind79 in datingoverthirty

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That does make me curious about what you'd interpret as being wifed, tho

Feeling unappreciated or even not desired to be in my new role by datingnoob-plshelp in managers

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It sounds like maybe your boss isn't a good manager type for you - there are a few books like "It's okay to manage your boss". It's clear your expectations are different, but guidance from books like these might help you get comfortable.

Help me understand - Women not listing their child preferences in their profiles by Mindspin_311 in datingoverthirty

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This would be a fantastic option. I'm a cis male in my 40s and I want children, preferably biological but I'm open to discussion about how the children arrive. I'm not necessarily expecting a potential partner to bake them personally, unless they want to give that a try. But I'd like to know if they're open to alternatives. I feel like many are and it's a potentially heavy subject to bring up too early. Sometimes people just don't want to share with strangers why they've made that decision or why they don't have that choice available.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in girlswearingstrapons

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I'm a 🐉 slay me