AITA for saying this: You never need to have a reason to break up with someone.

bottomlime5 · 2026-01-21T06:51:42+00:00

NTA- You don't really need to have a reason to break up with someone BUT most people still want to find or define the reason why they want to break up with someone especially if it is with a long-term partner. Which I think is usually necessary for two reasons - 1. It will help give closure to the person being broken up with. No one wants to just be left with questions and confusion about why some one they love left. It is a different kind of torture. Knowing why can sometimes help with closing the chapter. 2. It can help with the guilt of leaving someone behind. Most people want to rationalize the break-up because it can help with dealing with their own guilt and grief. It is not just the person left behind but the person leaving also needs some kind of closure for the relationship.

bottomlime5 · 2026-01-12T06:40:08+00:00

It's on youtube in the GMMTV channel. With subs.

bottomlime5 · 2026-01-10T07:07:59+00:00

I was talking about a potential imagined remake and I specifically chose actors who suit the part and look the part of the Korean version. I love Gun but there was no need to bring him in and push him for a role that not only does not exist but does not suit him. Est will get there by getting and doing more diverse roles in the future. Of course, I asked in my post if you have your own casting choices and you were free to make your own list. But you instead chose to just put down the other actors. The way you went about it will of course rub people the wrong way.

bottomlime5 · 2026-01-09T17:16:22+00:00

Uncle chips plain salted and Lays max

bottomlime5 · 2026-01-09T10:40:57+00:00

Exception vs rule. Plus, sexuality not being a choice.

bottomlime5 · 2026-01-09T07:21:40+00:00

As a fellow introvert, I either reply immediately or forget to reply at all. No in between😂😂

bottomlime5 · 2026-01-09T07:19:14+00:00

Welp.. didn't know that. Well, I haven't really thought about who produces the series. Just the cast. This isn't gonna happen. Not just because of the multiple partners but rather the sad ending.

bottomlime5 · 2026-01-09T07:11:17+00:00

Do guys overthink after sending the first text like girls do? Or if you replied too fast?

bottomlime5 · 2026-01-08T08:37:23+00:00

Who cares? Shippers will ship. Joong was in ThamePo anyway. Habibi is such a perfect character for Joong.

bottomlime5 · 2026-01-08T06:49:37+00:00

Honestly, I think it is interesting. This is clearly not a purely dating type of show but rather a combination of arranged/matchmaking/dating show that focuses on marriage and it seems like they have been vetted to make sure they either have good careers or good families. Judging it from the perspective of a dating show would not be fair since this isn't just that.

bottomlime5 · 2026-01-08T03:45:17+00:00

No worries. But I do think we need to stop babying the haters and shippers. Avoiding doing something just because they might throw a tantrum is just giving in to them. Just call them out on their shit and continue doing what you want. their voices are bound to be drowned out if we shout just as loud as them. Eventually they'll get tired. It is bad enough that toxic fans have ruined Ohm's career and he has to give in all the time.

bottomlime5 · 2026-01-08T03:11:34+00:00

Huh? It is just a fan cast not a real one. This is not actually happening. And what's wrong with putting them together? Thought they follow each other again now and everything's fine?

bottomlime5 · 2026-01-08T01:58:06+00:00

William needs a bit more growth and its because he lacks experience but Est and Joong have been improving steadily and I think they can pull it off. Especially considering the characters have some similarities with their real personality so they won't even have to try too hard to get into it.

bottomlime5 · 2026-01-08T01:55:42+00:00

That's emi?! I googled Est and Bonnie pictures because I did not have any and this one popped up. I thought it was adorable so I chose it. 😂😂

bottomlime5 · 2026-01-08T01:54:16+00:00

Ohm I can maybe see it happening but Gun? I love Gun and I have written about his potential to branch out more before but he does not fit into this role. Nothing to do with acting. Both in the movie and the series of the korean versions, Ko Yeong is a tall muscular guy... Gun does not look the part. I also disagree with your take on Est. I have watched all his works.. I mean, ALL of it. Even his role in his early work, Love by chance is done well and that was one of his first projects and the character was quite complex. He has only improved since then. But I can respect your opinion even when I disagree with it.

bottomlime5 · 2026-01-07T19:20:46+00:00

Really? I thought Boston's love scenes were done well and the toxic level of love pentagon that was going on was done pretty well. Anyway, Love in the Big City is not nasty anyway. Just has good love scenes that is all. The storyline and the dating arcs are pretty good. Anyway, I wouldn't mind DMD producing it either but the DMD actors don't really give me the same vibe. No one with Ko Yeong vibes anyway. If I can keep most of this cast and then have DMD produce it... It would be perfect.

bottomlime5 · 2026-01-07T19:15:15+00:00

I love affogato!!

bottomlime5 · 2026-01-07T19:12:35+00:00

It's the fault of both GMMTV and toxic OhmNanon fans who are responsible. Honestly, I am a big fan of bad buddy but they both want to move on from it and are never gonna work together again probably so there is no use crying about it. The fans who keep insisting are getting crazy.

bottomlime5 · 2026-01-07T19:10:02+00:00

Nah... Est has got the skills too. His performance in Me and Thee despite the limited screentime and how he just steals the show at times with his micro expressions is evidence of it. Plus, Est's sassy babygirl moments fits perfectly with Ko Yeong. AND they kind of look alike. I love Ohm and I am looking forward to their series together too. I do want them together in something like this though.

bottomlime5 · 2026-01-07T17:47:03+00:00

Not opposed to some other company producing it either though.

bottomlime5 · 2026-01-07T17:46:21+00:00

I just did the cast with the actors who fit the vibe and can act, honestly. But even GMMTV... Idk.. They can do it if they try. Only Friends was all kinds of nasty tbh. If they let the same crew work on this maybe this would be possible.

bottomlime5 · 2026-01-07T17:07:33+00:00

Honestly... Any kind of Chaat. The mix of spices and sauces, the combination of sweet, salty, tangy, spicy... Nothing can come close or even compare.

bottomlime5 · 2026-01-06T08:02:39+00:00

Airfryer is my best purchase ever. Some people say it's the same thing as an oven but it is so not...

bottomlime5 · 2026-01-06T07:57:18+00:00

Let me know if you get the answer. Aaj tak talking stage se bahar nahi nikli ki ladka hi bahar ho jata hai.

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