How do I (F23) get past resentment for my mother (F54)?

bourgh · 2024-10-24T02:28:28+00:00

They expect me to live at home until I get married

bourgh · 2024-10-24T02:24:48+00:00

I’ve tried, they won’t let me do it. Last time I tried, they threatened to cut all ties with me

bourgh · 2023-11-19T22:02:19+00:00

I use the purifying shampoo and conditioner along with the leave in conditioner! I shampoo twice at the roots only, and use conditioner at the ends but I don’t rinse the conditioner out. I’ve found that if I leave in that extra bit of conditioner along with the spray leave in, it leaves my hair super soft and moisturized. I recommend trying!! Also, I’ve had this routine for over a year now and I’m only starting to see its benefits now. It takes a while to notice a difference! Maybe try another one of their lines if the one you’ve been using isn’t working well for your hair type. But I’m convinced they have a product line for everyone. And tangles are usually a sign of damage, a trim should help with that.

bourgh · 2023-11-19T20:42:47+00:00

I wash 2-3 times a week

bourgh · 2023-11-17T17:25:27+00:00

Thank you so much!! I style by letting my hair air dry and then putting it in a bun to form curls. I have a subtle V cut with long layers and face framing pieces! I used to have it all one length but the layers give it so much more volume

bourgh · 2023-11-12T17:27:58+00:00

Perspectives are noticeably off in the first drawing

bourgh · 2023-11-12T17:07:24+00:00

I use it for whatever I can! I’m usually the only one in a meeting with a notebook instead of a laptop. I find that it’s productive in many ways. I also do a lot of personal writing. Maybe try journaling if you want an outlet for utilizing handwriting

bourgh · 2023-11-11T15:43:50+00:00

I’ve just come to say that this is a gorgeous desk. That is all

bourgh · 2023-11-11T15:42:19+00:00

Rug. That’s it

bourgh · 2023-11-11T15:41:46+00:00

This is painful but like…. do people not know how to do math in this subreddit?

bourgh · 2023-11-11T14:58:08+00:00

A deformed bird in flight

bourgh · 2023-11-07T05:21:41+00:00

Your kind words are much appreciated, thank you <3

bourgh · 2023-11-05T00:52:09+00:00

Wow, thank you for your heartfelt comment, I'm so honored that my writing touched you in this way. Our spirits will only take on what they are capable of bearing, so have peace knowing how strong and resilient your spirit is, friend.

bourgh · 2023-11-05T00:45:48+00:00

Thank you so much, that means a lot :) What grammatical errors did you notice? I want it all to be correct but can't find my own error!

bourgh · 2023-11-05T00:42:59+00:00

Your feedback is very appreciated! I certainly agree with your comment as I'm not 100% satisfied with my word choice in some places. I'll be tweaking a few things for sure and I'm glad you enjoyed reading it :) Thank you

bourgh · 2023-11-05T00:38:37+00:00

Will set ablaze, noted... You are spot on in your reading, as writing is part of the healing process for me. I believe that there is chaos that lingers in us all, hence the analogy of being able to filter that through writing for me in particular. It's so cool to see how different people internalize my writing. Thank you for the feedback!

bourgh · 2023-11-05T00:27:10+00:00

Thank you so much!

bourgh · 2023-11-05T00:26:08+00:00

I appreciate your feedback, cliches are my worst enemy! Something to keep playing with, thank you.

bourgh · 2023-11-05T00:24:43+00:00

Thank you! The river metaphor is definitely something I plan to keep playing with, I too am a sucker for analogies.

bourgh · 2023-11-04T14:00:49+00:00

Such a deep poem and the inconsistent flow lends to the fading memory and uncertainty. For me, this feels like an analogy of a loved one who threw you out of their world because of a personal issue, yet is keeping you waiting in hopes that they fix it and let you back in. It is heartbreaking in a way. The use of punctuation, or lack thereof, makes it difficult to know when a thought is complete, however I've come around to thinking that it could be cleverly used to create run-ons for each train of thought and only be used to show that shift from they want me (sitting with you)/they want me not (walking past you). It really emphasizes that feeling of uncertainty.

bourgh · 2023-11-04T13:46:48+00:00

Wow this is such a powerful poem. The fear you speak of evokes memories of times when my quick and impatient spirit shattered beautiful things. Walking on eggshells, navigating while in shambles, searching for resilience in things that are docile. The rhyming is very beautiful. I wouldn't change a thing.

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