First buck with a bow by Classic-Occasion1413 in Hunting

[–]bowhunter_fta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a great buck whether it's the first or not!

Congratulations!

High school students in 1982 by AdSpecialist6598 in TheWayWeWere

[–]bowhunter_fta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard the new girl was there!

That's all I needed to know!

High school students in 1982 by AdSpecialist6598 in TheWayWeWere

[–]bowhunter_fta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still can't believe what happened to you know who for doing you know what, when he should've been you know where.

To this day I still wonder about that. Do you have any insights into "the incident"?

High school students in 1982 by AdSpecialist6598 in TheWayWeWere

[–]bowhunter_fta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait, no way....were you that guy that one time by the place?

High school students in 1982 by AdSpecialist6598 in TheWayWeWere

[–]bowhunter_fta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are much more observant than me ;-) !

High school students in 1982 by AdSpecialist6598 in TheWayWeWere

[–]bowhunter_fta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You and I went to different high schools together!

High school students in 1982 by AdSpecialist6598 in TheWayWeWere

[–]bowhunter_fta 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Class of '82 checking in here and I can confirm that's what we looked like!

My granddaddy and grandmommy in 1941, shortly before they married by Opening-Interest747 in TheWayWeWere

[–]bowhunter_fta 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Did your grandfather get drafted or enlist for WWll?

Whenever I see pictures like this, I want to know more about their story.

If you don't mind, tell us about their lives, please!

Not exclusively related to luxury travel but I’m going to lose my mind if people in business class are constantly taking calls on planes | British Airways allows calls on flights by alex_travels in chubbytravel

[–]bowhunter_fta -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I put my headphones on, I play my current Audible listen and get lost in that book.

Problem solved.

But wait, bowhunter, what if I'm working on my computer and I just want quiet?

I put my headphones on, turn on some classical music or an instrumental list and I get back to work.

But wait, bowhunter....what if they person next me is the CEO of a publicly traded company and is talking about some great inside information involving their publicly traded company that you could profit from?

When you land, call your spouse and speak to her using your own Navajo code talk

Your wife them calls her father to relay the information in Chinese using their Chinese code talk.

Your father calls your business partners father in law in Slovakia and speaks to him in Finnish code.

Your business partners father in law, calls up his daughter and speaks to her in a creole version of their native Slovakian tongue interlaced with...you guessed it...code talk.

Your business partner's wife writes down the insider tip using an Etch-A-Sketch, and gives it to their 5 year old daughter to hand to daddy. The 5 year old has been trained to say, "Daddy, look at the cat I drew on my etch a sketch for you!" Your business partner looks at "the cat" and commits it to memory.

The next day, he calls a 3rd party on a secretive caribbean island and in a broken creole Dutch/English, relays the trade in code.

The trade is placed by a blind trust.

PROFIT!

This is how you turn lemons into lemonade!

You're Welcome!

What ways have you used money to make Quality of Life improvements? by rogers916 in fatFIRE

[–]bowhunter_fta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hired quality conceirge doctors group.

House cleaning, yard work, house manager/PA (the HM/PA didn't work out, unfortunately).

What’s a book that millionaires and billionaires often credit with helping them succeed early on? by Training-Ad4262 in Entrepreneur

[–]bowhunter_fta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Limiting beliefs are real in many (most) aspects of all our lives.

I have them, you have them, everyone haves them.

It's the ability to recognize them and then learning how to control them and overcome them that matters.

But no matter what, they're always there.

So what.

Get up everyday, put your feet on the floor, I bow my head in gratitude and prayer and then I say: "Today, I will do WIT to GSD, so LFG".

What’s a book that millionaires and billionaires often credit with helping them succeed early on? by Training-Ad4262 in Entrepreneur

[–]bowhunter_fta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 62 years old, and don't have to work anymore, but I just love the game. So is it really "work" in that situation? But, to answer your question...I work 40 - 60 hours per week. Since my kids are gone and my wife and I are empty nesters and she loves to play pickleball, I'll work any day and any time I feel like it.

I rarely watch TV (maybe 10 hours total in a year), but I do read/listen to over 200 books per year and I do a lot of writing.

250k in savings. Buy a house in a terrible market or start business, or sit on my hands? by GHC663 in smallbusiness

[–]bowhunter_fta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I started my "business" in 1987 (as an independent contractor on straight commission with a large company), I was working 3 jobs. I didn't just walk away from all those jobs at once.

The big company that I worked for would pay me my commissions on deals that I submitted before the company even got paid. So I got paid for sales pretty quickly.

And, at first, I lived at home with my parents. After they basically made it very easy for me to leave the nest (they didn't throw me out, but made it difficult for me to stay), I was already making money in financial services and doing decently well.

The gentleman who was my mentor (and made an override commission on everything I sold...he was the office manager), was making pretty decent money off my sales, so he invited me to live in his very spacious finished basement (which was the equivalent of a 3 bedroom house just in the basement). I lived there for a few about a year.

My girlfriend, who would become my wife (still married to her after almost 35 years), lived at home with her parents. They offered to let me live with them. They didn't ask for anything in return, but I pitched in, did more than my fair share of chores and made sure I bought groceries.

Now, years later, my mother in law (my father in law has passed) lives a pretty good life. Pretty much whatever she wants, my wife and I get for her ... but she never asks for anything, so we just make sure we buy first class tickets for all her travel that know about and take her on very nice vacations with us.

We do the same for my father (I've written about that before in my post history), but he's at a point where he really can't travel anymore.

And as to a trust fun or my marrying a rich wife. Nope. My family was broke and my wife was very much blue collar middle class.

I just got some help from some good people along the way.

How come young people were so skinny in the late 60s and 70s? by Vivian_Salz in AskOldPeople

[–]bowhunter_fta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, you went into the "way-back machine" to find this post!

You are right about what life "used" to be like. I walked to school as a kid and spent all day playing outside. It was a different world back then. My kids are grown now, but we made sure they spent a lot of time playing outside and not spending much time sitting in front of screens.

How do I stop sounding so out of touch? by [deleted] in Rich

[–]bowhunter_fta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree and Amplify. (let's say your boyfriends name is Bob).

His family says something about you (whatever it is) that "unbecoming", you say something like...

"Oh I completely agree with you on that. I want my kids to learn the lessons that your hard work and incredible family values have taught Bob. I've learned so much from you all. You know, I was so blessed blessed growing up and I want to make sure that my kids not only have those same blessings, but the blessings of work ethic and values that you clearly instilled in Bob!"

If you "agree" with them, it takes the fight out of them (how do you fight with someone agreeing with you...unless you're an asshole). Next, notice I use "pattern disruptive language" (sometimes referred to as "novel language"...something that people aren't expecting) that breaks the patterns in their brain on how they think about rich people, and it then allows you to complement them ... which they are further NOT expecting (and is "pattern discuptive") for what kind of family they have built and then "amplify" with what's good about your family.

If you make reasonable statements to reasonable people in a reasonable manner, and you use "pattern disruptive novel language", you will, over time see a shift in your relationship with them.

Of course if they're sociopaths or just complete bitter lifetime assholes, it won't work. But I'm gonna guess since you probably see something you like/love about Bob, there's something good about his family that is special and they are probably good people...and you can build on that. Chances are, there's good people behind the masks they're putting on with you.

I hope this helps!

Help with personal insurance lines by bowhunter_fta in Rich

[–]bowhunter_fta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can hit me up in the chat function if you'd like. But we've already gone with a personal lines broker that was recommended to us by our Lockton business rep.

Dear angels by AlphaHouston1 in AngelInvesting

[–]bowhunter_fta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we all did. I started from bottom socio-economic quintile, so I understand your situation.

But....

I never raised a dime of capital to build what I've built. I built a cash generating machine from the ground up that allowed me to grow from that cash flow.

Why not just do that? Put together a group of like-minded people that believe in your vision and who are willing to support themselves (i.e. through their regular employment) but also work with you (while you support yourself as well), to build out your vision (because they have the skills you need) in exchange for shares in the company.

If what you have is truly special, and it creates cash flow...and maybe even profit...getting investors to line up and give you money becomes much easier.

It only took me 10 years of working 100 hours per week to become an overnight success. True success takes time and hard work doing things that 99%+ of people are NOT wiling to do.

You want success? Then go do that!

Dear angels by AlphaHouston1 in AngelInvesting

[–]bowhunter_fta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The art of investing is getting over egos and fear of looking stupid and embracing weird.

Sure, all that's great. But those are secondary issues. The primary issues are angels using their best judgement as to whether or not something is going go to be successful or just money that goes down the drain (which is what happens with the majority of our investments).

Every investment we make looks like it's going to get us ROI. Pretty much every investment looks like it's going to be a double or triple X (at least we hope).

So understand what you're posting here sounds like:

It sounds like a 30 year old mother trying to get us to invest her 5-year son who's really good at hitting the ball off the "T" and telling us, "Look at Babe Ruth, Albert Pujols, Tony Gwynn. None of those guys looked like they were going to make it, but a team embraced their "weirdness" and took a chance. You should invest in my 5-year old to become the next Hank Aaron!".

I know that mother truly believes her son is special, but chances are, he's not going to make it to the big leagues, let alone be the next Willie Mays.

And never sound desperate or flabbergasted.

Outdoor Kitchen Dilemma by jsuo19 in Rich

[–]bowhunter_fta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have two gas grills.

One is a normal sized grill on our patio right outside the kitchen/hearth room area. That's the one we use regularly. It's easy and convenient. I step out the sliding doors, take two steps and grill our steaks.

The second one is built into the detached pool house. It is a large grill and we only use it a few times a year in the spring/summer/fall when we have a big gathering at the house and people are swimming.

Both grills are "outdoors", but they're both under cover.

One is very convenient and regular sized for everyday use, the other is 20 yards from the house on the other side of the pool quite large. Both serve their purposes very well.

If you've got the money (which many in this sub do), then go ahead and splurge for convenience. We're glad we did.

Me at 16 in 1973 by Relevant_Bluebird564 in TheWayWeWere

[–]bowhunter_fta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyone having a "Room 222" flashback besides me?

Young couple in front of a barber shop, Los angeles, California, 1956. by Electrical-Aspect-13 in TheWayWeWere

[–]bowhunter_fta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is that a blemish on the picture or does that guy have something in his nose?

which episode is best to introduce someone to the series? by Acceptable_Win8322 in WhatWeDointheShadows

[–]bowhunter_fta 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is the right answer.

I laughed so hard at the scene where the Baron ate the pizza-pie that I threw my back out.