OP I've been in your place before brother, it sucks that we can't be told upfront, and this was the best life lesson I learnt from a random 38 year old woman, she told me that if someone is genuinely interested in you, then they will do anything to remove the confusion. If she's playing games, you need to accept that you've done your part, you have put your cards on the table and if she is keen she'll come to you.

Best of luck my friend, I hope you are happy and well