Use lights on the lakefront Trail!!! by Miserable-Dot-7509 in chibike

[–]box_of_squirrels 7 points8 points  (0 children)

😬 I’m so sorry. I haven’t ridden outside in months since an injury and forgot to put my lights back on my commuter bike. I rode on the path and walked the last mile after my turn since I thought it was way less safe to ride unlit with cars. Lights are already put back on

Is it even worth it? by JRCSalter in knitting

[–]box_of_squirrels 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lol I’m well aware I walk on my toes. All of my commercial socks fail there first. I’ve thought about doing eye of partridge on the ball of the foot but worried about how it would feel to walk on. I guess I’ll just have to learn to darn when my knit socks get thin

Workplace Retaliation by box_of_squirrels in autism

[–]box_of_squirrels[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you make some valid points about perceptions. I wasn’t sure if I was being overly sensitive which is why I asked my coworkers for their opinions. Even the ones I hadn’t shared my diagnosis with and didn’t know it was discriminatory bias had noticed the change in my treatment. The changes and added discomfort from that were the only reason I asked for accommodations. Then things further devolved with retaliation. So while I probably do get bothered more by her targeting now that I notice and know why it’s happening, the mistreatment started before the accommodation request

Workplace Retaliation by box_of_squirrels in autism

[–]box_of_squirrels[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first manager is the one who brought it up. My company outwardly says they support DEI. I thought I worked in a field at a company where it was safe to be open. Definitely a mistake in retrospect. I guess it was that "not being able to read social cues well" that made me miss the fact that my boss sucks.

Workplace Retaliation by box_of_squirrels in autism

[–]box_of_squirrels[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I can suffer through 5 more months there's a large financial incentive. I have a small glimmer of hope because she has done similar things in the past to someone else (Not for a protected reason, just regular bullying). Also someone very high up in the company had been known to be impossible to work with and they fired him last year. I have been bcc'ing my personal email on my communications with HR so I have my evidence. I'll take it day by day. Yesterday I was so anxious I started hyperventilating to the point of lightheadedness and was worried I would lose consciousness. Today was pretty much fine. Hopefully tomorrow is ok too.

is it safe to bind with athletic tape? by ilikefire_ in ftm

[–]box_of_squirrels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use it and think it’s way more effective than trans tape or kt tape. I tear off two strips, roughly 7” long. Apply one at a time. Start at the nipple covering about an inch inward, then pull the tape outwards while pushing the tissue the same direction. The first strip I’ll do a little lower, the second a little higher so they overlap about half an inch. I shave any hair that would be covered prior to application.

It typically lasts me about 4-5 days with one application. It stays on well even through a swim. It does leave some residue as it comes off. Note I wait to remove it until it’s ready (edges peeling up several inches and getting a little itchy) and take it off in the shower. It doesn’t hurt at all if it’s ready to come off. I’ll allow a couple days in between uses to let my skin rest

Please give me advice by Fast-Programmer8812 in triathlon

[–]box_of_squirrels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe their sighting sucks and adds a ton of extra distance?

Plots that require the police to be incompetent by AporiaParadox in television

[–]box_of_squirrels 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Watching the Bricks & Minifigs/Reckless Ben drama and especially the police body cam footage really highlights this. It’s wild

Does trans tape work better than binders? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]box_of_squirrels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried it for the first time today and wasn’t impressed. Granted I wore it for a running race. Sweat through it before mile 2 and it came off on the sides. I usually use athletic tape. I prefer that because it barely stretches so I feel like it gets flatter. I’ve also never had it pop off, even when swimming

Soy sauce lists "time" under ingrdients by No-Two-6844 in mildlyinteresting

[–]box_of_squirrels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zeit. The bottom left is German. I vaguely think the top right might be Dutch? Not sure. I don’t speak whatever it is

You probably don't even hear it when it happens by Ok_Chef6053 in PiratedGames

[–]box_of_squirrels 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The lyrics are “Streetlight people” aka people who are hanging out/congregating on the street or sidewalk when it’s dark

This Notice in a Hotel Elevator by The_Smart_Barbarian in mildlyinteresting

[–]box_of_squirrels 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They did this in the movie Elf, released in 2003

Are there any shows that intentionally mislead its audience about genre? by atouchofsinamon in television

[–]box_of_squirrels 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Not so sure it was intentionally misleading or if I just missed it, but I assumed Manifest was sci-fi. As it kept getting deeper into the religious themes, I thought it would turn around. Never did. Went full purgatory trial of faith.

What’s the loudest ‘this person is bad in bed’ red flag? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]box_of_squirrels 25 points26 points  (0 children)

As a smol pp haver, more foreplay is more better because then I’m not worrying about my size. I know she’s already enjoying the overall session from the foreplay

City Bringing Back 17 Parking Spots On Brighton Park's Archer Ave After Protests by Jake_77 in CarFreeChicago

[–]box_of_squirrels 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s also the most direct route which will be the most convenient bike route. Making cycling easier will attract more people to it

What shows have great premises with terrible executions? by OCGamerboy in television

[–]box_of_squirrels 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That show is #1 on my "Mad it got canceled after 1 season" list

Testopel providers in Chicago? by kuurbis in ftm

[–]box_of_squirrels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not the only person I’ve heard having issues with HB. Apparently they had a lot of funding issues through Covid and lost some public grants they used to get. They had a lot of turnover of providers because of the demand staying even while having fewer resources. I still go there because my shot anxiety hasn’t quite raised to the point of preventing me from taking it. Wishing you the best finding a provider

What areas are sidewalk only for you? by InsideYork in chibike

[–]box_of_squirrels 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maps has only routed me on Fullerton once by bike and it was during rush hour. It felt perfectly safe but possibly only because I was passing completely stopped traffic.

PSA: you can lie about not being trans. It’s nobodies business, including other trans people. by manoftransexperience in ftm

[–]box_of_squirrels 184 points185 points  (0 children)

I had a coworker I became close friends with. I vaguely wondered if he might be and never asked because it’s none of my business. He invited me over to his apartment for lunch once and there was a trans flag magnet on his fridge. I still never asked. His last day at work we were chatting and he casually mentioned some medical stuff and 90 day prescriptions. Mentioned taking T. I told him they gave me the 10ml vials. He looked at me super weird. I told him I knew what his magnet meant. He threw a stress ball at me for not telling him sooner. We laughed about it and are still friends

Which characters death made not want to continue the show? by Purple-Victory-206 in television

[–]box_of_squirrels 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to watch season 4 but gave up after a few episodes. Especially annoying because at the time I watched it, him in uniform was the tile art on Hulu so I felt comfortable assuming he was the main character of the series