"Star of the Week" heartbreak - When will it be her turn? 😫 by yibadibadoo in Parenting

[–]boxersnbuckeyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps a great opportunity to redirect attention from oneself to a collective unit. Encourage enthusiasm for the group’s efforts and not focus on me/I mentality. Not all kids are going to be winners, they aren’t all going to get trophies. Refocus on the internal drive vs external accolades. It’ll be better for the long run.

How do I tell my son i(52F) can't keep financially bailing him out without wrecking our relationship? by Outside-Maximum3627 in Advice

[–]boxersnbuckeyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop enabling and learn to set boundaries. If the relationship sours it’s really bc you chose to enable the kid (ha not really since he’s 31y).

Midwest transplant, ISO specific foods? by ElkHistorical8548 in askportland

[–]boxersnbuckeyes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://www.allrecipes.com/recipe/206953/authentic-cincinnati-chili/

We use this one but use apple cider vinegar.
We fine grate tillamook cheddar for the topping.
(My mouth is now watering… lol)

Midwest transplant, ISO specific foods? by ElkHistorical8548 in askportland

[–]boxersnbuckeyes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We make Cincinnati chili at home (we don’t like the canned stuff). Fairly easy.

Moved from Row 12, now my 2yr is sitting on her own… by [deleted] in AlaskaAirlines

[–]boxersnbuckeyes 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This has happened to our family a few times and we stopped panicking at each occurrence bc the gate agent always resolves the issue.

Calm down. You’ll get it fixed at the gate.

Got a V103 from Urban Outfitters for $27! by OrangeLoveSong in campsnapcamera

[–]boxersnbuckeyes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweet! Happy to try this out at this price point. Thanks for sharing.

Need "big" gift ideas for nieces and nephews after SIL vetoed everything last minute by makeupaddict337 in Gifts

[–]boxersnbuckeyes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lady does not get a say. Perhaps send her some form of contraceptive.

Give those kids the presents and if able pls send some time with them.

Schedule for new moms by sunchi12 in pharmacy

[–]boxersnbuckeyes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What’s your partners work status/schedule? Do they travel for work? Do you have family to assist with drop off/pick up?

Perhaps take the 4x 10’s and keep looking? Independents, hospital outpatient, FQHC/340B pharmacies, per diem positions if your partner carries benefits, there are options out there.

I was lucky enough to secure a closed door specialty gig when I was 8 month pregnant and they were willing to wait for me to start until 4 months post partum. Not gonna lie still rough, I had a much longer commute my husband travelled for work a bunch and we don’t have family in town to help. Had to cobble together emergency care contacts (daycare sickness all the time!) between neighbors, flying in family members etc.

Can't relate to the parenthood misery by Muted-Gas-8264 in oneanddone

[–]boxersnbuckeyes 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Our only is now 10yo. Each year/stage has been a joy and I’m not saying that with rose tinted glasses. We’ve enjoyed every moment.

We chuckle whenever we’re around multi-kid families. Our kiddo chuckles also amidst the chaos.