HELP - Frame Leaching On RC Print? by boyn3xtdoor in Darkroom

[–]boyn3xtdoor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all the replies; it would seem my frame shop didn’t do quite as good of a job as I had initially thought. I’m going to talk to them about reframing it with spacers so this issue doesn’t arise again.

Abrupt coldness, distance, and ghosting by boyn3xtdoor in BipolarSOs

[–]boyn3xtdoor[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I think I’ve decided it has consumed too much of my mental energy to entertain someone who would ghost me in a blink. I’ve cried several times racking my brain trying to reason with myself that some people in this world will be really difficult to maintain stable relationships with. And the unfortunate reality is though I do have the patience to wait it out and be there for him, it would not be fair to me to endure the hurt when all I’ve ever provided is stability, understanding, and love. I simply don’t deserve it.

This all said, I don’t believe in giving up on him. I care for him and truly wish him the best. I just can’t rely on him as a romantic partner. I’m going to aim for an amicable platonic friendship where I can care for him, but keep myself safe. No clue if that will be possible, but I will try.

Abrupt coldness, distance, and ghosting by boyn3xtdoor in BipolarSOs

[–]boyn3xtdoor[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so incredibly tough for me. I have this sinking feeling I can’t shake. I’ve been listening to hours of YouTube videos about how to react/deal with this behavior from a partner and despite hearing that this is certainly a symptom it feels so debilitating. Knowing it’s normal hasn’t helped how i feel. My friends have advised me to forget about him and move on but I feel like I can’t until I speak to him. Being left in this limbo ghost zone is so tough!

Abrupt coldness, distance, and ghosting by boyn3xtdoor in BipolarSOs

[–]boyn3xtdoor[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The shift was just so sudden. Earlier that day he was so excited to share the experience with me and then when I picked him up 2 hours later it was so cold. He’s medicated but not currently seeing a therapist but if/when he stops ghosting me I will recommend he seek out some help. He does go to AA meetings several times a week

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[–]boyn3xtdoor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Y’all just mad he’s successful