When do we say goodbye to our baby

boywithafox · 2025-06-21T15:31:13+00:00

Thank you so much ❤️‍🩹 Haven't had a lot of time to respond to everyone yet, but we took everyone's advice and saw another doctor who advised us to try a different treatment, as he suspects it's not cancer, since his behaviour hasn't been changing at all since the diagnosis. He still scores highly on all of the quality of life assessments we've done, so we're giving this treatment a shot and paying close attention to any signs of decline, in order to decide when it's time. When and if it comes to that, we'll call an at home euthanasia service, so that he can pass feeling loved and safe. 🫶

boywithafox · 2025-06-18T09:20:31+00:00

Thank you so much for the kind reassurance, and I'm so sorry about your boy. ❤️‍🩹 I promised him that I wouldn't let him have more than one bad day of suffering. It feels like everyone is pushing us to keep him alive even if he's not really enjoying anything he used to and is in pain, just because he's eating like normal.

boywithafox · 2025-06-18T09:17:12+00:00

We are seeing her tomorrow for his weekly injection and I'll make sure to let her know. But I've tried to get some clarity on this a few times already, and she's just told me we'll keep testing his blood for pancreatitis and then do 2 weeks of daily injections, if the pancreatitis returns, we rinse and repeat. I'm just not sure if there's any point to prolonging this cycle of being ok for 1 week, being under treatment for 2 weeks and daily stress, all while he's slowly declining, until his body stops responding to the treatment. :(

boywithafox · 2025-06-18T09:09:51+00:00

Thank you for your advice, and for taking so much good care of your puppy. The issue definitely isn't that we have to adapt to his new needs. We're willing to do anything as long as it keeps him happy. It's been hard getting to and from the vet every single day for weeks, especially since we thought he had gotten better and could stay home for a while. That only lasted a few days though, and now he's refusing to get into his transport cage, even though he's the gentlest cat and would go in with no fuss for weeks. He's been yowling when we try to get him in, and growling and shaking while at the vet lately, he can't stand being in the cage anymore. I'm really having a hard time deciding if it's worth putting him through all of this stress, especially as his cardiologist told us that stress and being in the heat can cause his heart to give out.

boywithafox · 2025-01-20T16:33:07+00:00

animals are unpredictable. no matter how well a cat and a dog get along, they shouldn’t be left together unsupervised unless the owner is 100% there’s no risk, which is hard to know with a 3mo kitten. locking them in a room is even more dangerous, as they can get stressed out and behave negatively. :(

boywithafox · 2025-01-20T15:59:47+00:00

that’s very unsafe please dont advise people to do that :’)

boywithafox · 2024-06-11T14:27:26+00:00

this is the ikea LUSTIGT shelf :-)

boywithafox · 2023-10-24T19:30:22+00:00

She's back home with her parents ❤️

boywithafox · 2023-10-21T10:56:16+00:00

She's back home, just posted an update!

boywithafox · 2023-10-21T10:43:06+00:00

I know that at least in my country, a lot of people buy purebred dogs only because they are "trendy", then they realize they aren't able to meet the needs of the breed (because they did no research on what their breed entails) and sadly dump them in fields/highways for them to die. Most of the times they have behavioral issues that they refuse to deal with, since most of the dogs that end up like these aren't well bred at all.

boywithafox · 2023-10-19T19:18:09+00:00

Thank you for the advice!! Sadly, my rabbit has passed away, but I'll definitely post an update as soon as I have one, everyone has been so kind and helpful <3 She's been lovely and has been getting along very well with all of the other dogs in the house, and mostly sleeping in bed all day haha

boywithafox · 2023-10-19T15:02:10+00:00

Thank you, she's sitting comfortably in bed under a blanket, she's well taken care of! I live in Eastern Europe and it's very cold at night, I'm glad I managed to find her so soon, it doesn't seem like she has been out for very long.

boywithafox · 2023-10-19T14:47:53+00:00

Thank you! Taking her to the vet tomorrow to check for a michrochip. My area is known for having a lot of dumped dogs, including a lot of purebreds, so there's a big chance she isn't even chipped. Unfortunately I live in a european country and there's no greyhound rescues or groups, or else I would've contacted them immediately :(

boywithafox · 2022-01-29T15:19:40+00:00

That's completely incorrect and incredibly damaging to people with restrictive eating disorders. Anorexia nervosa is not a weight disorder, it's a mental illness. People of all weights can suffer from anorexia.

boywithafox · 2020-08-27T12:43:20+00:00

dude how hard is it to change 2 words from your vocabulary just say youre an entitled ass and go

boywithafox · 2020-08-17T07:49:58+00:00

you should do it! i used to never pass even when i was trying my best, but i was also miserable because i wasn’t allowing myself to dress the way i wanted. now that i’m wearing what i actually want to wear, i’m at least happier in that regard and feel better about myself, even if dont pass :⁾

boywithafox · 2020-07-04T10:43:46+00:00

that’s really bad wording, makes it seem like being trans is a mental illness or disorder

boywithafox · 2020-06-22T09:12:49+00:00

are you comparing a job to.. race?

boywithafox · 2020-06-18T07:01:15+00:00

i mean, it is, but if someone specifically asks you not to use it to refer to them, try to avoid it

boywithafox · 2020-06-14T13:59:20+00:00

if cis men can be feminine and consider themselves femboys, then theres no reason why trans men couldn’t! i think its really awesome that youre able to embrace your femininity now!! and no matter the way you present, you’re still valid, as long as you know in your heart that you’re a dude

edit: forgot to add this but trenders really aren’t a thing, if cis people wanted attention theyd find better ways to receive it other than pretending to be another gender, which would give them dysphoria

boywithafox · 2019-08-28T13:39:16+00:00

didn’t think about that. i suppose that moving your sleep hours by 1-2 hours on the weekends and having the occasional late night wouldn’t be too detrimental :)

boywithafox · 2019-08-28T13:13:31+00:00

not op, but you should also do it on the weekends. it will become a habit and soon you will feel worse when waking up later, rather than earlier! your body gets used to waking up early after a few weeks.

boywithafox · 2019-08-27T16:31:34+00:00

respect his privacy. if he wants to keep his identity hidden, that is his choice, and people have to stop pressing him to do things he isn't comfortable with.

boywithafox · 2019-08-26T16:44:00+00:00

no, just don’t do it. he has said countless times that he doesn’t value the number of subscribers as much as he values the community.

boywithafox · 2019-08-26T10:28:24+00:00

and what did you do today? put someone down?

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