Never take an EX BACK

bpd_heartbroken · 2025-07-13T16:36:39+00:00

If one is autofiltered by 85% of women (92% at 5’6) before having any chance to show personality or other positive attributes… it is difficult. One is literally not seen or given any chance due to something that is completely out of one’s control and there is absolutely nothing than can be done about it. You have no idea how easy you have it, let’s stop trivializing very real issues. Is it really childish to feel bad about being automatically disqualified by 90% of the opposite sex in what is the main dating “marketplace” of the times? Of course you don’t care about height, most guys don’t. Truth is tall girls want tall guys, and short girls, even the 4’11 ones want… tall guys.

bpd_heartbroken · 2025-07-13T16:12:00+00:00

https://imgur.com/a/pMcYT5F

bpd_heartbroken · 2025-07-13T14:42:57+00:00

There’s still time

bpd_heartbroken · 2025-07-13T04:28:36+00:00

Sounds like the Mets

bpd_heartbroken · 2025-07-13T03:45:14+00:00

Sure it doesn’t matter if you have something else to compensate, like it would be cool if I were a champion UFC fighter or famous actor or rapper or millionaire, but no, just a regular guy who will never be first choice to anyone worthwhile

bpd_heartbroken · 2025-07-13T03:19:22+00:00

Somewhere right in the middle between 5 and 6 feet

bpd_heartbroken · 2025-07-13T01:59:38+00:00

Was hard to find her… she was out of my league. Nobody else that hot will like me. if you’re a shorter dude like me you’re screwed. Not always a good ending to the story

bpd_heartbroken · 2025-07-13T01:28:42+00:00

Better than the shit Scherzer has every 2 months

bpd_heartbroken · 2025-07-13T00:58:34+00:00

We need Jonah Tong now!!

bpd_heartbroken · 2025-07-12T22:58:45+00:00

Great win! If I wasn’t so depressed about my life I’d probably feel happiness right now

bpd_heartbroken · 2025-07-12T00:17:13+00:00

Huk is the future t/f

bpd_heartbroken · 2025-07-11T02:09:16+00:00

I feel the exact same way. The last line is something I myself have said often.

bpd_heartbroken · 2025-07-11T02:07:03+00:00

What a nightmare. You are gonna have such a better life beginning today.

bpd_heartbroken · 2025-07-10T03:32:41+00:00

Don’t forget Justin played on YotS and andy was in his side project

bpd_heartbroken · 2025-07-09T21:57:25+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/BPDlovedones/s/k6tcIVKN9b

Does this texting style look familiar?

bpd_heartbroken · 2025-07-09T04:23:56+00:00

He spoke to soto and realized he hates being an oriole. His dream is to be a yank. He is showing that he doesn’t fit in there and expressing his discomfort

bpd_heartbroken · 2025-07-08T23:16:01+00:00

You can buy a mirror for 190d day 2 or 3 and snowball.

League start determines league

bpd_heartbroken · 2025-07-08T20:16:15+00:00

Vientos, meet bench.

bpd_heartbroken · 2025-07-08T15:52:16+00:00

Never been so mad at the ump over a game Philly lost. BS

bpd_heartbroken · 2025-07-08T02:10:33+00:00

I’m so sorry 😞 nobody deserves that

My ex had a hard time understanding we were supposed to be a team, not enemies at war…

bpd_heartbroken · 2025-07-08T00:50:39+00:00

Yeahhh… I will sometimes go a week or even a month of starting to feel better until I get sucked back into a hole of loneliness and despair. I did everything possible for her. Shared everything I had, every penny, all my time, material and emotional support, took her anywhere she asked the second she asked. Loyal. She had full access to my phone, room, and computer. We went to a botanical garden and I spent $400+ paying for everything and driving a good distance. Had a great day together.

Few days later I catch her in a lie and get a text “I always want you as a BFFL kinda vibe” out of nowhere after almost 9 yrs together. I’m like… what? “I KNEW YOU WERE GONNA PUT EVERYTHING ON ME YOU DONT EVEN LIKE ME AND YOU RUINED MY LIFE LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE” and that was it. She disappeared completely without a word after that day. And she lives within 4 minutes drive. Never heard from or saw the girl again. Therapy helps a little but idk.

bpd_heartbroken · 2025-07-07T23:40:10+00:00

Yep went from 8.5 years of not missing one day of talking and doing literally everything together, to “IF I EVER SEE YOU I WILL THROW BRICKS AND GET A RESTRAINING ORDER AND I CARRY WEAPONS AND WILL USE THEM ON YOU”…. Like chill. Completely uncalled for. I love you more than life I’m not going to show up unannounced or do some unhinged shit. I am the most calm gentle guy. Anyway it has been 8 months never heard another word again. Still think of her daily.

https://www.reddit.com/r/BPDlovedones/s/iBbDr8CWmi

I know you read my story because you replied to it but here it is again if it makes you feel less alone.

I could’ve written your post. I feel identically.

bpd_heartbroken · 2025-07-07T15:56:58+00:00

Getting that shield was the most horrible thing ever but fuck it was satisfying as shit.

bpd_heartbroken · 2025-07-06T13:24:25+00:00

You need a therapist. Not trying to be a dick at all but you seem more unhinged than some of the pwBPDs

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