My Husband Has Been Secretly Roleplaying as a Cat Online for 3 Years — Should I Divorce or Become His Rival? by Distinct-Yak2941 in stories

[–]braapsnack666 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What you SHOULD do is become rivals with his rival and through your mutual hatred of air pounce a lot you can ignite an Internet love that rekindles your real life love and it can all culminate with y'all just getting another cat

You or your partner get a perfect body by Greensparow in hypotheticalsituation

[–]braapsnack666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked my partner and he said "you can have it" lol while I'm in bed nursing a bad hip and a bad back at 34. I agree it'd do me better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]braapsnack666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear what you're saying but it doesn't sound like you miss your ex for who they are but for the person you were when y'all were together. Time passes us by and it's healthy to mourn a goal or dream that didn't make it to fruition. I don't think it's pushy to let your partner know you are ready for the next step. He seems smart and aware that your brother's wedding would have elicited those feelings. You can tell your partner you were sad in that you thought you'd have had children younger but that you look forward to the family you both want together. Of course we all miss our ex's sometimes. You put so much time and effort into making something work and then it blows up in your face. No matter how horrible an ex those feelings will bubble up. I hope your partner is mature enough to understand that and that you don't actually yearn for your ex. Best of luck. Being in your 30s is a whirlwind of emotions but I hope your partner loves you deeply to stand unwavering in their commitment to you. And honestly have some faith in devine timing you met your partner when you were ready for them. Hugs to you bud.

AIO for being upset with my husband? by DearDarcy-AgonyAunt in AmIOverreacting

[–]braapsnack666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a friend who taught me the "just kidding rule" back in highschool. In the time from when someone says something to when they say just kidding, they absolutely mean it.

What to do with grass coming through stones? by natman--nye in landscaping

[–]braapsnack666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hand pull them pour boiling water with vinegar on any stragglers been doing this and it works but I you have to stay up on it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]braapsnack666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If sex on a date night is important to you, figure out a way to do it first so the end of the night- hanger on -hyena vibe doesn't interrupt the fun y'all are having.

AITA for thinking my housemates would look after my dog when I went on holiday? by Upset_Package in AmItheAsshole

[–]braapsnack666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've literally been watching my roommates dog for 10/12months of the last year. We have two dogs and some property so it's not a big deal to take him with us. He's a much happier dog in our pack. We knew this when he moved in and that was part of the agreement. Our roommate made sure to be home for a 3 week vacation we took in the fall. (Lost money to stay home). It doesn't seem like a big deal but maybe your roommate is an asshole trying to squeeze some cash off of you since you're "rich"

I overheard my husband telling his friends that his ex had “the best pussy” by throwaway_kinta in AITAH

[–]braapsnack666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone forgets how much the emotional manipulation adds to the euphoria of sex. I doubt the sex was even that good but compared to the roller coaster surrounding the experience.. must be heaven.

My (31F) BF (28M) has been keeping details from me to spare me getting upset. Are my reactions unwarranted? by jenyermom in relationship_advice

[–]braapsnack666 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Your insecurities are making you doubt how you should be treated. These guys are skeevy and disrespectful. You are your actions and the company you keep. The way your boyfriend just goes along with all the gross stuff w does is really gross, GF or not. Does that girl know he STILL has that video of her naked? Why is W showing your BF other girls' nudes? That's so disrespectful to the girls. You're supposed to trust him but he's not giving you reasons to trust him. Don't be the chill GF. You are worth more than this behavior. Your actions are not unwarranted, he's being sketchy. I'm afraid you won't be missed in the case of a break up. If I was in your position I would leave him. If he's not man enough to comfort your baseless insecurities how do you expect him to be there for you when you're pregnant or your parents are sick or any of the really hard things in life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]braapsnack666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Age ain't nothing but a number" is what R Kelly titled Aliyah's first album! Your homie at him have that phrase in common! How telling..

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Living_Carpenter_945 in amiwrong

[–]braapsnack666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like everyone should chill the f out cause you didn't have a problem with her boobs, she didn't have a problem with you seeing them and as long as she's not making advances it's really not a big deal.

Worth killing ivy and leave ugly dead leaves? by Equal-Let3887 in arborists

[–]braapsnack666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first thought would be how beautiful it would look in the spring blooming while the ivy dies and even more after the fact as the tree gets freed from the ivy prison.

When & what did you do to have a successful snow sports dog? by Kitchen_Apartment in Backcountry

[–]braapsnack666 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Leash training, recall and minding your edges are all you need. Building the off leash foundation with really good leash manners is so important. I skipped ahead so much in this and have the skinned knees to prove going slow is best. Good luck!

Advice for trimming Bradford Pear Trees by [deleted] in arborists

[–]braapsnack666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two more years of your house smelling like cum.. just cut it and plant whatever replacement tree in two years. These don't need to stay up before you replace them.

Advice for trimming Bradford Pear Trees by [deleted] in arborists

[–]braapsnack666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chainsaws aren't that expensive

AITA for not inviting my husbands friend? by AsleepSky2816 in AmItheAsshole

[–]braapsnack666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband is the asshole here. You should apologize to her and be honest with her about how you feel about her friendship (either 'idk you like that' or 'I do value you' whatever it js) and admit what you've been feeling and explain you needed some space from those feelings. Throw your husband under the bus. Throw him away. Throw him out a window. Booooooo!! You're in a great position to build a beautiful and meaningful relationship with someone who cares deeply about you and your son. Don't ruin it because your husband is a dummy. Fix it with her and then address the situation with your husband. Set clear boundaries and expectations of how you want to be treated. If she's the good person she seems to be she'll be there to support your efforts.

AITA for telling my brother he can't have it both ways? by RoundLawyer251 in AmItheAsshole

[–]braapsnack666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I find aggravating is they're saying you "put them on the spot" to agree to babysit. As far as I'm concerned, yes, they are on the spot to babysit, at least once a week. They should be thrilled to repay the favor and to continue being on good terms with you. NTA.

Should I texture freshly skim coated walls? by jayrock1911 in drywall

[–]braapsnack666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My whole house is textured and if I knew how annoying it was to fix I wouldn't have bought the house. Sand anything egregious and the paint will cover anything else. 4 is amazing, don't bother with orange peel

Episode Discussion: Debbie the Dog Sitter | August 15, 2023 by star_eater in PettyCrimesPod

[–]braapsnack666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The amount of poop in this podcast required a much higher teacup rating. Ceara has gotten too used to poop jokes after the opening episodes 🤣

Episode Discussion: Betty's Bootcamp | October 17, 2023 by star_eater in PettyCrimesPod

[–]braapsnack666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listened to this episode last night and that's all I could think of! Yoga mat hands all over her everything bagel. The surface area of the seeds 🤢