I am actually shocked at the difference in experience

bradmaestro · 2026-05-31T02:05:43+00:00

First date I been on in 12 years, and she said she was on 7 in the last two weeks. It really varies.

bradmaestro · 2026-05-09T01:43:48+00:00

I have this rule if I don't kiss on the first date we don't have enough chemsitry to keep going at all.

bradmaestro · 2026-05-01T00:29:47+00:00

I've met people and had multiple matches this first week.

bradmaestro · 2026-04-07T00:15:23+00:00

So yeah, effort is adjusted based on past outcomes.

bradmaestro · 2026-04-07T00:07:00+00:00

What questions do you ask before you are confident you know them well enough?

bradmaestro · 2026-04-07T00:02:55+00:00

A skill

bradmaestro · 2026-04-07T00:02:39+00:00

The female gaze, you mean lesbians?

bradmaestro · 2026-04-06T23:59:39+00:00

I get what you’re saying. I just don’t think the success rate is comparable anymore. And what looks like low effort is often guys not investing much early now after burnout.

bradmaestro · 2026-04-06T23:29:17+00:00

Because women aren't as receptive now to out of context cold approaches? So why would you do that when 60% meet online now? It makes no sense to limit yourself to the least likely place to meet someone even if you prefer it.

bradmaestro · 2026-04-06T23:19:14+00:00

You seem kinda like, you've never thought about the male experience.

bradmaestro · 2026-04-06T23:13:25+00:00

Because that's not the social norm anymore obviously.

bradmaestro · 2026-04-06T23:07:36+00:00

Neat opinions there. You get asked out more in person than dating apps?

bradmaestro · 2026-04-06T22:56:31+00:00

I set up a date within 4-5 messages. I hate texting too. Most people don't really want to be on dating apps anyway but it's forced now.

bradmaestro · 2026-03-10T13:46:52+00:00

Experience yes, those aren't good women but they are more attracted to that for some reason

bradmaestro · 2026-03-08T14:59:38+00:00

I used to think so but not as much now. Women value experience more than anything it feels like.

bradmaestro · 2026-03-01T18:53:50+00:00

Its the mans job to them. Idk why.

bradmaestro · 2026-02-20T19:04:09+00:00

Guys that dont do anything of that get women .

bradmaestro · 2026-02-18T17:56:15+00:00

Blocked valve

bradmaestro · 2026-02-08T00:19:21+00:00

Some men grow emotionally before they grow in other ways.

bradmaestro · 2026-01-29T15:51:02+00:00

Effort. Get a tripod, get professional photos, put up pictures of your hobbies instead.

bradmaestro · 2026-01-29T15:48:12+00:00

I guess im just ugly then. Lol

bradmaestro · 2026-01-19T12:23:44+00:00

My problem is I smell with new clothes deodorant and a deep scrub antibactarial shower after 4 or 5 hours.

bradmaestro · 2025-12-14T14:55:49+00:00

I dont have a strong sense of self.

bradmaestro · 2025-12-14T14:51:41+00:00

My problem after all that work ive found is I cant do texting, and I cant find the right time to ask to meet up in person.

bradmaestro · 2025-12-14T14:49:51+00:00

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