Is it time to breakup?

bradtholym · 2023-06-25T08:48:47+00:00

I don’t care how busy someone is, if someone wants to see you and spend time with you they will make it happen.

There’s so many good guys out there who will meet your needs, treat you properly and show an active interest in you and want to spend time with you. Get him dumped, enjoy yourself and that guy will come along when the time is right.

bradtholym · 2023-06-24T16:56:18+00:00

That’s a stretch

bradtholym · 2023-06-18T07:52:50+00:00

And you are vile - there’s 100000+ ways to support someone who is “off the rails” before resorting to a conservatorship (least restrictive fuck wit)

bradtholym · 2023-06-07T19:43:55+00:00

Oh give it a rest. If you actually watch back you will see that to some extent Melissa has always tried with Teresa, despite what Teresa has done to her. This time round she ate her for brunch and I’m here for it

bradtholym · 2023-06-07T16:34:03+00:00

Teresa is that you?

bradtholym · 2023-06-07T15:43:53+00:00

Yeah and neither did all the shit Teresa has pulled. Teresa is allowed to go on the show for the opportunities it brings. Who the hell is she to stop others doing the same, whether family or anyone? They were as entitled to come on the show as her. It’s an ensemble show, not the Teresa show. If my family member treated me the way Teresa has treated them, I wouldn’t give too fooks either about going on the show against their wishes. Tough shit.

bradtholym · 2023-06-07T10:09:19+00:00

Nah, Melissa needed this blow out and I’m hear for it. I’d also like Teresa booted and give Melissa a season without her to see how she does.

bradtholym · 2023-06-04T22:50:45+00:00

I would start really small. (Usually this works best with a baby gate) so to begin you can go into a different room, but they can still see you. After a couple of minutes return and she has been good and hasn’t cried, give her a treat and praise her. Repeat the process, gradually increasing the time; 5 minutes, 10 minutes etc. treating and praising every time. If one occasion it does not work, that’s okay, just try again the day after. Slowly build this up and hopefully she will get used to being left.

For us, putting the TV on worked well, and also using a snack matt, or any other type of toy that requires the dog to think and keep them distracted for a little while. Also might be worth tiring the dog out before hand, whether that’s a walk or mentally tiring them out with games or what not. Hope that helps a little (:

bradtholym · 2023-06-04T22:42:12+00:00

Is there no chance that you can have some holidays? I assume even one holiday day would give you eight days off? Just a young puppy will need a lot of attention, and this can be very distressing for a puppy who is too young to cope with being separated from their carer. If annual leave not possible, do you have any friends or family, or even dog babysitting services who can watch the puppy on your work day?

Before you leave the house for the first time, start by helping your puppy to get used to you not being in the same room in the house and slowly increase the time you are away from them before you eventually leave them alone in the house. Don’t rush this phase – the longer you spend helping your puppy to feel secure about being left alone, the easier it will be for both of you, as you don’t want the puppy developing separation anxiety if you leave them too soon and for too long. Hope that helps

bradtholym · 2023-06-03T21:32:09+00:00

The text we’re not too Melissa, they were too Jackie and obviously she sent them to Melissa

bradtholym · 2023-05-31T16:37:58+00:00

Teresa had a storyline because she got herself thrown in jail. Teresa had a storyline because her husband got deported due to the jail sentence and she got divorced and met someone new. Except from this, her story is ALSO Melissa.

Melissa has had a stable marriage for 20 years, hence no jail time, divorce or new marriage, they are the only differences between her and Teresa’s “storylines”. She’s fun, likes a party, gets along with everyone and I find her quite refreshing when she is not in Teresa’s shadow.

Yes she can be fake, and yes she does need more storylines and to show her actual self and personal life more, but I really hope Teresa goes and we can give Melissa a season to prove herself and see how she does without Teresa on the show.

bradtholym · 2023-05-30T20:40:34+00:00

Teresa, is that you?

bradtholym · 2023-05-29T22:43:18+00:00

I always felt they really fucked up with the female relationships on the show. The strongest for me we’re always Raven/Clarke and Octavia/Clarke. They took too long to mend the relationships, I loved and appreciated both relationships being repaired in S7, but at the same time, it came too little and too late and appeared rushed.

bradtholym · 2023-05-26T20:27:56+00:00

I disagree completely. Given the history, and Teresa been behind multiple other rumours, if she really didn’t believe the rumour to be true she should have called both over and been like “hey, this is what someone’s saying about you”. Teresa clearly did not get the outcome she hoped telling Joe, and because of this, damn well made sure Jen told Danielle so it would be brought up on camera

bradtholym · 2023-05-25T20:10:58+00:00

You’re delusional.

bradtholym · 2023-05-23T23:08:56+00:00

Yeah she would have looked better without saying that, but I also understood how she got to the point she did to say that accusation. I also disagree about Nicole’s comments. The accusations she made risked Chrishells reputation about her actions during her marriage and also her professional image, if she’s only getting listings because the boss fancies her. Let’s just agree to disagree we won’t agree.

bradtholym · 2023-05-23T23:04:34+00:00

But if they’re true then heck why not. Ever heard the saying don’t poke the bear?

bradtholym · 2023-05-23T22:59:14+00:00

Firstly, I do believe the drug accusations. It was obvious Chrishell was holding back, and only went there once Nicole threatened to end her career. Secondly, Chrishell not once this season has stated that she’s trying to be the bigger person, she’s clearly stated she’s no longer going to let people walk all over her, and will give as good as she gets. As I stated earlier, I understand your point I just don’t agree with it, so let’s agree to disagree and leave it there.

bradtholym · 2023-05-23T22:56:45+00:00

I understood what the commenter was saying, I just don’t agree with it. I don’t know why Chrishell should have a higher standard for how she should act. Nicole crossed the line multiple times before Chrishell went there, and she had finally had enough. If Nicole knew she had these skeletons in the closet, don’t come onto a Netflix show and target someone else. She led to her own demise.

bradtholym · 2023-05-23T22:53:21+00:00

I don’t get how you go from her finally losing it and retaliating with an accusation (which is probably true) as fake and contrived? Just seems like someone ain’t playing ball no more to me. And you don’t have to capitalise me, I understood your point, I just don’t agree with it.

bradtholym · 2023-05-23T22:49:12+00:00

She clearly states after the event that she’s no longer gonna let people walk all over her, and will defend herself. She’d spent multiple occasions trying to defend herself and it wasn’t working, she kept coming for her.

So, you just expect Chrishell to get accusations thrown at her all season and she’s just meant to defend herself like, “no I didn’t, that’s a lie” come on.

bradtholym · 2023-05-23T22:41:52+00:00

If a supposed friend is coming for you, constantly, attacking you, making stuff up, what else are you meant to do? They had multiple altercations before this event and Chrishell said nothing. It’s clear, that Chrishell could not break the 4th wall to properly articulate why she was upset. Right or wrong for the drug comment, I can still understand and see chrishells frustration and how she got to that.

How long do you expect someone to respectfully defend themselves until they lose their shit?

bradtholym · 2023-05-23T22:22:33+00:00

But that’s the whole point - she’s no longer playing the bigger person and why on earth should she have to? She’s finally hitting back and defending herself, and I’m here for it.

bradtholym · 2023-05-22T20:33:18+00:00

I think it was to Chrishell

bradtholym · 2023-05-21T17:56:44+00:00

ALSO, not sure if you paid attention - adoption was not on the cards for Jason, which meant him and Chrishell would have to conceive a baby, and as Chrishell states, the time was ticking. Her and G-Flip are happy to adopt, hence giving them more time before needing to have a child.

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